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well the war in iran seems inevitable and trump will probably strike after the markets close on friday. so what can i do to best prepare me and family for this? i already have around two weeks of canned food stocked up but besides that i have no other emergency supplies. if there are any protocols or useful handbooks i would appreciate it if you shared them. if you have experience in this type of situation i would be glad to hear from you as well.

that's it i suppose. wish you all the very best.

EDIT: removed the terrible joke because it's sort of a serious post. also thanks for all the answers in advance sorry if i can't reply to all of them

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[–] infuziSporg@hexbear.net 3 points 7 hours ago

Do a "dry run" of getting by without the electric grid or running water or phone service or petroleum filling stations, maybe camping out in a tent or car if mobility is part of your plans. If there are any other characteristics, practice what your response to those would be as well.

It really helps in the moment to not be doing something for the first time.

[–] Sulvy@hexbear.net 25 points 1 day ago

Not sure if anyone has said it but a good physical map/atlas of at least your surrounding area. Gasoline too if you have a vehicle.

I’m sure the possibility of having to flee your home is not a good one to think about but I would have preparations in place.

[–] moss_icon@hexbear.net 21 points 1 day ago

Get all your legal documents in order in case you need to flee the country

[–] bourgeoisie_burgers@hexbear.net 19 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

If you happen to have an old android and a solar powerbank. You can download all of wikipedia , offline maps, guides etc. If possible get a few lora radios as well. ( https://meshtastic.org/ ) offline AI https://github.com/a-ghorbani/pocketpal-ai emergency /survivalguide https://f-droid.org/packages/com.bunqr.prepapp.fdroid not the one I was looking for, seems no translations in this one... but there are others

[–] la_tasalana_intissari_mata@hexbear.net 28 points 1 day ago (1 children)

have a backpack full of important documents and basic tools with you,incase something happens you pick it up and go

[–] Muinteoir_Saoirse@hexbear.net 24 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Yes, important documents ready to go. Food. Water. First aid kit, and if possible not just laceration supplies, but a burn kit. Sewing kit, lighters, a good knife (you never know when you need to cut something in an emergency, like if someone is tangled in something). Rubbing alcohol and disinfectant. Flashlight. Batteries. A backup battery for a phone could be very helpful. You can get hand-crank radios (and hand-crank flashlights) in case of power failure.

Don't underestimate the importance of keeping floss, toothbrush, and toothpaste in an emergency. Same with certain tablets (vitamin C and D) if you are not able to get outside much or get fresh food. You don't want infections at a time of high stress. Honey and salt can be helpful as antibacterials in a pinch.

Also a notebook and a pen, there's things you won't be able to remember.

[–] Damarcusart@hexbear.net 24 points 1 day ago

Others have already offered good advice, so I will say "Water, Water, Water." Not just for drinking, but enough for washing too, just being able to keep clean can help a lot with the stress, just having small things you can control in a terrifying situation can help make it more manageable. Ideally you'd want at least 2 litres per person per day, but water is pretty heavy, and if you think you'll have to evacuate, carrying heavy container of water everywhere won't be practical. If you're going to hunker down in your house, filling a bathtub and cookware with water and covering it (so it doesn't get dust and dirt in it) can be a great way to have a fair bit of "washing water" while keeping separate containers of drinking water.

I don't know what sort of relationship you have with your neighbours, but right now it doesn't matter, even if you hate them more than anyone else in the world, pooling knowledge, resources and skills with them will be better than trying to survive things alone. Make sure you reach out to them this week and discuss the idea of helping each other if needed. You don't need to promise anything, but just knowing there are people nearby who can help you and you can help makes things easier to bear.

I really hope nothing comes of this and the US is just being a paper tiger, I've tried to give advice based on things I've heard from an Iraqi friend's family and how his family survived the US invasion, but I'm not sure how useful it is when it is half-remembered second hand accounts. The main thing I remember was just the idea of keeping things together and trying to not stress about the situation, just accepting what is happening and trying to calmly think of solutions when a problem arises. Routine and little things (like washing and general hygiene, or prayer if you are religious) can help you keep your sanity. Whatever helps keep you and your family calm, you know them best.

Stay safe.

[–] StillNoLeftLeft@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don't probably have much good advice but one thing that came to mind is setting up some sort of route for accepting mutual aid if needed might be good if you run out of stuff or need to flee. Maybe others here could advice on how to do that from Iran.

Other than that I hope with everything I am that this will blow over and if it doesn't that you will be ok. I am so sorry you are in this situation.

[–] daniyeg@hexbear.net 6 points 23 hours ago

im not really interested in asking for mutual aid here. no shame on people doing it especially if you need it to survive but from my point of view there's nothing mutual about it and it reduces the users of the site into either heartless cynics ignoring people begging for their lives, or gullible fools who will give their money away to random people spamming on the internet.

hopefully it will blow over without blowing us up. thank you for your kind words.

[–] CrawlMarks@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago

My dad used to buy a extra bag of cheap beans or rice for his emergency kit every tine he went to thr store. He had enough beans to last us years if we needed it.

[–] Outdoor_Catgirl@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago

Fill up containers or a bathtub with water so you have some in case the water gets cut off, and have a packed bag with what you need immediately in case you have to evacuate quickly.

[–] Alaskaball@hexbear.net 23 points 1 day ago

If possible, base yourself and family in a more rural area that has clean and clear access to clean water that does not rely on too much maintenance to keep it flowing. Food rationing from the start, prioritize consuming fresh and sooner-to-spoil food items, try not cooking for individuals anymore but collective meals for efficiency of calories delivered. Be prepared for electricity to get knocked out and modern powered amenities to be inaccessible such as refrigerators if you don't have access to means of generating electricity cheaply (such as solar panels). If possible, gardening can help ease the burden on food supplies if the conflict continued over a significant period of time. If possible, always boil water that is intended for consumption. If you still have access to fresh goods, try to engage in converting it into preserved goods, drying meats fruits vegetables, making fruit jams or pickled vegetables in sealed jars that have been boiled, also having a supply of salt and other cooking additives.

[–] tamagotchicowboy@hexbear.net 22 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Water for at least drinking and cooking or a way to purify water to last 2 weeks. Generally, whatever you'll use in your average two weeks. Cleaning supplies, general toiletries that you like, candles, something to make fire and cook without electric. Basic tools to make repairs or at least a hammer, nails and tarps/blankets to cover or patch things up with. Clean your house/laundry much as you can beforehand. Ideally a way to charge devices and some kind of entertainment.

There's prepper/survivalist libraries online but when shit hits idk how useful they really are, a lot of them are Murikkkan-centric and a lot of the stories on reddit to survive collapses are just fabrications.

[–] daniyeg@hexbear.net 4 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

the whole prepper culture of "surviving" oddly enough comes from not needing to actually survive and instead spend vast amounts of comfort and money into some power fantasy. instead of feeling powerless in the current world you prepare a bunker so you can have the power in a hypothetical doomsday situation.

[–] Damarcusart@hexbear.net 5 points 21 hours ago

Yeah, a lot of these "prepper" types have an image of themselves ruling like a king after "the collapse." It's just pure power fantasy for them.

[–] Damarcusart@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There's prepper/survivalist libraries online but when shit hits idk how useful they really are, a lot of them are Murikkkan-centric and a lot of the stories on reddit to survive collapses are just fabrications.

The sheer amount of "Make sure you have lots of gold because money will be useless after the collapse" prepper bullshit out there is ridiculous. These people priotise material wealth over actually having food to eat or drinking water.

[–] tamagotchicowboy@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago

Most of them and the survivalist this and that you find on say Youtube is just hustling grifters.

[–] CitizensTyrant@hexbear.net 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] daniyeg@hexbear.net 28 points 1 day ago (2 children)

yes if i wasn't I wouldn't probably make this post.

[–] splendidsadiks@hexbear.net 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

shit i was gonna tell you why they won't do it bc i just spentlike every second of spare time at work fornweeks trying to figure out of they could use skme kind of secret nerve agent and kill all of you but they can't. there is no realistic plan other than finally breaking the nuclear taboo.

i have reason to believe small yield warheads have been deploued in yemen and syria but it is sketchy. im not sure they would do this but it's their only chance

[–] daniyeg@hexbear.net 25 points 1 day ago (2 children)

as respectfully as possible, you're genuinely freaking out relax dude. no they won't break the nuclear taboo they will just bomb everything because they have enough conventional bombs as it is.

All options are on the table for all sides. Rules of war are only tools for the powerful.

[–] splendidsadiks@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

no they don't at all have conventional capavilities that can stand up to this without nukes. tel aviv will be destroyedm everything will go to shit. everything they do is fueled by that oil + natgas trade thru the strait & as much graft + asset inflation as possible to make the country a financial gravity well where they'rs rhs only ones who can put up the capital for a factory

i have been reading all about the weapons on both sides the americans are fucked none of this makes sense so im thinking stock market manipulation gainz and backing off, or nuclear holocaust the likes of which the worls has never seen

respect unnecessary + appreciated

[–] space_comrade@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago (3 children)

no they don't at all have conventional capavilities that can stand up to this without nukes.

On what are you basing this on exactly? It wouldn't exactly be a precedent for the US to carpet bomb an entire country.

[–] splendidsadiks@hexbear.net 1 points 16 hours ago

The final point I want to make is that the U.S. loses nothing from performing a large-scale military exercise, scaring a shit out of everyone, pushing Iran to the limit and seeing if they can get concessions, like they have tried with Russia, and utterly failing because the other side recognizes it as an existential battle at this point. They do lose an immense amount by engaging here. It will foreclose on the possibility of aggression against China, although maybe they already believe that's a lost cause. That will be a political struggle within Washington. The nuclear options seems unrealistic in light of that.

But what about the EMP options? Can someone call in another military obsessive? We are nothing alone.

[–] splendidsadiks@hexbear.net 1 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

If you're scared of more terror attacks with said extremely limited standoff munitions, that's very real and I'm not mitigating that. A deterrence equation doesn't foreclose on the real possibility of insane, counterproductive cruelty. It is not as if dying in a terror attack that has little-to-no strategic value would be any less horrible, though knowing the dogs all across the region are coming with you might be some consolation. These are very very limited stocks of weapons that cannot be swiftly replenished and for that reason they need to be reserved for high-value targets. The political and terror usage of them last time was completely ineffective. I have zero respect for most of the online discussion around this subject, which consists mostly of reiterating popular commentators. You should log off so you can't let people like me get you panicking about the worst possibilities. The Pentagon is going to be considering the actual results of the attack in addition to the large number of mysterious shipments from Russia and China which have arrived that we know have included very powerful anti-stealth long-range radars a game changer here since the successful the penetrations last time exploited their absence extensively apologies for any dictation errors and I will throw in the wild card of EMPs, which are another GWOT fixation betraying US malice I could be biased due to reading kooky Bush admin officials' mutterings on the subject. Ask yourself who led you to believe that imperialists unable to subdue Yemen have free reign over Iran, and you will probably end up purging a lot of useful idiots. Nobody in their right mind is basing the risk reward of attacking Iran on fake news about F-35s flying over unhindered. Just to remind you what carpet bombing actually is. It's not like I didn't consider conventional options before I jumped to secret gas worse than sarin. If you're concerned with more terror attacks with said extremely limited standoff munitions, that's very real and I'm not mitigating that. A deterrence equation doesn't foreclose on the real possibility of insane, counterproductive cruelty. It is not as if dying in a terror attack that has little-to-no strategic value would be any less horrible, though knowing the dogs all across the region are coming with you might be some consolation. These are very very limited stocks of weapons that cannot be swiftly replenished and for that reason they need to be reserved for high-value targets. The political and terror usage of them last time was completely ineffective. You might be shocked by how low-yield the cruise missiles deployed by the RAO1 are, military equipment can be very niche. I have zero respect for most of the online discussion around this subject, which consists mostly of reiterating popular commentators. They act like you're supposed to believe they've filtered out all the fake news by having a conscience. Which is really sad. You should log off so you can't let people like me get you panicking about the worst possibilities. Something seems very off here, and I can't be satisfied with market manipulation as an explanation when so many lives are at stake. Don't talk about people dying from such an abstract standpoint. It's wrong. They deserve to have the details explored. The 12 day war is the most interesting strategic event of our lifetimes, a thousand times more interesting than 911. Yet people seem so eager to brush past the details. I just can't understand it. It makes my head shudder uncontrollably. Oh how it writhes, writhes inside my head. Anyways.

@daniyeg@hexbear.net also https://hexbear.net/comment/6940952 PLS I YRIED TO BE BRIEF SIRS

[–] splendidsadiks@hexbear.net 1 points 16 hours ago

You're really teeing me up by opening with US can carpet bomb anything it wants so let me try to keep it short let me know what about this doesn't jive I might not be back for a few days the internet here is stinky ass. If that is all you are concerned about, you must relax. My rising panic comes from an awareness of the shortcomings of Western conventional kinetic options. This is the point where cautious, outraged pessimism crosses over into a defeatist ceding to all premises claimed by the enemy, even those they do not internally believe. Reread Mao perhaps. During the last event, almost the entire fleet of Western Air Forces was involved in non-kinetic operations against Iran. The Israeli Air Force that was involved in kinetic strikes on Iran is substantially larger than the additional force brought to bear in the built-up being trumpeted as a certain lead-up to war. Breaching Iran's air defenses, even in their somewhat dilapidated state, was far more difficult than Western news outlets would have you believe, and utilized tools that have been taken out of the game completely (Starlink plus cellular hooked up smuggled ATMGs, drone trap houses, saboteurs in a now exposed network). I would be happy to break down the entire aerial attack step by step, but I get the feeling that would actually start running into the character limit. I would need to speak continuously for 35 minutes. They cannot just fly over and plop down JDAMs everywhere, Iran is not Gaza. In order to believe conventional weapons can completely eliminate Iran's air defense systems and enable carpet bombing of the entire country, one would need to believe that already happened during the last attack, but that isn't the case. What you saw planes like the F-35s and the RA01 stealth drone, hidden to all except very large sitting-duck radars, essentially, prior to shipments from Belarus, China, Russia, but it was still confined to the sea near a refueling station. Being used to ferry cruise missiles to soft targets within Iran, utilizing neighboring regions and terrain masking. It was complex and very limited due to the long range of the operation. Effectiveness rapidly degraded as the operation was prolonged. So, what has really changed on the US side? Obviously they have aircraft carriers in the region to close the distance. They can launch a bunch of tomahawk missiles at them. But they still cannot carpet bomb a country like Iran, or accomplish anything close to that with standoff munitions, and aircraft carriers are a gigantic target. On top of that, we still haven't seen Hezbollah's missile deterrence eliminated by any of the Israeli operations. Some might disagree with that, but I just haven't seen any evidence of it. We saw perfidy with pagers turned into bombs, and an assassination with more firepower than ever used in history directed at an arranged negotiation table.

[–] MemesAreTheory@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago

I'm so sorry you and your countrymen are in this situation comrade. I wish there was more I could do to help.

[–] rentasintorn@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm sorry you're in this position, friend. I don't see this mentioned already, but emergency plans with loved ones are a good idea. How would you contact each other during a communication blackout? Are you going to meet up somewhere if shit starts to go down? Communication can help avoid everybody scrambling and trying to find each other at the same time in an emergency. I think Briar is a Bluetooth communication app, but I've never used it.

As always, death to Amerika.

[–] daniyeg@hexbear.net 4 points 22 hours ago

thanks for the advice. i have also heard of briar as well, but bluetooth is really short range. if someone is in your bluetooth range you can just talk to them with your mouth. maybe it creates a network of devices but even then i'll doubt it can work on a distance bigger than a block.

[–] woozy@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

others probably have better advice to give than me but i'm wishing you and your family safety comrade

[–] daniyeg@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago

thanks honestly all of us need the wishes right now so every bit helps.

[–] invalidusernamelol@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Short wave radio and emergency radio. Some way to listen in and communicate.

[–] daniyeg@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

i have a standard FM battery powered radio. i also heard anarchist and peer to peer radio tech has come a long way is there any guide on how to make some from electronic junk essentially?

[–] luddybuddy@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I'm not sure what anarchist/peer to peer radio tech you're referring to, but I have experience with a few kinds of radios:

For short range communications (several city blocks from street level, a few miles with open terrain) you can get Baofeng UV-5G walkie talkies for quite cheap. If one of your family is going to fetch water and you want to stay in contact, this kind of thing will do the job.

There's also meshtastic, which has proved itself in several natural disasters already - the hardware these are based on is very common in industry and especially crypto mining, which means that you can find them cheap and flash new firmware on them to become personal radios. They work best if you have a bunch of them in the area. I have them, and have found that they aren't great from street level in a city - they need line of sight. If you can get up high though, you can talk to anyone in the city.

If you want to talk further than that, you will need to get into shortwave. It's not cheap, and it's complicated. I don't have hands on experience with it, but I think a good cheap setup would start with a TruSDX. That would let you talk to people within 300km regardless of terrain, or people around the world depending on weather. You'll need a really big antenna (minimum 10 meters of wire stretched out in a field), which can be made cheaply but you need to know some things to do it. This USian anarchist explains how to put one together for the 300km use case.

I really don't know if any of this is worth doing though. For the most part, you won't be trying to operate a team so much as stay alive, so an AM/FM/Shortwave/Weather receiver might be all the radio you need.

[–] daniyeg@hexbear.net 3 points 1 day ago

yeah it's probably not worth doing but good to know. thanks.

[–] HexReplyBot@hexbear.net 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:

[–] splendidsadiks@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago

me when Israel texts me Trump Necer Chickens Out at midnight and hacks my phone to make the notification sound scary and i have to make the third world countrybgetting threatened with genocide about me as an american innanerica again like the last week for no reason

[–] Lemmyglad@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

Make sure you have a flashlight or two and batteries.