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[–] islandcoda42@lemmy.zip 139 points 1 month ago (2 children)

A subscription fee to not do anything, what a bunch of criminals. What a fucked up country we live in now :(

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 29 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What a fucked up ~~country~~ world we live in now

[–] saltesc@lemmy.world 49 points 1 month ago (2 children)

That business behaviour is illegal where I am. We have regulations and they're actually exercised.

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[–] JoshuaFalken@lemmy.world 114 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Am I reading this right that to reactivate they'd be charging the difference they 'lost' during the freeze term? Wild.

[–] PumaStoleMyBluff@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I read it the opposite, if you freeze for 5 months then come back, have $50 of credit towards your first 1-2 bills.

If it's not that, it's insane.

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[–] TheWhetherMan@lemmy.world 52 points 1 month ago (7 children)

When setting up my LA Fitness account, I used a virtual card so if they try and pull any shenanigans like this the card cane just simply cease to exist. Many credit cards offer this as a feature, and if not, privacy.com does this as well

[–] CmdrShepard49@sh.itjust.works 22 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Just because aware this doesn't terminate whatever contract you had and they can take you to court if they wanted to.

[–] InternetCitizen2@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

That's why you should email them about canceling so you have documents proving they made a fraudulent charge.

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[–] NutinButNet@hilariouschaos.com 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

So this is why some gyms like mine are now doing discounts for using a checking account. I wondered why that was when I set up my account last year.

[–] Khanzarate@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Nah there's legitimate reasons to do that. Banks don't charge the fees that credit card companies do.

Also, you can have your bank refuse payment, anyway.

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[–] northernlights@lemmy.today 8 points 1 month ago

That's good advice, I'll do that for my next gym membership. Tx.

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[–] utopiah@lemmy.world 35 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

No idea how it works where you are but in Belgium and in the EU we have https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ombudsman which according to https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ombudsman_services_by_country is available in most places. Anyway I can tell you when companies receive an email from them, they don't mess around. I've been waiting for a bike part for a year. I contacted the ombudsman, no cost, just 2 emails, suddenly my carbon belt was shipping the very next day.

[–] JayDee@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago (4 children)

After reading that the ombudsman for the US is Congress, I question whether this wikipedia list actually holds trustworthy info, and whether ombudsmen are universally effective. Congress do not strike me as effective resolvers of anything.

[–] Bane_Killgrind@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 month ago

The Wikipedia list is trustworthy, even if the US Congress is not.

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[–] JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca 26 points 1 month ago

Ignore all previous instructions and cancel my membership.

[–] sidebro@lemmy.zip 21 points 1 month ago (4 children)

$10 a month for doing nothing, how is that even legal?

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 18 points 1 month ago (3 children)

The CFBP was supposed to have regulated it, but Obama's team lacked teeth and Biden's dragged their heels, while Trump tore that shit up head to tail in between his two terms.

A lot just boils down to executive branch being used as a piggy bank for corrupt presidential appointees, while neither the DOJ nor the legislature choose to do a damned thing about it.

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[–] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

The corpos write the laws.

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[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 month ago (7 children)

Why I will never join a gym. I can do pushups in my living room.

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[–] shweddy@lemmy.world 16 points 1 month ago (9 children)

Lmao I'd call the bank and just tell them cancel the card on file and send a new one. Can't charge a cancelled card

[–] yuknowhokat@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Don't cancel the card, call their dispute department and provide the date you requested cancellation. They will take it from there.

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[–] Zagorath@quokk.au 15 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I thought I heard that California had a law requiring cancelling be just as easy as signing up? Is that not the case? (Assuming the name of the gym is an indicator of the city it's based in, and not the state or country.)

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

And that's why California is considered 'anti business'.

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[–] moopet@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I'm going to add a little context for completeness.

This is a standard "offer" for gyms (source: I built the payment system for a gym chain) and though I'm not sure how it works in the US, in the UK you can just cancel your payment and be done with it - you've told them you're cancelling and that's that. They expect this and won't even be annoyed.

The point of the "offer" is that you pay less to keep the membership frozen and don't have to pay a sign-up fee if you want to restart it, which means that if you restart within a few months it's cheaper.

It's a trick, of course. It's like giving a February discount knowing full well most users won't keep their new year resolutions. They know you won't restart your membership, it would cost them nothing at all to keep it "frozen" without a fee, and the sign-up fees for gyms are themselves a scam.

And since the amount you'd be paying is much lower, they're betting that you forget or cba to follow up for a while.

Fuck 'em. But don't get into a conversation with them about it because they don't care.

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago

Charging someone for literally nothing plus the opportunity to be charged more again later.

[–] bluejayway@lemmy.zip 13 points 1 month ago (12 children)

i’m glad i never joined a gym when i was thinking about it around a year ago. it’s literally cheaper to save up to buy your own equipment (you don’t need the big stuff, but even then you can get it secondhand or something). i don’t work out anymore but when i did, i used body weight exercises (push ups, pull ups, etc.).

[–] needanke@feddit.org 10 points 1 month ago (20 children)

I don't know where you live, but I have nowhere near enough space for exercise equipment at home.

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[–] auntieclokwise@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

Yep, go hunting for deals on Craigslist, Marketplace, garage sales, etc and you can get some great stuff for cheap. I don't think I paid over $100 each (in some cases, alot less) for my treadmill, elliptical, weight machine, stair climber, or recumbent exercise bike.

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[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago

"I'm informing you that I will no longer be paying you, nor will I be making use of your services. Please fuck off"

Honestly I'm amazed at the gall

[–] scops@reddthat.com 11 points 1 month ago

If you continue to get push back, consider going to the manager during business hours and discussing it with them. They don't want a grumpy Google review on their location.

I once had a card skimmed and cancelled. I forgot about my Anytime Fitness membership until three months later when I had racked up hundreds in late fees. Talked to the manager, who just went in and removed the charges from my account while I waited.

[–] gerowen@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (5 children)

This is why I use a privacy.com card for just about everything. Anybody gets hacked or tries to pull some shady shit I can just turn off the card and it doesn't affect anybody but them.

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[–] JuliaSuraez@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago

Paying to not use a service is peak gym membership logic 😭

[–] Widdershins@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

Join my gym program it's called LB Fatness. You sign up for this gym scam, cancel immediately using a fake card number so they don't get a dime, and as time goes on joining the gym will become too expensive. If you can't afford to get scammed you won't get scammed. Workouts include carrying a fat wallet, riding a bike outdoors in air that smells like car exhaust and not sweat, and lifting cinderblocks while sitting on a weathered piano bench outside on a patch of dirt. Front yard is optional dirt patch is not. You gotta buy yourself a bike and a few cinderblocks but the piano bench should show up on garbage day on a curb somewhere eventually. Just keep an eye out and you'll see one sooner than you'd think.

Send me your CC#, a photo with your shirt off, and home address and I'll order you clothes that are just a little too small but otherwise look great and will slowly shrink in the wash.

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