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This actually kinda worked...I think ๐Ÿ˜†
At least, wearing it felt amazing. I'm used to boymoding and wearing clothes that cover as much of my skin as possible. Compared to that, this felt so liberating, omfg ๐Ÿ˜ญ
I really love these jorts, because they emphasize the sway of my hips a lot. They prove my bf right, either consciously or subconsciously, I somehow developed a hip sway when I walk. I guess I could say that HRT changed the way I walk ๐Ÿ˜†
And the top, omg! The way it's made, it makes my boobs bulge out (in a good way). And I think it's really pretty too! I was almost sure that a top like this would make my shoulders look massive. But, it really doesn't seem to do that!

You can really see my hyperlordosis in these pictures tho ๐Ÿ˜ญ
I sit around waaay too much and my posture is garbage...
Also, I keep putting my knees together for some reason. My bf noticed and told me I shouldn't do it, but it just kinda feels...better? Less forced, I guess. Natural? Idk, anyway it looks really weird. I probably really should stop...

Anyway, this is just actually kinda neat. And also surprisingly comfortable. This another thing I could actually casually wear. Probably.
There are still some changes I want to make, but I think I'm already pretty happy with this one ๐Ÿ–ค






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[โ€“] thestrike@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Thank you Viv ๐Ÿฉท
You're the cutie tho :3

[โ€“] BluJay320@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Is it? ๐Ÿ‘€
It's one of the top things I feel insecure about...

Thank you so much ๐Ÿ’œ

[โ€“] StrassMav@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Very cute, you look stunning!

Tysm! ๐Ÿ–ค
Surprisingly comfortable for how good it looks ๐Ÿ˜‚

[โ€“] erinmeow@piefed.blahaj.zone 6 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Thank you Erin :3

[โ€“] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 6 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Really nice outfit and it flatters you. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป

Thank youuuu ๐Ÿฉท
Still not done tho. I'm painting my nails black...one of these days, I swear ๐Ÿ˜ญ

[โ€“] crowcore_explorer@piefed.blahaj.zone 5 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

You look amazing and really put together a great fit! <3

Thank youuuu <3
I literally just had to go to an ATM and wore what felt good lol. Worked out surprisingly well! ๐Ÿ–ค