SovietyWoomy

joined 6 years ago
[–] SovietyWoomy@hexbear.net 4 points 1 hour ago

Voting for genocidal bigots is dumber

[–] SovietyWoomy@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

metaphor for dysphoriaI feel like I was born without legs. Everyone says I have legs. Every external indicator says I have legs. But something has always felt wrong. Sometimes that feeling was in the background and I could function well enough. Sometimes it was at the forefront and something that should so obviously be doable felt completely impossible for some inexplicable reason.

One of those impossible things is the marathon I've been entered into without my consent. Learning the theory of running doesn't actually require having legs, so I was able to do that. All the more evidence for the external world that I actually do have legs. But I can't actually run. It seems so incredibly easy to understand once I realised I didn't have legs. Even as the phantom pain from the legs I don't have consumes me, it feels like there could be a light at the end of the tunnel in addition to the oncoming train. I need to be pulled from the marathon, given prosthetics, and provided with a safe environment where I can learn to walk.

Unfortunately, I live in the only country in the world that would still tell me to go fuck myself if this was about actual legs. Without preexisting wealth or a significant support network capable of providing material support, prosthetics are unobtainable. All I can hope for is to be told to pull myself up by the leg straps. The marathon maintains this cruelty. Anyone who cannot run fast enough is eliminated. My execution is all but preordained, but as the phantom pain continues to gnaw away at me I'm not even sure I'll live to see it.

[–] SovietyWoomy@hexbear.net 3 points 2 weeks ago

I relate to this. My birth father was a piece of shit and set a very low bar. My stepfather dug way under that. The amount of abuse my mother, my sister, and I suffered and continue to suffer should easily be enough to entitle us to a lifetime of disability benefits. I'm the only trans person, but they both had their own problems on top of the hell we lived in. My sister somehow broke free and got a life. My mom thrived in a retail job until covid and the incompetence of the nepo baby in charge killed the chain. I always did well in school somehow, but anything beyond that has always felt completely impossible.

I wish I could say something meaningful to help, but I'm clueless too.

[–] SovietyWoomy@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago

Still feeling panicky and overwhelmed after coming out to my mom even though it went well. How long does it take for that to go away? I just want to go back to feeling happy again.

[–] SovietyWoomy@hexbear.net 20 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Came out to my mom. Tl;dr it went well.

Holy shit that was so scary. Even though I had good reason to think it be would fine it was so scary and I felt all the self confidence I'd built up over the last few days evaporate. Still glad I did it though, no regrets. She loves me and she supports me, and she's also very worried for my safety because amerikkka and because we live with my other parent who is very abusive. She was completely caught off guard and thought I might have been gay which I am now so I'll take it. She's also worried about how the heck I'm going to afford any of this because amerikkka and because I've spent most of my life as an unemployed girl failure. I don't even want to consider getting a j*b before being a good amount into transitioning. If I'm honest with myself, it miiiiiight be the tiniest bit bearable sometime after that, but don't tell anyone because I don't want to seem employable. I have some savings to get started, but that won't last forever. Why does this all have to cost money?

[–] SovietyWoomy@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Changed my name in my phone and then panicked and changed it back a few seconds later in case it somehow gets shared with people and outs me to my entire contact list. It was weird seeing the letters I've spent my entire life being used to replaced by different letters in a different word of a different length. I'm sure I'll get used to it at some point. I still love my name.

Planning on coming out to my mom soon. It should be fine. I've mentioned trans rights a few times during random amerikkka rants and she's always agreed. Is it cis to tell one's mother that she should buy her daughter a cute skirt?

[–] SovietyWoomy@hexbear.net 28 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

My egg has not survived the most recent round of questioning. I know there will be problems to come, but in this moment I accept myself as trans.

[–] SovietyWoomy@hexbear.net 51 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

It's wild how many people think that ending segregation would somehow be easier than making facilities that are separate but equal

It's wild how many people think that striking for higher wages would somehow be easier than working harder to prove they deserve it

It's wild how many people think that destroying i*rael world somehow be easier than asking zionists to stop committing genocide

[–] SovietyWoomy@hexbear.net 24 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Vote blue no matter who

[–] SovietyWoomy@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Genocidal

Nazi

Puppet to the US

That's 3/3 on things liberals love

[–] SovietyWoomy@hexbear.net 34 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Didn't the Biden administration already declare that anticapitalism was domestic terrorism?

[–] SovietyWoomy@hexbear.net 12 points 5 months ago

glasses-off Liberals doing nothing

glasses-on Liberals actively supporting nazis, zionists, and genocide

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