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Whenever I try to talk politics (or ESPECIALLY world events) with Liberals, as soon as they determine that I am a leftist, they just get so fucking smug and have this sense of self-superiority about them. Exactly zero interest in having a good faith discussion. They are so incredibly dismissive and condescending.

Of course, no matter how much evidence that you provide, or how well you frame your arguments, you just get eye rolls and dismissed out of hand.

I am reminded of the Bernie campaigns when the liberal media pundits would behave with nothing more than sneering contempt at young people who just wanted fucking health care.

We know that they're like this BUT WHY? Why are they all such smug shit stains? I stg it's like their defining trait.

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[–] Blakey@hexbear.net 46 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

We live in a neoliberal world. They currently have what they see as a good reason to be smug, their ideas are reflected back at them by the most powerful members of society. So those ideas can build and hold political power.

They just don't fully recognise that they can't build and hold it that way.

Edit: by "they", of course, I mean workers with liberal politics. Liberal politicians and elites actually do have good reason to be smug, the world economy and political system currently serves their interests.

[–] btbt@hexbear.net 26 points 1 week ago (1 children)

bunch of adults with teachers pet syndrome

[–] Blakey@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago

Haha, that too no doubt!

[–] PKMKII@hexbear.net 42 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I find there’s this strong instinct with liberals to treat the establishment, legacy press and institutions as sacrosanct. Sure, they’ll acknowledge that those can make mistakes on a technical level, but this is only as a nod to the logic of fallibility. Practically, though, what’s printed and disseminated from them is considered the honest reflection of reality.

So when they see some nonsensical take from the NY Times about how Marx was wrong because he failed to consider the advent of ordering Chinese food delivery through a phone app, there’s no consideration about what Marx actually said about labor and technology. There’s no pause to wonder why the NY Times didn’t have a Marxist counter perspective. And certainly not a trace of concern that who owns the NY Times would play any part in why there would be a take dismissive of Marx in the “paper of record.” No, to them, a bad take on Marx wouldn’t make into the pages of the NY Times because the editors couldn’t possibly allow it.

And thus when someone disagrees with the worldview put forth by the establishment organs, this is not regarded as a difference of opinion or perspective. No, that is misinformation, and you? You’re the rube that fell for misinformation. To them, disagreeing with the NY Times’ take on Marx is no different than believing in chemtrails.

Of course, this get socially reinforced. They don’t want to come off as being the rube, and sticking to the establishment organ lines is what will earn them the praise of the Very Qualified People in the Room.

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[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 35 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I have never ever encountered this in the flesh world. I dont deal with any libs except everyone but me on hexbear when im online unless discussing hobbies.

It's really hard to get away with being smug face to face, smugness is a bad trait. Online...everyone is smug at all time. Im smug writing this. Smug comes wirh the territory here, it sucks but ain't new, people were smug online in the usenet era.

[–] Chana@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago

I have. They are the ones who think of themselves as very political, especially the careerists. Also, maybe unsurprisingly, they love weaponizing tokenism.

[–] purpleworm@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I've encountered it many times, though at this point I think incredulous anger is more common (and I mean truly incredulous as in somewhat unbelieving, as compared to the fully-credulous anger that I see from Republican types).

[–] LittleFellaNamedBoof@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Yes the anger is a big one. Especially about AES states when you fully come out and defend them. People will casually say completely false shit in everyday conversation as if its an obvious truth. Like "China is authoritarian" and then when you give the smallest amount of push back they short circuit.

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[–] Orbital@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

Online...everyone is smug at all time.

Here in the bear community, from time to time the choking clouds of smug ease off a little and a bit of humanity shines through. I mean you're not really wrong overall, this operation was born in the Reddit smug mines so that has some predictable outcomes

[–] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 33 points 1 week ago (1 children)

They like to think of themselves as the centrist adults in the room. They pride themselves on being the mature, rational ones who chose the realistic way to help the most people. They see republicans as violent, uneducated losers, and they see leftists as violent, unrealistic idealists.

In short, they're smug because they think leftism is childish and naive.

[–] KuroXppi@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

There's a poverty of imagination in liberalism, too. If this is the best existing system, then by extension any changes that can be made to improve it are minor tweaks, so we shouldn't aspire to any more.

It's also limiting in their sense of scale. You know the saying 'if the only tool you have is a hammer, then every problem looks like a nail', then the liberal problem is 'if the only tool you have is a nailclipper then a tapestry looks like a ribbon'. They can only think in incrementalism. The problems are then naturally reduced in their imagination into something that liberalism can solve.

[–] Doubledee@hexbear.net 31 points 1 week ago

People are taught that strong beliefs that are not in the mainstream are inherently flawed by virtue of being "extreme" and conditioning like that can go bone deep. They think they know better because they are told that their position is the informed moderate one that accounts for all the facts.

[–] QuietCupcake@hexbear.net 29 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think a lot of things we don't necessarily recognize as such actually come down to a kind of darwinian selection process. Power structures will always tend to reward those who help reproduce and reinforce that power structure. And since we live in such a firmly capitalist neoliberal power structure, anticommunism is not only the default, but any acts or even attitudes that perpetuate it tend to get rewarded. It will always be the path of least resistance when you don't, y'know, resist the prevailing power structure. And if you're sufficiently pro-capitalist you will be closer to the top of the stacked deck when it comes time for some luck of the draw. It's why the slimiest, the most self-serving, the most cruel individuals tend to float to the top and become CEOs because those traits are what best serve that system, the corporation. But it happens just as much in our "every day lives." We live in an environment that socially selects for being a smug liberal shitstain and so we're surrounded by smug liberal shitstains.

[–] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Unfortunately the environment that capitalist society selects for is incompatible for long term survival of the actual physical environment of Earth

[–] QuietCupcake@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago

Absolutely! There are selective forces working on the broader systems themselves. Neoliberal capitalism isnt just the structure that imposes a selection process on individual humans, it is itself also subject to the material circumstances of the entire world which puts selective pressures on economic systems. From geopolitical forces (China's model being obviously more "fit" to survive and even pass on its "genes" in the form of being a model that other nations can emulate) to, like you said, running up against the literal limits of a finite planet when capitalism demands infinite growth to sustain itself. As everyone here of course knows, these are some of the many examples of the contradictions inherent within capitalism, but I think using a Darwinian lens along with the Marxist one often works pretty well to frame how a lot of these things work.

[–] context@hexbear.net 27 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

when your income depends upon maintaining certain beliefs, most people find it's quite easy to maintain those beliefs and keep getting paid

https://redsails.org/masses-elites-and-rebels/

I find this usually stops once they realize what type of leftist I am. If they see you as some non-threatening electoralism following leftist they will act like that but whip out the "I hope Iran sinks a US Aircraft Carrier." or the "China is the only hope for humanity's future." and it turns into outrage pretty quick lol.

[–] Athena5898@hexbear.net 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think its how they protect their cognitive dissonance. To them they are right and better then those evil Republicans. I mean suuure they get closer and closer to voting in a blue Nazi but they are good and everyone else is bad. Check mate contrarian child.

[–] sexywheat@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think its how they protect their cognitive dissonance

This rings very true for me. It's much easier to outright dismiss an idea that contradicts what they already believe than it is to grapple with the consequences of "Well what if that's actually true?"

I'll give an example. I was talking/debating with some libs about the war in Ukraine (my first mistake) and I'll mention that I am Canadian - we are HEAVILY INVESTED in that war (and also have a huge number of ethnic Ukranians that live here). My point was that Ukraine joining NATO is a red line for Russia, and it shouldn't have surprised anybody that things went the way they did.

"Well Ukraine is a soverign country they can do what they please!"

Ok, what if Canada wanted to ally with Beijing and have DongFeng missiles pointed directly at Washington DC? We're a sovereign country, surely we can do that if we want to too, right? But how could we possibly not expect there to be dire consequences for doing something so reckless and stupid?

I thought that was an extremely straightforward and reasonable comparison, but it was met with eye rolls and immediately dismissed out of hand.

[–] nohaybanda@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Maybe they were rolling their eyes at the assertion that Canada is a sovereign country?

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[–] sexywheat@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago

No, that was me, and that was also met with eye rolls and immediately dismissed out of hand.

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[–] InevitableSwing@hexbear.net 24 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I'll add to what Blakey already said. Most liberals (openly or not) are firm believers in stuff like the US is a beacon of righteousness and goodness (in short: a city on a hill), the American dream, American exceptionalism, American civil religion (in a word: Voting!), etc. And liberals think they are exemplars of the best of America.

They don't like anybody - especially leftists - that the US is an insane outlier when it comes to such undeniable stuff as police budgets and the percentage of the American population that's incarcerated. It ruins their "If only I could go back to brunch!" mindset.

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Edit

I checked out Bluesky and this was literally the second post I saw:

There are no votes on the House schedule today. That doesn't mean they will not try to slip in the 70 Billion so ICE can continue imitating the Gestapo. CALL YOUR REPS.

I hate that "call your reps" stuff. Dem pols don't give a fuck about phone calls. If they're gonna vote for the gestapo - they're gonna.

[–] purpleworm@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago

It's worth remembering that 85% of the Democrat media ecosystem is laughing (or screaming) at Republicans for being stupid and backwards. They really get a concerning level of their self-identity from their sense of intellectual superiority that is solely enabled by their opposition being literally some of the most anti-intellectual people on the planet.

They are also taught to view any countrymen to their left as naive children who "make the perfect the enemy of the good" or who just want to start fires rather than engage in the adult tasks of getting things done. This can be seen in constant shower arguments they have both in media and to each other, which again are mostly directed at Republicans but can also be directed at progressives (see West Wing). You are liable to not be treated as a person but just this media-based archetype.

[–] Rindogang@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Some people expend very little energy on politics and injustice. They simply focus on their day to day lives and absorb the opinions of those around them. It isn't malice... it's just ignorance and arrogance

[–] Rindogang@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago

People's energy and jokes reveal one thing... they don't care.

[–] DornerStan@lemmygrad.ml 20 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] sexywheat@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago (3 children)

From NATOpedia:

Guests on the show included ... Abby Martin ... Lee Camp, Katie Halper, several members of Chapo Trap House, Briahna Joy Gray ...

Ok, I am intrigued.

[–] DornerStan@lemmygrad.ml 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's just the only palatable exposure to the quintessence of lib smugness that is The West Wing

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[–] Crucible@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

There's one with our dear boy matt-jokerfied talking about the very special 9/11 West Wing episode which is good as a standalone

[–] newacctidk@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

Watch Dave slowly lose any chill he had early on and literally make actionable threats towards Sorkin. It is kinda amazing to witness

[–] duderium@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago

A good podcast but one host is a dsa guy and the other is a lib.

[–] newacctidk@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago

I do sometimes wonder what comes first, the smugness or the incandescent rage whenever you reject their ideas and outflank them on the left. They need to be the adults in the room and also the only rational worldview. They don't so much believe in what their ideology is, they flatly cannot let themselves comprehend that what they think is ideology in the first place.

This is why they hate Marxists so much, because we make them publicly look like the monsters they are. They need tepid "well I don't love that we bomb children" to be the pinnacle of morality and kindness, and any argument that is righteous is an affront to their view of themselves. The smugness has to be there otherwise they realize the abyss they are standing over like Wile-e-coyote

[–] WokePalpatine@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Hopin' the new soviet man we build in a new society is able to actually debate an idea and come to a better conclusion because of it instead of what people are like currently.

[–] WokePalpatine@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I literally point to the info I reference and try to tie it to a broader point to get the other person to totally ignore and just repeat the dumb shit they already said.

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[–] CrawlMarks@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

We are smug also. We are correct so we should be smug about it.

Their concept of reality is mostly post modern and vibes based. As such they to make sure they are always right. It is a perfect system.

[–] NephewAlphaBravo@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

you're not wrong exactly, but also remember the difference between confident and smug and when to deploy each one

[–] CrawlMarks@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago

The PPB dialectic

[–] purpleworm@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

Smugness is usually antisocial and therefore not a great affect to have when talking to people.

[–] Juice@midwest.social 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Liberal philosophy emerged from enlightenment philosophy, which was adopted by the bourgeois during their ascension over hundreds of years to become the ruling class.

One of the primary tasks of the bourgeois, and the function of enlightenment philosophy to them, was to erode the power of the church, and eventually the monarchy, over the masses. This period, which developed at different times throughout Europe, is followed by "the ~~encirclement~~ enclosure" in which peasants who had lived self sufficiently for hundreds, maybe over a thousand years, were forced off the land and forced into the towns and cities on the outskirts, forcing people to travel extreme distances, most often on foot, to work the land for destitution wages they once worked and subsisted on for free and in peace.

Liberals are rationalists, which means that anything that exists in nature must be intellectually comprehensible. They believe that in order for a social institution to exist, it must be internally logically consistent.

Engels describes it this way in Anti-Duhring:

The great men, who in France prepared men’s minds for the coming revolution, were themselves extreme revolutionists. They recognized no external authority of any kind whatever. Religion, natural science, society, political institutions – everything was subjected to the most unsparing criticism: everything must justify its existence before the judgment-seat of reason or give up existence. Reason became the sole measure of everything. It was the time when, as Hegel says, the world stood upon its head.

Liberalism obscures class character, since liberalism espouses that all "men" are equal. This is, of course true in nature, but class rule introduces the fundamental contradiction that places some above another. This is the source of liberal blind idealism, and resolves by subordinating all social contradiction to individual responsibility/social contract theory. Most of the criticisms by leftists that blame individual liberals for their wrongheadedness and exclude criticisms of structural hegemony , also fall for this confusion.

From there its a function of hegemony. The intellectual/media class political attack dogs of the ruling class perform the "unsparing criticism" of their forebears, and the educated middle class is conditioned to perform the ideology.

[–] chgxvjh@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

the encirclement

Enclosure?

[–] Juice@midwest.social 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Oof yeah I'll correct it. Brain like a steel siv

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[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I highly doubt that MOST "Liberals" would be aggressive upon meeting a Leftist. I would guess that about 90% of Dems couldn't even define the difference, or even understand that there is a difference, and even if they did know, they'd still consider them allies.

Its not that Dems are smug toward Leftists, they're smug towards everybody. That's an established trait of Corporate Establishment Democrats, and the thing that soothes them after another electoral round of snatching defeat out of the jaws of victory.

So don't be so paranoid that their smugness is aimed at Leftists, it's aimed at EVERYBODY.

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[–] supplier@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago

It's a defense mechanism of their class position. In their eyes, your critique of the system is also a personal attack on them because the system works so well for them.

[–] moss_icon@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

Because most liberals benefit from the establishment so all they really care about is winning arguments.

[–] Drekaridill@lemmy.wtf 8 points 1 week ago

I'm so sleepy I was wondering wtf you had against librarians.

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[–] KuroXppi@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don't agreee with what you said but I'll defend to the death your right to get Banned for it

[–] Trying2KnowMyself@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago

That modlog though kril-at-sea

[–] Aradino@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago

More and more funny every time I see it

[–] Alcoholicorn@mander.xyz 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Who the fuck upvoted this??

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