[-] Noedel@lemmy.world 18 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I used to be very skinny, like 58 kgs at 186. I met my wife when I was 18 and she loves skinny dudes 😂

Regardless, I did feel self conscious about my skininess because I was bullied for it in school. I've both accepted myself, but I also gained about 15kg of muscle by doing starting strength. I'm by no means ripped, but I do feel like I carry myself with more confidence and that goes a long way.

Also, my dude, take this from someone in a 20 year relationship... Looks are neat and all, but finding someone you can actually stand, spend a lot of time and plan a life with is a significantly more worthwhile trait to pursue.

[-] Noedel@lemmy.world 55 points 4 months ago

I know I'm in the wrong for missing her text

You are not.

Source: 20 years of a successful marriage.

Your partner has some issues she seems to need to work through. Entertaining her delusions probably won't help her.

[-] Noedel@lemmy.world 24 points 4 months ago

Lol, have you been following the news much?

[-] Noedel@lemmy.world 18 points 7 months ago

Except nearly half of the people impacted didn't vote leave...

[-] Noedel@lemmy.world 56 points 7 months ago

Maybe lefties boycotting Tesla will cause MAGAs to go electric... Silver lining?

[-] Noedel@lemmy.world 30 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Immediately lost me at non-tactile keyboard. Who wants this.

[-] Noedel@lemmy.world 16 points 9 months ago

Thanks. I think I'm overthinking this. I've never been in a place in life where I would be able to help people like this but I've caught a few lucky breaks career wise where I get to so a job I love that also happens to pay very well... So this is new territory for me.

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submitted 9 months ago by Noedel@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

My neighbour has a cat called Stevie. Stevie hangs out with us a lot and we look after him when my neighbour is away.

Yesterday we found Stevie very unwell in our garden. We took him to the neighbour and she immediately rushed him to the vet.

She mentioned the vet was 200 dollars which was a big unexpected expense for her. Her son's birthday is on Monday and she won't be able to do anything for his birthday now.

My wife and I are fortunate enough for 200 dollars to not be a lot of money for us and we want to help, but I'm unsure how.

One option would be that we leave her a little card with 100 dollars and write that we wanted to help because we care about Stevie too.

Another idea is we ask her to do some gardening for us (that's her job, and we're too busy to do it ourselves right now).

I don't want her to feel patronised or awkward about any of this... Happy to take insights.

[-] Noedel@lemmy.world 19 points 9 months ago

"the rock may or may not cause the inability to cum and sleep"

[-] Noedel@lemmy.world 16 points 9 months ago

Most of them wouldn't be into mysogenists though

[-] Noedel@lemmy.world 17 points 10 months ago

If tofu is still ten times better for the planet than cheese I don't think it's "mostly beef" that's the problem.

[-] Noedel@lemmy.world 22 points 10 months ago

People want to change nothing and point at corporations or billionaires like their own choices couldn't reduce suffering and emissions.

[-] Noedel@lemmy.world 49 points 1 year ago

If people are going to switch, they should really know better and switch to mastodon

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submitted 1 year ago by Noedel@lemmy.world to c/auckland@lemmy.nz

I literally can not wait for this. Cycling there is so awful.

Suck a shame they don't do a town centre upgrade. The Grey Lynn shops could use some love.

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submitted 1 year ago by Noedel@lemmy.world to c/world@lemmy.world
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submitted 1 year ago by Noedel@lemmy.world to c/hiking@lemmy.ml

Went her as a side trip on the Rees Dart track from Queenstown. It was a pretty grueling ascent from the hut, climbing almost 1000 metres on scree and rocks. The 18 km round trip took us quite a while!

This hike (5 days total) was absolutely stunning.

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