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[-] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 123 points 2 months ago

Uh, that pop-up is "unpleasant feelings". Pain, discomfort, bad taste/smell, etc. If you went outside and started eating dirt, your brain would pop-up with "Hey, this tastes yucky, you should stop"

[-] The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world 74 points 2 months ago

The really dangerous thing is when something feels rewarding in the short term, but wrecks your life in the long term.

[-] Atelopus-zeteki@kbin.run 15 points 2 months ago
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[-] brbposting@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 months ago

Why can’t broccoli feel more rewarding

[-] WraithGear@lemmy.world 14 points 2 months ago

Cover it in olive oil and salt. bake at 400 for 20 minutes, and trick your brain into thinking its amazing

[-] brbposting@sh.itjust.works 14 points 2 months ago
[-] WraithGear@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

My brain is so gullible sometimes, i also tricked it into a biking hobby by going fast.

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[-] MadBob@feddit.nl 6 points 2 months ago
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[-] nxdefiant@startrek.website 64 points 2 months ago
[-] TachyonTele@lemm.ee 15 points 2 months ago

Lol that's awesome someone actually made that into a patch

[-] SidewaysHighways@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago

Man me as a 14 year old on original Xbox straight up feeling like I destroyed the world

[-] TachyonTele@lemm.ee 8 points 2 months ago

Everyone remembers where they were the first time they severed the thread of prophecy.

[-] SidewaysHighways@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Damn that's a good point.

I guess that was a right of passage for the time

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[-] jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works 53 points 2 months ago

My 16 year old: "I can't wait until I can do whatever I want!"

Me: "I thought the same thing. Turns out it's not as fun as it sounds."

[-] blandfordforever@lemm.ee 23 points 2 months ago

I respectfully disagree. I realize that everyone's experiences are different but I greatly prefer being an adult to being a child.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago

Being an adult got awesome once I developed basic self control

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[-] EnderMB@lemmy.world 45 points 2 months ago

There is a term for this, but I can't remember what it is.

It's a phenomenon where a person goes through their formative years in a given structure, where you are raised by your parents, go to school, and are given set goals for every year - do X and you'll get to Y. This goes all the way up to your early twenties if you go to university, possibly longer if you join a structured company with similar guardrails, or much longer when you join the armed forces and live in a regimented way.

Once people leave these guardrails, some really struggle with the freedom they are granted. No one has a goal to point you towards, no one cares if you fail, and ultimately your life has a degree of freedom you haven't experienced ever.

One thing we're terrible at as a society is either guiding people with no clear path, or supporting those that don't want a clear path and want to find one of their own. Some people really struggle with this, and the freedom of being able to do shit like overindulge on drugs/alcohol/food with no support or community support can ruin lives.

[-] AMillionNames@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 months ago

That's why religion unfortunately continues to exist. They are the imaginary guardrails, but towards an imaginary goal that is often taken advantage of.

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[-] thisisnotgoingwell@programming.dev 7 points 2 months ago

A lot of things are worth doing for the sake of challenging yourself, but then battling your own mind about if something is a wasted effort or not is the real war.

As a general rule, anything you have to repeatedly do you should master.

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[-] Nfamwap@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

A few years ago I worked as a telecoms engineer. The role itself was pretty free-roaming and a large part of your working day was unsupervised and allowed you to make your own decisions and your day to day achievements were pretty much all down to you and/or the guys you were working with.

Anyway, the company had a spell where they hired a lot of ex armed forces personnel into various engineering roles, many of whom had done long stints in the military. Pretty much every veteran I worked with was smart, hard working, organised and a joy to work with. With one caveat, most of them needed an 'order' to do a particular thing, or pushing into thinking for themselves. They had spent their entire working life in a structured, order based environment, that left them unprepared when they were given the freedom to think for themselves.

I can totally get how homelessness and addiction problems can beset people when the structure they have spent their whole lives within, is suddenly not there any longer.

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[-] I_Has_A_Hat@lemmy.world 35 points 2 months ago

There are no guardrails in life

Except for, of course, any actual guardrails you encounter.

[-] Norgoroth@lemmy.world 33 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Nah. Unless you have a severe condition like psychopathy or some other neuro divergent state, your brain is pretty consistent with giving you warnings. These take the form of "bad feelings" and second guessing. Most of us just choose to ignore them and then begin the mental gymnastics, altering the chemical pathways to justify and continue the behavior.

Does not necessarily apply to financial decisions because this is an artificial system with no basis in reality, brain is not wired to assess properly. Also why it's easy to con people so easily. No natural defenses.

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[-] jaybone@lemmy.world 27 points 2 months ago

The pop up is called natural selection. Any of your distant ancestors who clicked “Yes” to eating dirt did not survive.

Sadly, we have been so good at protecting people from stupid, we need the popups again.

[-] PsychedSy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 2 months ago

Never know if the dirt eaters won or not. They might've been up against shit eaters.

[-] Dragster39@feddit.de 6 points 2 months ago

Ah, the two party system, dirt eaters vs shit eaters. But more parties does not equal no dirt and shit, sometimes it just becomes dirt, shit, manure, fecal matter and plain old sand.

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[-] nexussapphire@lemm.ee 21 points 2 months ago

Picks up bleach.

What the fuck does that mean clippy?

[-] MeDuViNoX@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 months ago
[-] PsychedSy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 2 months ago

Yes. I'm 40 and leaving ~800k if I die at work. Tell my blood brother and other brothers I love them. Insist they spend 20k on drugs at my funeral. Buy lots of cheap and/or electric motorcycles.

Thanks Mr Clippy

[-] Quacksalber@sh.itjust.works 19 points 2 months ago

Ah, but have you considerd trauma? You might regret your choice for the rest of your life.

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[-] Doof@lemmy.world 16 points 2 months ago

I mean the taste of the dirt is kind of the warning?

[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

"Broccoli is one of the worst things you can eat! It even tries to warn you with its horrible taste!"

"...I like broccoli."

[-] Snowcano@startrek.website 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Nothing is true.

Everything is permitted.

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[-] Dubiousx99@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago

The are you sure message is your parents and peers looking at you like you are stupid.

[-] Shawdow194@kbin.social 10 points 2 months ago

Autonomy FTW

[-] AeonFelis@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago

* Goes outside *
* Tries to fly *

I think I've been lied to on the internet...

[-] milicent_bystandr@lemm.ee 19 points 2 months ago

The problem is you keep, too accurately, hitting the ground. You have to miss.

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[-] spaceguy5234@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

I mean that's what the wright brothers did, they went outside and just tried to fly until they could

[-] milicent_bystandr@lemm.ee 6 points 2 months ago

Yeah but they started off by being Wright.

[-] lugal@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 months ago

Windows users first time on linux be like

[-] Rolando@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

You want a Clippy for everyday life?

[-] ivanafterall@kbin.social 13 points 2 months ago
[-] guyrocket@kbin.social 14 points 2 months ago

I think this Clippy needs to make liberal use of the word "dumbass".

Looks like you're trying to eat dirt. Do you want help, dumbass?

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[-] huquad@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 months ago

Jesse, what the hell are you talking about?

[-] Sam_Bass@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

Thats what religion is supposed to do. If only it would stop at that....

[-] Thcdenton@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Did this person not have a mama?

[-] orangeboats@lemmy.world 14 points 2 months ago

Breaking news: not all parents are good at parenting.

[-] Dragster39@feddit.de 6 points 2 months ago

Footnote to news: An astonishing high number of parents should not have become parents

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