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Was hanging out with my cousins the other day and learned they got some brainworms that need to be bullied out of them. One of them uttered the words "gender ideology" and I swear I almost slapped the shit out of him in his parents kitchen. The funniest part was that his lib dad actually was on my side for once and joined in ripping into him over his shit takes.

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[-] forcequit@hexbear.net 27 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I don't have hard sources, could probably find relevant ones if I reeeallly had to. What's interesting isn't sports' exclusion of trans people, rather the supposed eligibility threshold resting on having never undergone natal puberty, juxtaposed against scare campaigns around targeting children, along with the already significant hurdles faced in accessing treatment prior to pubescence anyway.

sport: no trans athletes that haven't undergone hrt before the age of 14
law: no trans kids can undergo hrt before 16
perfect system

It's also just another method of exclusion and its supporters know it

[-] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago

Unfortunately a lot of its supporters like my idiot cousin don't know it. All throughout this engagement he insisted he was not transphobic until I forced him to claim that he was, because of this issue.

[-] forcequit@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

No no see I just care about the ~~muslims, gays~~ women and children in sport now

meanwhile we argue whether 10 year olds can be criminally responsible

[-] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago

Mia Mulder's video has a full list of sources in the description, so that's a start.

These are my own thoughts:It is absolute absurdity how people seem convinced that gendered sports are about getting rid of "unfair advantages" to begin with. Left-handed people are overrepresented in baseball, tennis, cricket, and boxing. There's a disproportionate number of people with autistic traits who play chess at a professional level. Are we going to make separate left-handed leagues for sports? Separate neurodiverse leagues? Faaaark oorfff. What makes sports interesting is that different people with different bodies are competing against each other. If we're going to pissé pant over people's differences then all sports might as well be played by teams of identical twins.

And what actually gives trans women an "unfair advantage" in sports, anyway? Are any of these traits, things like height or bone density or hormone levels, actually unique to trans women, or are they also found in some cis women? If there are any traits that are genuinely specific to trans women, what makes these traits different from left-handedness in tennis? If you're needing to craft sports policy that somehow excludes all trans women but also includes all cis women with less common traits, then that is transphobia cap-a-pie. Moreover it's misogyny cap-a-pie. It all relies on the same narrative not just that trans women are willing to uproot their lives and face immense discrimination just to win a medal, but that women are all weak and frail and need to be protected from some sort of outside menace or perversion. Somehow trans women are all so big and bulky and mannish that it's absurd to let us play football or something, but also so feminine and graceful that we can't be allowed into beauty contests. We're too stupid but also too clever. None of these narratives are consistent. These narratives aren't even new or unapplied to other groups previously.

So what is the point of women's sports, then? Well, it's about providing role models for girls, and it's about giving women athletes, who have faced discrimination in funding and attention, and been cut off from a lot of sports science, the opportunity to build athletic skills, right? All of this applies to trans women as well. Trans women can be role models. Trans women face discrimination (obviously). Trans women's bodies are underresearched and are not the same as cis men's. There are no distinctions you can draw between trans women and cis women that matters. People shouldn't fall hook line and sinker for this sort of pointless division of womanhood, just because they think trans women are kinda icky. That's all this really comes down to.

[-] Phen@lemmy.eco.br 14 points 1 year ago

Those are some really good points. I didn't have a fixed opinion on this subject before, as I want to support trans folks doing whatever they want, but also don't understand stuff enough to know if maybe someone who transitioned much later in life could perhaps have an advantage over cis women and even over trans women who transitioned earlier.

I had never thought that a simple "so what?" would be the answer to that reservation, but it makes sense. Professional athletes are not just folks who worked hard to get where they are. They did, of course, but on top of all that hard work, the lead athletes on pretty much every sport also had to win the genetic lottery to give them the edge over others who worked just as hard. It was never an even playing field.

[-] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago

Thank you I am definitely going to bring all these up to him, his dad will find this especially funny since he's a lefty and they all love baseball

[-] beltsin@lemm.ee 15 points 1 year ago

Reuters article, abc article, paper on hormone therapy effects for athletes. Based on the material it should be apparent that there isn’t sufficient scientific evidence to justify bans on transgender athletes, unless the sport in question offers notable advantages.

[-] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago

I tried that route already by telling him that this shit was already being used to ban trans people from chess tournaments. He's gonna need something more, possibly up to and including a punch in the mouth though I prefer it not go that way.

[-] forcequit@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago

Where's he getting "gender ideology" rhetoric from, and what are the motivations for him absorbing and repeating it. That'll inform whether to punch ig

[-] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

My guess is the Red Scare podcast. Coomer brain zoomer with a dangerous parasocial relationship with some podcasters.

Half of Hexbear wonder-who-thats-for

[-] Mindfury@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago

Fuck, may as well just smugly tell him that cisheteronormativity is also "gender ideology" and then powerbomb the fuck out of him

[-] forcequit@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago

Ew. Idk make him listen to better podcasts and also punch him maybe

[-] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago

So far the first one is the plan and the second one is unironically in the cards.

[-] aaaaaaadjsf@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

Coomer brain zoomer with a dangerous parasocial relationship

As an older zoomer, this kid needs to unironically touch grass and form meaningful relationships with real, decent people their age before their brain rots from the internet.

[-] beltsin@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago

Unfortunately there’s still a lack of scientific investigation, and what he do have is largely indecisive. BBC article discussing the absurdity of trans sport bans. Does he even know any trans athletes by name? There are so few that it’s news when someone does well, such as in the article it mentions Rachael/Ivy was harassed for her victory, despite losing against Wagner so many times before. Seems like some form of confirmation bias to me.

[-] robot_dog_with_gun@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago

the ioc's rules are hardly perfect (racism etc) but how many trans women have won olympic medals?

[-] Tachanka@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think the biggest tell when it comes to people mad about trans women in sports, is they aren't also mad about trans men in sports. In fact, they have no problem with forcing trans men to compete with cis men, but they have a whole ocean of crocodile tears ready for cis women being "forced" to compete with trans women. Why the asymmetry? Because they want to pretend to be protecting cis women, who are idealized and treated as personal property and reproductive assets in a patriarchal society. Cis women are the source of future workers (babies) for the ruling class. Cis women are the source of domestic servants (house wives) for the ruling class. They must be "protected" from what transphobes imagine are simply men in drag. Notice how transphobes are always advocating for forcing trans women to compete with cis men to "protect" cis women, but are never advocating for forcing trans men to compete with cis women to "protect" cis men. It's an entirely lopsided ideology fixated on cis women as property as an ideological facade for discriminating against trans people. They won't even advocate a half measure like creating separate leagues in sports for cis and trans the same way it's already separated between men and women, adult and child, abled and differently-abled, professional and casual. Because to do so might incidentally grant more legitimacy to trans identities by admitting them to be categories, and that's the last thing they want to do. They want to ignore, bury, and discriminate against trans people without acknowledging them, or even resolving the contradictions of their own beliefs. Same goes for nonbinary, intersex, etc.

[-] DroneRights@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

Gender ideology is when you teach children about gender. Gender identity doesn't begin developing until age 2-3, it begins to solidify at age 4, and it doesn't finish developing until the end of puberty.

I believe children below age 4 shouldn't be allowed to have gender. They can choose when they're old enough, and they can change their decision at any time. Of course there's no way to stop parents from gendering their children, but gendered pronouns should be kept out of the classroom until an appropriate age.

[-] mah@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

Trans athletes in women's sports: Is this fair? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cZ9YAFYIBOU

[-] Iraglassceiling@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago
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