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[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

This is funny because as a teenager the main argument for why I (amab) was allowed to get the hpv vaccine was to prevent risk to any potential afab partners. These days we know that hpv causes all sorts of cancers in anyone with any functional anatomy (if someone has neither a throat nor genitals I'm very sorry for their situation, but they're an extreme outlier).

The ubiquity of HPV reminds me of the ubiquity of chickenpox. Neither was immediately fatal and most people got them so a lot of people didn't get that these were very bad diseases that needed to be actively controlled. I stand by my disgust at the parents who refused their daughters the hpv vaccine on the grounds of sexual purity. I don't have kids, but I can't imagine not giving my child a vaccine that can prevent cancer, no matter how much I disapprove of the actions they'd have to take for them to get that kind of cancer.

[–] PhobosAnomaly@feddit.uk 91 points 1 week ago (1 children)

A pal and I went to join a newly opened gym.

I says to the dude on the desk: "How much is the membership a month?"

The staff member says: "It's £50 per month each, or £75 for a couple"

I'm motioning my pal over, and I'm like "dude are we like boyfriends now?"

"yeah"

Turns back to the dude on the desk: "we'll take the couple's membership please".

Went cross code to save £12.50 a month each. Worth it.

[–] eli@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Holy shit, £50 a month? Is that a common/standard rate?

At my work we have access to a $25 USD a month membership and I think that is even a bit too expensive for my taste...

[–] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 week ago

hahaha I pay $75 a month for my gym, and it's the cheapest in town.

Prices are just different based upon what cost of living is where you live.

[–] Mac@mander.xyz 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

My local climbing gym is $70/mo
That's why i don't climb

[–] Echolynx@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Mine is now at $101. :( I'm going to just get some punch cards.

[–] Mac@mander.xyz 2 points 1 week ago

Jesus fuck
🤦‍♂️

Good luck!

[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

any gym membership has to compete with the cost of one of those door-frame pullup bars and some weights

[–] boonhet@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I wanted to build a home gym too, but when you add the squat rack (realistically a two post one, not the proper big cage) and some sort of bench, it starts getting pretty expensive.

Gyms vary in price a lot though. From like 19€ a month to like 70 or so I think. I asked someone if the expensive gym is less crowded, but apparently not. Problem is, everyone already knows about them, they've been around for much longer than the cheap gyms (of which one has been around for a decade or so)

[–] nevetsg@aussie.zone 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Online marketplace's. People are always giving used home gym gear away for next to nothing.

[–] boonhet@sopuli.xyz 1 points 6 days ago

Ugh I try to avoid Facebook and realistically that's the only marketplace worth a damn these days. Perhaps I should tell my friends who still use it to keep their eyes open.

[–] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago

I have a treadmill, squat rack, pull up bar, Olympic barbell and weights, protective flooring, A/C unit, sundry accessories (gloves, whiteboard, skipping rope). Probably about 2-3 grand.

[–] Zagorath@quokk.au 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I pay just under $20 per week in Australia. That's on a special promo price because I signed up in the weeks before the gym opened. (That's under $15 USD at today's exchange rate, but still...)

[–] eli@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

I guess I've just been living under a rock...

[–] Battle_Masker@lemmy.blahaj.zone 44 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I ain't gay, but 87 euros sure is a lot for a just one shot

[–] vzqq@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 week ago

And that’s just for one disease! There’s like thousands of the things!

[–] scops@reddthat.com 6 points 1 week ago

The HPV vaccine I received was three doses over a nine month period, so I guess we're talking 29 euros a shot, or 261 for the course, depending

I paid €600 for the 3 shots.

Probably just saw the € as a weird cent symbol

[–] PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de 26 points 1 week ago (1 children)

One might argue that dating a person with HPV puts you at risk as well. one might

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[–] themaninblack@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

This is funny but I want to remind people not to discuss the STI diagnosis of your brother’s girlfriend. On twitter.

[–] FerretyFever0@fedia.io 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 week ago

I can't decide if that was likely part of the joke vs a genuine flub

[–] AudaciousArmadillo@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Almost everyone has HPV and for most people (especially cis men) its harmless. But if you are young, please get the shot to protect the uteruses in your life.

[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 14 points 1 week ago

AFAIK it can still cause cancer no matter who you are, that's why i jumped on the offer for a free vaccine.

[–] boonhet@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

They only vaccinate 9-18 year olds here now, with main focus being <14 I believe (of both genders). I could get a shot myself, but it's like 200€. And I'm not that young anymore, I probably have some form of HPV, though I could also check to see if my recent test included it.

I swear they used to vaccinate men under 26 or 27 and all women at some point. I think I was a year above the limit back then, but I could be wrong

[–] KyuubiNoKitsune@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You can do expensive PCR tests for it but otherwise no, detection comes from tissue samples in the infected area.

I also think the way they disregard it if you're older is dumb.

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Hella dumb. Due to reasons I'm pretty sure that I'm more likely to not have it than the average 16yo. I'd even pay for it myself if it wasn't like 500€.

[–] KyuubiNoKitsune@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

As someone with a recent infection, I'd say that it's worth the 500 tbh

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I'd probably go for it if I wasn't extremely poor and TBH at a very low risk of contracting it in the near future.

[–] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 1 week ago

I want HPV for free hysterectomy please

[–] mathemachristian@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 1 week ago (2 children)

87 is not nothing??? Like what...

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'd respond gay for €87. I mean, I would respond that way anyways, but if I was straight I would too!

[–] mathemachristian@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Except there is now a legal record of you saying you're gay. That or you comitted fraud. And that paper gets handed to whoever is bearing the cost. Likely a government agency. Meaning the government keeps records of gay people. I would think twice about paying or not, regardless of me being gay or not.

[–] jnod4@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 days ago

He's on his way to the camps soon lmao

[–] boonhet@sopuli.xyz 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's "nothing much" if the alternative is the risk of all the issues you can get from HPV.

[–] mathemachristian@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago (9 children)

I know people that wouldn't be able to afford it. You get that the consequnce to paywalled healthcare is having sick people and not people just sucking it up and paying? The real alternative is of course allegedly already spelled out by Mr. Mangione but maybe a refresher is due?

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[–] mercano@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago

Gay for not pay

[–] FosterMolasses@leminal.space 8 points 1 week ago

What an amazing comment chain lol

[–] Fleppensteijn@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Bullshit. One dose costs €165 and you need 2 to 3 shots.

~€90? Damn, I paid €600 for mine and I'm an at risk group.

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