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submitted 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) by Nissa@lemmy.world to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

Please ignore the furry bits I'm too lazy to shave right now. I don't care that there are 4 shades of purple. I absolutely love it! The flannel has a hood so I'm planning on this being my first in public outfit. I have some cute face masks so I can stay pretty anonymous. I also got my first matching bra and pantie sets which are great still getting used to how they feel but enjoying the look alot. Definitely ups my femininity. Also painted my toenails yellow the other night, love the bright happy color!

Hope you are doing well! Thank you all for being you!

Love,

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

Edit: spelling as per usual

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[–] CookedOmelet@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)
[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

Thanks, I think I will lol

[–] FosterMolasses@leminal.space 3 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

"I use arch btw"

~You look very nice 💜

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

My socks may make me look like a programmer, but I assure you I'm an electrician. Thank you!

Daaaamn, that's an amazing outfit! You're doing great❤️❤️❤️

[–] Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 10 hours ago

Damn girly looking great!

[–] Shirow@lemmy.zip 4 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Awesome!

Did you just steal my long socks! They're exactly the same as mine. :p

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

Nooooo.... rushes to put back socks lol

[–] lwhjp@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Nice fit! I love the way the lacing mirrors the socks.

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

Thanks! I have a serious love hate thing with the laces. I love the look but hate lacing them up, it's so hard to get them perfect lol

[–] Nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

that top is awesome, and stuff like that only gets better as you progress in your transition:)

i have some clothes I bought early on that I really hated how they look on me, now that I have actual tits, more confidence, and a more comfortable body to match its so nice to go back to them and rock it!

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 11 points 17 hours ago

It's definitely my favorite top at the moment. It's good to hear that they can get better with time. I definitely have a few things I'm not 100% sold on but I love them enough that I can't get rid of them till I can really feel good in them.

[–] irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone 7 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Love it so much. I have that same skirt and leggings, or extremely similar at the very least, LOL. Where did you get the top? I dont have the chest for it and dont like padding, but maybe some day. Lol

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 4 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Thank you! I got the top from amazon, I rely on it too much but they make returning stuff that doesn't fit too damn easy.

https://a.co/d/0gBywBUO

[–] irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah I hate using Amazon, but it's so hard to find styles I like in stores these days. I miss the old Hot Topic (before they changed to market mostly to kids) and similar stores. And with starting from scratch with no really close, local friends to help, places that don't have free and easy returns are just not worth it. I was also lucky enough to get invited to Amazon Vine and it gave me a bunch of junk clothes to try for minimal cost, though I can't return, it's just paying income tax on the value and writing good quality reviews, so with fast-fashion stuff it was really worth it.

So, I've really relied on Amazon to help me build the years and years of knowledge that many cis-girls get in fashion and fit just from growing up in a just a couple of years, alone. I hate that I rely on something so horrible, but there's very little ethical consumption in post-capitalism. Now I mostly shop thrift stores for more lasting clothes, but only because I have a basis from experimenting from Amazon and fast-fashion and there are several local shops and most aren't transphobic.

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 4 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I'd say if Amazon helps all the trans girls find their true identities and fashions that suit them, Bezos can have one second less in Hell. It's only fair.

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

I can definitely live with that

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 4 points 16 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Linkies!

Zando 6 Pairs Striped Thigh High... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DBHVXQ94

ROSE GAL Womens Plus Size Curve... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DKNVFD7P

Urban CoCo Women's Basic... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08P8KRZ59

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

It's really cute, OP!

Waxing (hard white)? Hurts like the dickens, but it's expedient and lasts longer.

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Thank you! It makes me feel really cute.

Yeeaaaa, I'm no good with pain. I think I'll stick with shaving and eventually get laser hair removal.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 1 points 3 hours ago

You're welcome! I fully get you, coming from the pain angle. I do all I can to minimize if, myself.