Ask Lemmy

How the fuck is anyone here supposed to answer that? There's nobody normal here!

Why not Reddit? I've found more reddit users irl after I left than anytime before. Seems plenty normal. Otherwise, facebook/tiktok/Instagram/YouTube scrolling. I assume Tumblr and Twitter, too. A myriad of endless mobile games based around bubbles, blocks, or tower defense. I've also seen cross stitch and paint by numbers type apps. I'm sure there's people that doomscroll regular news sites.

I'm guessing you're looking to use your time better and want recommendations though, not just a list describing how every cohort is doomscrolling their little diminishing dopamine box.

Most normal people? Instagram, tiktok, facebook. Maybe twitter.

Recently I watched a guy in a movie theater before the movie started fiddling with his phone. In rapid fire, he was scrolling Instagram, liking things and stopping on hot ladies. Switch over to facebook and quick scroll that. Send a link to a friend. Then doomscroll reddit.

I don't think he stopped to read a thing beyond the headline except for boobs.

They ask about normal people and Lemmings mostly answer about themselves. 🤦‍♂️

Me:

1. Open Maps
2. Stare at it
3. Mentally think to my self this is my life now (say, I'm waiting at an appointment for something)
4. Press home buttom
5. Open App list
6. Scroll up and down
7. To back to home page
8. STARE at it, pretending I'm busy doing something
9. Oh shit maybe I should actually do something
10. Realize I actually haven't taken the time to download anything beforehand
11. Downloads Lichess
12. Actually I wanna just browse wikipedia
13. Find an article for what stuff I have on my mind
14. STARE at it, pretending I'm reading an ebook
15. Actually I can't focus, home screen again
16. Opens the notes app
17. • blank note
18. Hmm okay lets write a poem... how am I feeling right now...
19. Writes 1-2 line...
20. Fuck I can't think of anything else... my head hurts...
21. Press homescreen
22. Stare at it for 10 seconds
23. Turn it off
24. Spin the phone around like a fidget spinner
25. Bored af

I'm not normal, but I'm guessing some mix of Instagram, TikTok, and Shorts. But, maybe there's more casino / gatcha games, too.

Read articles I’ve saved to my self hosted readeck.

Oh you said normal people …

I "Study"

I watch Tiktok or Youtube on skills I want to learn.

Cooking (mostly foreign or asian) or Nails, colors, tehcniques, etc.

Local current and future weather forecast

What plants do well in my zone this time of year.

Contemplate on getting another rain barrel

Read patch notes for whatever game I'm currently playing

Check forums for posts about patch notes complaints.

YouTube. Also that stupid mobile Pokémon card game for like 3 minutes, twice a day.

Open phone. See if new email. Check here. Check YouTube subs. Adds up to less than an hour a day. Unless I feel like sudoku. Thats my time sink.

Is anybody truly "normal?" Whenever I pick up my phone to waste time, I bounce between:

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YouTube

Email

Excel spreadsheets

Amazon shopping app

VA app for appointment reminders, medical records, messaging with my doctors

Normal people scroll social media. Instagram. Maybe buy something the ad tells them they need. Then send messages or videos to friends and chats. That's about it.

I just started Dungeon Crawler Carl on my phone.

Depends, at home on WiFi.. I might watch videos. If I'm out and about..
I read wikipedia pages, ars-technica articles, read the news, scroll through pics of my cats.

Short form videos and social media?

You're lookin' at it. I have no time for the vapidity of Facebook, 'gram, Snapchat, etc. I only hit FB now for the messaging with my family and some short-reel dopamine.

Many seem to watch short vertical videos of people talking to the camera about stuff I couldn't care less about.

Before I had an existential crisis and lost my damn mind it was instagram, discord, and snapchat (literally for 2 people). Now it's just Lemmy.

Play chess or read about history

Masturbating

Read manga, read porn, listen to books, or music, sometimes watch porn

Mostly tumblr, Lemmy, reddit, and occasionally Wikipedia for me. Most people I know would be on Instagram, but I can't stand it.

i don't do anything on my phone. it's a flip phone with data and wifi disabled on the device, and sms disabled at the carrier. it's quite literally just a 'telephone'.

if i go somewhere where i might expect a long wait alone (like to a doctor's appointment), i'll take a paperback with me.

my wife: short-form video (mostly insta reels, I think).

me: language learning app or ebook.

I have an ebook reader and I download epubs. I also have an audio book player so it looks like im working.

Weather, my hobby groups some of which I admin, email, looking up various parts and how-to’s for a car I’m working on, messaging, and occasional housecleaning of the phone itself - getting rid of unnecessary photos, email, SMS and all that.

i play a lot of solitaire

I'm off all social media (over 10 years) off reddit for 6+months (banned), closed LinkedIn (2-3mo ago and sick of the data siphoning) closed Imgur about 4-5 months ago (just because). It- honest to God, is SO freeing!

I'm only on my phone for work calls, maybe a few email (use rotating addresses to cut spam), and a game or two from F-Droid if I have spare time. Otherwise it's just a few Lemmy pages about privacy, security, or self-hosted... My 4+ year old phone battery still lasts about 1.5-2 days with mostly WiFi and BT, some GPS and data. It's nice it lasts so long.

Most other free time is family or maybe hobby stuff.

Wordle and a number of other similar puzzles around the web.

• Researching the next project.
• Watching way too much news about American and world politics, I'm getting a bit tired after two years with flooded zone.
• Audiobooks and podcasts.

They waste hours scrolling too but instead it's billionaire tuned brainrot machines and a handful of predatory games but also Wordle. Holy shit do they love Wordle.