[-] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Actually thats HELLA good to know. I havent really settled on anything yet since I'm still active duty/getting through my masters degree, and I've got about 4 years to retirement, but that is going to be a huge influence.

My buddy actually moved out to St Paul, and he says he's about 40 mins from Wisconsin's border. He's the one who gave me the idea because he's been begging my husband and I to move out there, as he's very Lefty and loves it, and he thinks we would too. I don't disagree with him, I was just in tunnel vision with my literal personal crusade, until he mentioned how close he was to the Wisconsin border. I was like "Oh I could definitely be a Public Defender there then!"

Thank you so much for the information!

[-] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Honestly? Same.

I'm currently getting my Masters degree in Public Admin so I can go to law school after I retire from the military. I wanted to specifically move to a red state because I know no matter what happens in November, red state legislature will always affect the disenfranchised population moreso than in blue states.

However, now that the military has left me in Texas for this long (10+ years by the time I retire), I'm fucking tired.

So, the tentative plan now (I still have 4 years) has switched from moving to Florida post-military, to instead moving to Minnesota, and then taking the bar in Wisconsin to practice (and yes, eventually other red states that I have experience in...like Texas 🤮). I think itll be better for my mental health which will help me top of my game for assigned clients.

Ugh, and to think, pre-2016 my plan was to retire and be a night shift manager at a Circle K.

Edit: Also fuck hot weather year round.

[-] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 99 points 2 weeks ago

This fucking lie ended a conversation (that started about plumbing of all things!) between myself and my father with me screaming at him for being racist and him hanging up on me saying "Enjoy your fucking liberal life. Im hanging up now. Love you. Bye."

As a rule, I do NOT speak politics with my family because theyre HUGE MAGAts and Im the exact opposite. But my father is one who HAS to bait me. He just...its in his fucking DNA code or something. And usually I grit my teeth through it, but I couldnt this time.

Ughhhhh this pisses me off so much because I really thought that he would snort and roll his eyes at THIS lie at least. But no. He unironically believes this shit. Its fucking dangerous.

[-] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 64 points 1 month ago

Omg I would fucking LOVE IT if he became known as Coach over that Alabama Fuck who held up key military promotions in Congress because the DoD put out guidance saying women seeking abortions in restricted states could take convalescent leave to do so. He wants so badly for everyone to think of him as "Coach". Fuck yeah Walz, dont let him have that!

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Our boarder gets the most photogenic pictures of our dogs, I swear.

[-] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 60 points 5 months ago

I mean, I kind of like the fact that he's flexing paying his taxes to other billionaires, signaling that he's better than them for doing so. It would be kind of nice if every billionaire started flexing on one another like this and started trying to one up one another to showcase "whose the better person" sort of thing. Pipe dream, I know, but a girl CAN dream after all.

[-] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 79 points 5 months ago

A group of retired Generals/Admirals are the ones who convinced Congress to repeal DADT back in 2011 so our LGBTQ+ brethren could openly serve.

I understand that the entire Government has changed since then, and it's an entirely different branch of the Government that they're petitioning, but fuck, this gives me hope.

These people do still have some sort of influence, and they're attempting to use it for good. That makes me happy.

[-] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 57 points 6 months ago

Man, OPs caption unlocked a core memory I have of calling my high school boyfriend at 858 pm, and talking on the phone with him for about 2.5 hours before he got notified that he was under 10 mins left for the month.

We had thought he was only going to lose 2 of his minutes 😭.

[-] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 83 points 7 months ago

As horrendous as this story is (and yes, this man does deserve to get compensation for what he's been through), I agree.

This feels like the very subversive thing that someone with a nefarious mindset would pull to push vulnerable people more into the "manosphere" type mindset.

It may seem innocuous at first, "OH! It's just a user sharing a story that factually happened!"

But it's the pulling up of an old article about an enraging topic while women's rights are being stripped away/we're seeing a huge surge of Andrew Tate-style influences being held up by the younger male generation. This type of stuff absolutely normalizes hatred/mistrust of women by the redpill/blackpill fans.

[-] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 114 points 7 months ago

From the article: "Also in 2022, a Michigan Republican candidate said he told his daughters “If rape is inevitable, you should just lie back and enjoy it.”

I do not think I've ever read a statement from someone that has pissed me off so fucking quickly. Someone needs to check on this man's daughters and fucking take them from him, forcibly if necessary, ASAP, and then put them with a family who legitimately loves them.

FUCK I HATE THIS TIMELINE.

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CW: US Politics. IG Reel from The Late Show's official IG page with a fake interview starring Day One Dictator himself: Donald Trump

[-] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 126 points 9 months ago

And they claim that they "don't hate women they just love babies! <3 <3"

I am disgusted, but not surprised.

[-] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 61 points 10 months ago

Imagine being an American so privileged and revered you get paid to live in Italy in one of the most historically iconic places on Earth...

... and you throw it all away so you can hate on gay people and vaccines. Wtf.

[-] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 57 points 1 year ago

YES OMG GET FUCKED TUBERVILLE, YOU FUCKING PRICK!

I've said before I was terrified of the DoD capitulating to this fucking sorry excuse for a human being, but I'm glad to see his actions have had negative consequences for him specifically.

Ugh, even if this wasn't done to protect the younger generation of women joining the armed forces, I'll take it. It's one less location that they can be sent to (yes of course Maxwell exists, as well as Scott in MO and alllllllll the fucking bases in Texas and Florida, so it's a small win, but it IS a win)

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Holy snap, that's steep! I was contemplating the "Future Bravolebrity" but that's out of my wallet range atm 😂. I think I'm for sure gonna budget for the basic entrance though.

I've never been to BravoCon and I'm made stoked about going!

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My girlfriend and I are anxiously awaiting these ticket prices. She's a Bravoholic, I only watch the RH Franchises.

Anyone else considering going? I'm pretty stoked because I lived in Vegas for 4 years so it's a chance to go visit my old haunts/friends!

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