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[–] Awoo@hexbear.net 16 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

Anyone that has interacted with Chinese media or Chinese people via rednote in the last year has had their eyes open to this idea of lgbt people being severely repressed as untrue. All of these incidents widely publicised in western-media are usually either extremely rare niche incidents (for a population of 1.6billion) or have pretty unusual and different explanations that go beyond just "they're removing lgbt content".

I can cite netease games full of lgbt content right now and 5 minutes on rednote will show tonnes of extremely cool gay shit. Speaking to lgbt people in China results in very nuanced takes. Walking around in any Chinese city feels safer than walking around in London, which I think is probably safer than any American city.

These nerds are behind the times and trying to perpetuate narratives that are long out of date and frankly not really believed by most people anymore after experiencing a different story with their own eyes and ears. When they try to say this stuff to anyone who has seen differently it actually grossly undermines their narratives because it makes people roll their eyes and shut off to anything else they have to say.

Even in the case of those people that have not directly seen these things... The people are vibes-based and the vibes have turned in China's favour.

[–] SmithrunHills@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Walking around in any Chinese city feels safer than walking around in London, which I think is probably safer than any American city.

These people try so hard to ignore the fact that minorities, including queer people, are still being regularly targeted and murdered by law enforcement in these so called shining beacons of rights and western civilization. And that's not even counting the murders done by regular chuds

[–] KuroXppi@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I learnt how to sign 'Whether boy or girl, who you like doesn't matter, so long as you like them' (男也好,女也好,自己中意就好) in Chinese sign language lmaoooo. I don't think YouTube has ever even shown me anything in Auslan (the sign language taught here) let alone anything queer in Auslan

[–] QinShiHuangsShlong@lemmy.ml 24 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」seems unfortunately to have had some trauma in life and decided that it is China and Chinese people as whole who are at fault to an almost internalised white supremacist level in some respects.

[–] Wakmrow@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] CliffordBigRedDog@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

As we all know Patriachy and ableism only exists in China, no other country has that

[–] QinShiHuangsShlong@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 days ago

Chinese people are entirely homogeneous and all believe the same things and the American bible belt isn't real.

[–] Muinteoir_Saoirse@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago

Yeah every example was an interpersonal issue and nothing whatsoever to do with the government or the nation-state. Sadly interfamilial abuse and trauma exist globally, in every culture and society.

These issues are compounded and magnified by systemic oppression, of course, especially housing precarity and financial instability. Which is why a society that actively seeks to alleviate these problems, increase education, improve medical care, and create robust transit to combat isolation is one that is doing much more to mitigate such abuses and traumas than a society that publicly espouses care for children, mental wellbeing, and a loosening of rigid gender norms, but in practice tightens the screws on the people so that they are emotionally fraught and physically volatile.

Hope some day people like that user who have suffered these painful childhoods can understand this and contribute to shaping a better future and society for the next generation.

[–] Chana@hexbear.net 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Funny how they just straight up lie in both title and description

[–] Wakmrow@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago

It's completely wild to me that I treat liberals as good faith people.

[–] lil_tank@hexbear.net 23 points 2 days ago (1 children)

China has nothing to learn from the West about queer rights because the reason queer people had to be so upfront in the West and occupy the spotlight is because they've seen brutal state repression that other countries didn't have

They don't realise that what they're saying is "China should have more institutional homophobia so that their queer communities feel the need to organise Pride"

[–] invalidusernamelol@hexbear.net 21 points 2 days ago

The Western handling of queer rights has been an abject failure. I don't think any country that has a goal of normalizing and codifying anything relating to them should use the West as a model.

Cuba is one of the few countries to actually meaningfully make progress in a legal framework that creates an open, equitable definition of family/relationship matters. Their approach wasn't to otherize and create complex and easily dismantled coutouts either. It was just to say "any orientation and configuration of family and relationship is valid and will be accepted by the State as long as the individuals involved agree".

Plus there are big areas of China that are known to be very LGBT friendly. Basically cities the size of New York with the reputation of San Francisco. Any big movement you see in China is likely to come from one of those regions.

[–] Infamousblt@hexbear.net 15 points 2 days ago

Meanwhile I have 2 different family members I know who are being forcibly de transitioned because the government made being trans illegal in their state but sure let's pretend like the US is a bastion of LGBTQ+ freedom

[–] BattleshipPokemon@hexbear.net 18 points 2 days ago

I don't understand why there's a whole community full of posts by just one person endlessly hate-scrolling a website of people they don't like to post screenshots of it to an audience of one or two dozen upvoters.

ralsei-wave Hi TriadTakeTrawler if you're reading this, best of wishes for getting over whatever weird psychological dynamics you have that drive you to do this and picking up a better hobby, have you considered volunteering or maybe couch to 5k?

[–] MasterBlaster@lemmygrad.ml 24 points 2 days ago

why do people seem allergic to considering the differences in culture and material realities

good chance if you hear someone complaining about China's LGBT scene that they probably have never even spoken to a LGBT Chinese person. Or more broadly, a Chinese person.

[–] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 23 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

These are the same types of people that think Trump is attacking Iran to liberate women

[–] The_Grinch@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Gay marriage was made law in America by essentially a random fucking miracle with only a sliver of a majority of the population in support just 11 years ago. We only just figured this shit out, and the other half of Americans will never forgive us for it and fully intend to, and probably will, claw it back very soon.

[–] PKMKII@hexbear.net 2 points 2 days ago

Hot take: while gay marriage is definitely a good thing, the framing some people make of it being the be all end all gay rights litmus test reflects a bourgeois class bias. While it doesn’t apply to aspects like child custody and hospital visitation/medical decisions, the tax and inheritance aspects do. A gay homeless teenager who was kicked out of their house for being gay needs housing, healthcare, community support, income sources. Inheritance and taxes aren’t pressing matters.

So when libs frame “good country on LGBT rights” vs “bad country on LGBT rights” purely on the question of gay marriage, they’re judging those countries on “are they good for monied LGBT individuals?”

(FYI not accusing you of this thinking, just something I’ve observed in the larger discourse)

[–] princeofsin@hexbear.net 14 points 2 days ago

I love LGBT! Lets Go Bomb Tel-aviv!

[–] Damarcusart@hexbear.net 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

"I DON'T KNOW WHAT CRITICAL SUPPORT IS AND YOU'RE A FILTHY AUTHORITARIAN TANKIE FOR CALLING ME OUT FOR REFUSING TO LEARN!"

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

CRITICAL SUPPORT

that's like when you get a critical strike in a vidya, yea? so that means they must support it extra hard smug-explain

[–] FlakesBongler@hexbear.net 17 points 2 days ago

We should totally find a way to cripple China forever and ruin millions of lives, so that way, they'll learn to appreciate the LGBTQIA

[–] SmithrunHills@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago

Holy shit it gets worse. OOP UNIRONICALLY BELIEVES IN "ANTI-WHITE" RACISM LMAOOOOOOOOO

"Racist characteristics" is one hell of a way to reveal yourself as some chauvinistic CRACKKKER LMFAO doggirl-lol

[–] asdasd201@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 2 days ago

quokk.au? More like crakkk.au!

Gubba genocide when?

[–] EatPotatoes@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I would learn mandarin and move to China if it meant never having to see “y’all” and “folks” again as words. You Americans all talk like southern prospectors now.

“folks”

volks

[–] purpleworm@hexbear.net 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

You Americans all talk like southern prospectors now.

I think it's from mostly white liberals appropriating AAVE, though I guess I don't really know. I also disagree that it sounds like a prospector, since that's a pretty distinctive way of talking that they don't really match.

[–] EatPotatoes@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I am sorry, I try to learn as little about your country as possible.

[–] Wakmrow@hexbear.net 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] EatPotatoes@hexbear.net 2 points 2 days ago

I was bewildered before but now I am just even sadder it’s just libs being libs.