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[–] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 34 points 4 days ago (10 children)

Alright, now that it’s been brought up, can I just ask whether anyone else is tired of this obsession with shaving? I’m on the other side of the aisle and I can’t understand how hairlessness is meant to be attractive, pleasant to maintain, or (and this is the weirdest one) tactful. Women have body hair. Why it in vogue to pretend they don’t?

I shave my foot hair, but only because it catches on my socks. I’ve only heard one woman complaining about groin hair catching on fabric and that was because it had been shaved recently.

Women deserve body hair and large pants pockets, but that’s just my political opinion.

[–] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 36 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I don't shave for aesthetics, personally, I shave because I hate having body hair, it bothers me.

[–] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 7 points 4 days ago

I sorta get it, but it’s really not for me to understand. I just don’t care for the ambient social pressure in the US.

[–] shani66@ani.social 12 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Feels better, both to have smooth skin and to feel smooth skin. Just looks better too ¯_(ツ)_/¯

same goes for men, too, society just doesn't pressure men the way it does women

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 5 points 3 days ago (2 children)

It's very subjective. There's plenty of people who enjoy the look of natural hair on bodies.

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[–] pyre@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

i don't care either way, but shaving all your pubic hair is unattractive imo.

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 10 points 3 days ago

I grew so tired of the obsession, I stopped shaving complete. I’m a woman for the record.

It hasn’t affected my ability to get laid at all. No one noticed while I was on a beach vacation. It’s generally way over hyped.

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 13 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Lots of men shave/wax, too. Most "hot" male hollywood stars are showing up with a completely hairless upper body to their shirtless scenes. There's definitely more pressure on women IRL, though.

That's sad. Chest hair is hot.

I didn't think so back when I was a teen (a time where most boys my age didn't have chest hair yet, so it made sense.) But as I got older and it became age-appropriate, I started to really, really like it. There's nothing like grabbing a handful of chest hair in the midst of passion (provided that he's into that.)

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I'd like to add that pubic hair can make a big difference for sex as far as chaffing goes. Having sex with everything shaved leaves my skin irritated. Even just a tuft of hair helps prevent that from happening.

Point is, pubic hair serves a purpose. Besides, the challenge of shaving pubic hair in its entirety isn't worth it to me. You get maybe a day where it's smooth, then itchy bumps that you can't scratch in public for a week afterwards. Not to mention the struggle of shaving an intimate area that you can't easily see or reach, putting a razor super close to extremely sensitive body parts and hoping your hand doesn't slip... no, thank you! Just accept that I'm a grown woman and grown women have hair. If that's a hard line for you, then I guess you're not getting laid. ¯\(ツ)

[–] QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago

does the skin irritation still happen if you shave but don't have sex?

[–] MML@sh.itjust.works 7 points 4 days ago

Don't shave, trim

[–] Damaskox@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago (3 children)

As a man, my experience with women's hair down there is positive generally. When it comes to oral pleasure however, it gets challenging to me personally.

[–] Strawberry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] Damaskox@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Strawberry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 21 hours ago

When you get a pube in your mouth and you go ppppp to get it out

[–] Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago (9 children)

The only real issue with oral is that some hairs stay in your mouth.

[–] Damaskox@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The taste is my biggest challenge. Getting hair in my mouth in itself is a smaller problem for me.

[–] Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world 1 points 23 hours ago

Who are you going down on? I never found the taste to be an issue and it has ranged from quite strong to pretty much no taste at all.

[–] socsa@piefed.social 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

I am a fan of hair in general, but I will say that inhaling a pube and having it cling to the back of your throat is a pretty big mood killer.

[–] Strawberry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 21 hours ago

Getting one in your nose, on the other hand, is very funny

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[–] Gonzako@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Idgaf about bush hair tbh, I actually prefer it! It has a very nice hand feel. I do prefer shaved legs tho.

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[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago

Heck yeah, body hair!

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 4 days ago (5 children)

Honestly starting to shave more and more areas has made me hate body hair more and more. Idk why, but any hair that isnt my eyebrows or on top of head drives me absolutely insane now. It gets to be much to shave everything all the time, i do it in cycles. If i never grew it again, id be a happy girl

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

Protip from a formerly hairy woman - get waxed every month for at least a year (I did it for 2 years), and the hair grows back much softer ... now I shave my legs once a week, and it's quick and easy :-)

Edit: get it waxed by a pro, don't try and do it at home

Ill look into this, thank you!

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[–] Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml 6 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Are you familiar with epilators? Not pleasant to use at first but extremely effective

[–] petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I have one I have used twice because the fear of giving myself cancer freaks me the hell out. I have no idea if that fear is founded, it was just an epiphany I had.

[–] Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Zero risk of cancer, all it does is pull hairs out by the root the same as tweezers or wax. Not that I don't understand the apprehension after having used it the first time, epilators hurt viciously but they get the job done quickly and consistently with minimal prep or cleanup.

[–] petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I think I got the word wrong. I thought epilators were for laser removal, but I guess there isn't a specific word for those.

[–] Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 days ago

Fair, they do have a bunch of different IPL and laser products and I wouldn't be surprised if some of them could give you cancer

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Ive heard about them but i havent gotten my hands on one yet, may have to soon tho, thanks!

[–] Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml 5 points 3 days ago

You're welcome!

[–] remilia@lemmy.cyberia9.org 8 points 4 days ago

Honestly that's me as well anymore. I used to be more ambivalent about it.

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

So, I am a dude, thus take this with a grain of salt perhaps, but:

Find you a person who will be excited to, and capable of safely shaving/trimming you.

[–] tr0xy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

There are people who do that?

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I mean, I've groomed some of my partners, some of them have groomed me.

So... yes?

There is at least one person?

Maybe I am very strange, I am autistic, so social norms are basically all arbitrary performances to me, but it seems to just make sense?

I'm fairly sure this is also a behavior that is done by a good deal of our ape ancenstors, mammals more broadly: Grooming and cleaning another is itself a kind of social bond, a way to establish and demonstrate trust and care.

It also just saves money; if you have or can teach a partner how to do things like... haircut touchups, eyebrow shaping, basic mani/pedicure type stuff, whatever, now you don't need to spend money on something you'd normally have to pay someone else to do.

And you can just like, have a conversation while doing this. Quality time, lol!

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 5 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (4 children)

I even got some kind of "razor burn" from professional waxing, and I kinda hate having all this body hair. FML

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[–] Sanctus@anarchist.nexus 15 points 4 days ago

There goes my hero

Watch her as she goes

(Its hard out here for hairy mfuckers)

[–] redbrick@lemmy.world 8 points 4 days ago (7 children)

Very interesting...can they reach down that far??? I mean that distance looks almost a full body length from this perspective.

[–] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 days ago

Ive watched these mosquitos. They land on top of the body hair, and then quickly climb down to the skin level, maybe taking a split second to do so.

Sometimes that's enough of a delay to detect and swat them.

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