I'd go for stability. Smaller instances can be slow. If you want fast load times use a bigger one, like mastodon.social

But...

Bluesky should stop pushing their own protocol and adopt ActivityPub and the Fediverse. They really don't offer anything that Mastodon or even Threads already have. It's another centralized mess in the making.

Twitter is also turning into the same thing.

In Spanish these are called "camionetas", something like "truckettes".

I think it's from an insta/Twitter account named WeRateDogs, but I could be wrong.

Spaghetti is just Mamma Mia chinese noodles.

More like officially supported modding. For example, Gnome extensions are third party add-ons.

Duende

It's centralized and controlled by Canonical, it enforces updates and you can't disable it, sometimes when you uninstall snapd it cames back when you apt update and most importantly, it is painfully slow.

Arch Wiki has saved my ass so many times.