Sibling have you seen the submarine drama lmao, that's was sign number 1.
The US-CA-UK-AUS-NZ bourgeoisie is essentially unified. The Canadians and Aussies mine, the Brits finance, the Americans fix the markets, and they'll all move to Kiwi-Occupied Aotearoa when WW3 starts.
OP is not going to torture themselves by staying friends with a person they had feelings for lmao. You can actually, readjust your perception of people. You're showing the same thinking that men and women can't be friends despite both of those being entirely cultural institutions.
You thinking normal advice about how to build friendships and setting boundaries is a "lib salad" is telling for how you view relationships and other people. You called me a lib while professing Conservative Liberalism.
It's great that you provided the type of advice OP is avoiding from their male friends