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crosspostato da: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/31956758

"Dere types" are like tsundere, yandere, etc.

Catherine - Has a cat theme but isn't literally a cat. She is treated like a cat and a tool by the antagonists that traumatized her. At first, she acts sweet and kind with a very disturbed, traumatized interior and acts distrustful to Belle (who has a black cat motif) but later warms up to Belle.

Belle - Belle's exterior is like a black cat -- shy and aloof. She, too, acts cautious and distrustful to Catherine, but ends up dating her.

Dominique - Dominique, at first, seems like a friendly and shy girl. She is very patient and kind, and appears as “one of the good ones” to Catherine after Natasha’s mistreatment of her. However, Dominique is actually best friends with Natasha, and is very violent. She screams at Catherine, insults her, and says she just wants Catherine to “shut up and die”.

Natasha - Natasha is one of the “owners” of Catherine, who she decides to treat as a “pet” because she reminds her of a cat (hence the name CATherine). Natasha and her friends invite Catherine into the friend group and they all live together, but Catherine is treated badly there and Natasha makes a plan to kill Catherine. She is very fake and manipulative, and at first is very sweet, ladylike, and kind, before revealing it to be a facade.

Nora - Nora has a bear theme. At first, like a bear, she is rather violent and plans to kill her love interest. However, she begins to show a dere side after warming up to her and no longer wants to violently attack her.

"Dere types" are like tsundere, yandere, etc.

Catherine - Has a cat theme but isn't literally a cat. She is treated like a cat and a tool by the antagonists that traumatized her. At first, she acts sweet and kind with a very disturbed, traumatized interior and acts distrustful to Belle (who has a black cat motif) but later warms up to Belle.

Belle - Belle's exterior is like a black cat -- shy and aloof. She, too, acts cautious and distrustful to Catherine, but ends up dating her before breaking up with her after realizing she thought she was in love, but never was. (They both find someone later).

Dominique - Dominique, at first, seems like a friendly and shy girl. She is very patient and kind, and appears as “one of the good ones” to Catherine after Natasha’s mistreatment of her. However, Dominique is actually best friends with Natasha, and is very violent. She screams at Catherine, insults her, and says she just wants Catherine to “shut up and die”.

Natasha - Natasha is one of the “owners” of Catherine, who she decides to treat as a “pet” because she reminds her of a cat (hence the name CATherine). Natasha and her friends invite Catherine into the friend group and they all live together, but Catherine is treated badly there and Natasha makes a plan to kill Catherine. She is very fake and manipulative, and at first is very sweet, ladylike, and kind, before revealing it to be a facade.

Nora - Nora has a bear theme. At first, like a bear, she is rather violent and plans to kill her love interest. However, she begins to show a dere side after warming up to her and no longer wants to violently attack her.

All I know is that I love anyone (with a preference for women) regardless of gender. I would say gender does matter to me since I prefer women, but I would love anyone regardless, and would gladly date women, men, and everyone in-between. not only this, but if my love transitioned, I would still love them.

Belle, age 16, throws away the heart of Catherine, age 15. She didn't really love Catherine, not really, so she had to string along Catherine like a doll so as not to upset her. I suppose, in a way, it seemed like a different kind of love, the way she didn't want to upset her.

Catherine gave and gave, and Belle sat, taking it all and forcing herself to give when she had barely anything. Belle, age 36, calls Catherine one day, her old friend from high school. She's finally ready to tell her she misses her and loves her, all those sweet words she didn't want to say 20 years prior. And yet Catherine said "I moved on, Belle. Why can't you?"

So, I (FtM) have this one cis woman friend who constantly makes fun of people who use pronouns like xe/xem, neopronouns, etc. I've also heard, though, that those pronouns make fun of the LGBTQ community, so I don't know how I should feel when my friend bullies and makes jokes about neopronoun users online.

In this case, Natasha and her friends.

Natasha is one of the "owners" of Catherine, who she decides to treat as a "pet" because she reminds her of a cat (hence the name CATherine). Natasha and her friends invite Catherine into the friend group and they all live together, but Catherine is treated badly there and Natasha makes a plan to kill Catherine.

She doesn't see Catherine as a person, but as an actual animal, a tool, and a nuisance, and wants to badly mistreat her which ends up traumatizing her.

I see people “being led on” a lot and I wonder, what are some actual signs of leading someone on in a relationship?

My 2 yr relationship with my GF is very good, I’m just curious because I do hear the phrase a lot without knowing the literal signs of it.

I also may have been “led on” before by exes.

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/31693938

I (trans man) have a best friend (cis man). Today, he texted me, saying that he encountered one of his friends (cis man) and the friend's boyfriend (trans man).

While I see the friend's boyfriend as quite androgynous leaning masculine, my best friend thinks he looks rather feminine and "just like a girl".

He still is trying to understand LGBTQ stuff, especially since he has had a transphobic, homophobic upbringing.

Anyway, my best friend called the boyfriend "she", so he replied with "I'm a guy, actually."

This confused my friend, apparently, and he said "How was I supposed to know when he looks so feminine?"

What is some advice I can give my friend? He's trying to understand, like I said, and I fully acknowledge and believe we are ALL guys. Everyone involved in this post. Me, my friend, his friend, and the boyfriend.

I (trans man) have a best friend (cis man). Today, he texted me, saying that he encountered one of his friends (cis man) and the friend's boyfriend (trans man).

While I see the friend's boyfriend as quite androgynous leaning masculine, my best friend thinks he looks rather feminine and "just like a girl".

He still is trying to understand LGBTQ stuff, especially since he has had a transphobic, homophobic upbringing.

Anyway, my best friend called the boyfriend "she", so he replied with "I'm a guy, actually."

This confused my friend, apparently, and he said "How was I supposed to know when he looks so feminine?"

What is some advice I can give my friend? He's trying to understand, like I said, and I fully acknowledge and believe we are ALL guys. Everyone involved in this post. Me, my friend, his friend, and the boyfriend.