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I'd agree with the other poster that maybe setting moderation goals would be a really good first step. I guess it depends if you're aiming for less masturbation, less porn, or less specific types of porn. And it depends on what level you currently find problematic.

For some people the problems with the addictivness of porn are linked to the dopamine hits of modern Internet porn, searching for the perfect thing, changing to newer / different stuff frequently. The a first step might be to continue to use porn when you need to, but your only allowed a single fairly tame video that you've downloaded. Eventually it'll feel boring and you'll it's not really just porn your craving, it's the whole dopamine hunt.

It's why vapes work so well for many people in giving up smoking. Nicotine is physically addictive and hard to resists, but also just getting your nicotine without all the other fun parts of cigarettes quickly makes it feel less tempting. It's much easier to give up something meh than something you're obsessed with.

With any addiction or habit you want to change the most important part is not expecting it to just be done with, however hard you try. If you want to stop looking at porn all the time, then becoming someone who struggles with porn, and still breaks every couple of weeks is a big step. If you can keep that up for a longer time you might start being someone who breaks every three weeks and so on. What's tempting is to say "I can't do it, so why even try" and just give up.

Also, it's up to you why you want to stop a habit like that. Being conscious of your reasons and motivations can make it a postive step (whcih is easier to motivate) rather than just something you're preventing yourself from doing. When I was giving up smoking, it was helpful to think about postivies (breathing easier, having more energy, not stinking of smoke) because when I felt stressed and wanted a smoke telling myself "no you shouldn't" wasn't motivating.

It can also be helpful to identify the steps that lead up to a difficult decision point. If you're not wanting to look at porn, but you find yourself thinking "but I'll just look up some innocent pictures of blahblahblah, that's not porn, that's okay" and then suddenly you're in a situation that requires much more willpower to not fall down the rabbithole.

Good luck!

Commenting cause I'm interested in the answer too. From reading online the basic idea is digging the cellar lower in the ground (how deep depends on your soil) to keep the temperature regular, and adding appropriate ventilation to remove damp and warm air.

Are you looking for other books because that ones not good? Or because you can't get a copy of it. Because it's in Anna's Archive if you want to check it out (and then, if you like it, try to buy a copy).

What looks realistic on screen is carefully pieced together from countless shots. An erotic moment feels much less hot if it's the 29th time you've performed the exact same moment, and there's a dozen guys standing around holding microphone booms and complaining about the lighting not being right, and some dude keeps sending for more fake sweat to reapply to your forehead.

I don't know a single person who would marry for that sort of reason. But the people I know weren't under any pressure to get married. Some of them are single, some are in long term committed relationships with kids, and some are married.

Maybe if you live in a subculture that expects people to get married by a certain age this is an OK take. But it's so far from what I see that it seems like a really niche perspective on a complex cultural institution.

Cool image. What's the context?

I'm sure that's handy, but I'm disappointed. I thought it was going to be a weird shrine where I could in-game move symbolic items that represent the different mods I have installed, and their location in the shrine changes their load order.

I've (fortunately) never seen such a story. What sorts of things are usually reported on being considered for deletion?

Awesome!

I can "look like I'm listening" or "actually try to listen", I can't do both.

I was today years old when I relaised that "gag" in that phrase presumably means "make me vomit" not "silence me". I've spent many decades being confused about that...

It really depends on how you define the traits of autism. Traits like "difficulties in social communication" are a big part of ASD profiles, but a condition like ADHD can also lead to problems in social communication for entirely different underlying reasons. Basically any complex human capability can go wrong for a variety of reasons, and completely different conditions can lead to quite similar problems, just because those problem areas require that everything is running together smoothly.

That said, I did an autism screening as part of my adhd diagnosis, and came out with 0/40. I joked, "oh good, so I guess at least I'm normal in that area" and they replied "uh, normally people get around 10-15/40, 0 is pretty rare". So I guess I'm pathologically un-autistic.