Yeah every example was an interpersonal issue and nothing whatsoever to do with the government or the nation-state. Sadly interfamilial abuse and trauma exist globally, in every culture and society.

These issues are compounded and magnified by systemic oppression, of course, especially housing precarity and financial instability. Which is why a society that actively seeks to alleviate these problems, increase education, improve medical care, and create robust transit to combat isolation is one that is doing much more to mitigate such abuses and traumas than a society that publicly espouses care for children, mental wellbeing, and a loosening of rigid gender norms, but in practice tightens the screws on the people so that they are emotionally fraught and physically volatile.

Hope some day people like that user who have suffered these painful childhoods can understand this and contribute to shaping a better future and society for the next generation.