I'm currently in a relationship with someone I met on Bumble which I used for about two weeks, so it's not all bad.
Pro-tip: if you do pay for premium, make a Google Play account with the address set to any Filipino library, and pay with your normal PayPal account. Regional pricing makes it cost like $4/month.
I've always thought of it like the prime directive: you shouldn't interfere, you should only be there in a supportive fashion when it happens.