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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/40877932

Its been soooooo nice lately here! I love it, this is the first summer ive ever been excited for honestly. I cant wait to see all the amazing fits everyone here has. Im hoping to make it a season of firsts for me. This picture, for example, is the first time in daylight public that i wore a dress with no way to hide or cover. Also first time you can see my face! It was scary but it felt so right afterwards. I got one nasty comment from some miserable dbag that im trying to keep out of my head.

Anyways im finishing this up because im trying to post before anxiety convinces me no to. Hope everyones day is going well!

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[–] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.org 19 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Your dress has pockets, you have already won in life :3

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

This dress has pockets, but some of my pants dont? Its so stupid

[–] thoughtfuldragon@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

the lesson is to never wear pants

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 weeks ago

Im learning! Lol

[–] happy_wheels@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 weeks ago

Came here to say the same thing!!! So jealous!

[–] irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 weeks ago

I've been finding it more common lately in loser fitting dresses, usually very small, but still, nice to have. It's also not too difficult to add pockets to some things if there's enough material at the seams to attach to and you have a sewing machine. But those pockets tend to be a little fragile. Good for ID, credit card, a key or two, and maybe lipstick, though.

[–] Nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm so excited for spring/summer oml. i started hrt in October and have been itching to wear my dresses now that I am more comfortable in my body like RAHHHHH

you look amazing BTW :)

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 weeks ago

Thabk you! I wanna see more pictures of people in dresses! Everyone looks amazing in them lol

[–] edg@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

You look AMAZING! Your bravery is inspirational 🫂

Where did you get that dress? You've got me scouring online stores looking for something similar in the hope I would look half as cute as you do.

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 weeks ago

I thrifted it, youre not the only person to ask though. Ill look for a brand on it and report back! Thank you!

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 weeks ago

Apparently its from amazon, from this noname brand Goobgs. Idk if links are ok or not, but you can search it by name.

Thing is, mine has a stretchy back and no adjustable straps(bummer) the ones they make now arent the same unfortunately.

But thank you for the kind words i wish you luck in your search 😊

[–] Gladaed@feddit.org 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Laughs in 0 degrees in the morning. :(

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 weeks ago

Its 75°F right now, it was 69(nice) when my partner took this

[–] sixtoe@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

so proud of you, bb <3 you're beautiful and the yellow makes you look as if the sun.

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 weeks ago

Aww thanks your so sweet 😊

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 weeks ago

u so preddi :o

want to huggie and kissie and carry- but will not--------- will restrain myself---

but yesyes very cutie ~

[–] fartographer@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Yyou look incredible. That's an amazing dress and it pairs perfectly with your entire aesthetic.

This pic makes me want to learn to sing or play a guitar properly, just so I can start an alt metal band and use this as our first album art and ongoing motif.

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 weeks ago

Haha awww thats very sweet thank you! Im a metal girl too so hmu if you do that lol

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

woah i want sundressie like urs :o

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I thrifted it so idk where it can be found, but thanks!

Edit

Apparently its from amazon, from this noname brand Goobgs. Idk if links are ok or not, but you can search it by name.

Thing is, mine has a stretchy back and no adjustable straps(bummer) the ones they make now arent the same unfortunately.

[–] Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 weeks ago

So pretty!!!

[–] Hexarei@beehaw.org 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

You've reminded me that i should pick up some sundresses

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 weeks ago

I cant stop myself if i go to certain stores

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

u - look - soooo cutie!!!!!! >o<

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 weeks ago

Hehe rhanks smorty 😊