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Have you ever heard or seen something that initially seemed to be totally fine, until you saw just how truly dangerous it actually is?

What is a much bigger threat than initially presented?

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[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 1 points 1 hour ago

Compressed air

[–] Alcoholicorn@mander.xyz 6 points 4 hours ago
[–] Jack_Burton@lemmy.ca 16 points 22 hours ago

Digital age verification. It is not "to protect the children". I saw it for what it was right away but literally everyone I talked to about it thought it sounded really positive.

[–] hateisreality@lemmy.world 8 points 19 hours ago

The Republicans

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 25 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Social media. Every person is now inside a filter bubble that is not reality but they think it is.

Affects how they think about absolutely everything. Thats why its the most dangerous threat to humanity as a whole, with big tech algorithms pushing content to people.

[–] presoak@lazysoci.al 1 points 15 hours ago
[–] nis@feddit.dk 14 points 1 day ago

Cheap, easy to get, abundant and hyper palatable calories.

[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 day ago
[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 34 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The ease of gambling in the US.

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Doesn't help that you practically get assaulted with ads for gambling if you watch any sort of sports.

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 1 points 34 minutes ago

In the UK at least, most gambling adverts are showing off how easy it is to stop when you use their platform. Just a solid minute of "stay in control of your gambling" etc.

I dont know what fallacy or whatever it is, but it makes me queasy.

[–] Fontasia@feddit.nl 3 points 22 hours ago
[–] applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Religion. For most of my life I've seen media both implicitly and explicitly claiming that religion is a fundamental human social need, and that people who aren't religious are the weird immoral outliers. What I've found is true though, is that religion is a primer for believing things contrary to evidence or reason. Faith is often promoted as a virtue in religion, and many aspects of religious thought are fundamentally unverifiable. Once someone starts down the path of believing things without evidence or critical thought, it gets easier to believe things contrary to evidence, and once you get far enough in that you could potentially be convinced to believe anything. You see this with the antivaxers, flat earthers, conspiracy theorists, far right extremists, etc. Many of these beliefs have a root in established religions, if not explicit religious justification. These things aren't necessarily directly because of religion, people don't really need religion to believe wacky bigoted shit contrary even to the evidence of their own eyes, but religion by it's very nature encourages people to be uncritical. Even if the tenets of a religion are objectively good, the uncritical acceptance of ideas can easily start being applied to a person's own biases, because it's just so easy. It's already easy to be uncritical of ideas but practicing it makes it so much worse. Religion is basically taking a major human weakness and promoting it as the height of virtue. Faith is intellectual sloth.

[–] DomeGuy@lemmy.world 4 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

That isn't "religion", it's a tenet of a fraction of Christianity.

Many religions (Judaism, Islam, Shinto, Bhuddism) do not hold faith up as a virtue, and many Christian denominations (Roman Catholic, non-evangelical Protestant) assert that your faith must include good action and rational thought.

(We could have a conversation about the good things inspired by religion or the terrible things done by irrreligious folk who share your reverence for skepticism, but I really just wanted to point out that you were using an overly broad brush)

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 2 points 17 hours ago

Yeah. Free market Jesus really did a number on religion

[–] ArseAssassin@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 day ago

Just try to make sure you don't end up as narrow-minded as they are.

[–] doug@lemmy.today 23 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Alcohol

iirc it’s a confirmed, 100% proven carcinogen and is a poison with zero net benefits.

[–] tlekiteki@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 hours ago

and addictive

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 3 points 17 hours ago

No net benefits today.

Various alcoholic drinks of the past were a benefit in helping to provide hydration and calories in an unclean environment.

[–] fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I mean nobody drinks it because it's healthy.

But but but muh 1 glass of red wine a day study!

[–] YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Some of the best times of my life in my 20s were enabled through alcohol. I traveled the world using my own money, met countless interesting people in pubs and at festivals.

As I sit, fully sober at my workstation in the office some 20 years, later I can think back to those times and can't help but pity anyone who says it has zero net benefits.

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 5 points 14 hours ago

yeah. people drink it because its a damn good social lubricant.

[–] doug@lemmy.today -1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

keyword is "net" -- you made friends, but the health risks involved may considerably offset that benefit.

i'm sober and have made countless friends sans alcohol, many of them drink themselves; and if alcohol was a contingent on them being my friend, I'm not sure I'd want to be friends with them.

[–] YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

Hard disagree, but that might have a lot to do with me being Scottish.

[–] Texas_Hangover@lemmy.radio 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Zero net benefits my ass! 🖕🏻

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 0 points 14 hours ago

username checks out

[–] BigBolillo@mgtowlemmy.org 27 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] Cantaloupe@lemmy.fedioasis.cc 10 points 1 day ago

A threat I once greatly underestimated.

[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Yeah. "Cyberbullies"/trolls won, they run the internet now. Or rather they run the "front page" parts of it like Twitter, Reddit and Instagram.

[–] lemmyng@piefed.ca 12 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Before the AI craze, LLMs were a neat niche academic tool. Then the cults started forming...

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[–] lime@feddit.nu 21 points 1 day ago

you know when you see one of those dashcam videos where some idiot has run over a sign or a bollard or whatever and just kept driving with the thing stuck to the car, throwing sparks everywhere and making a big rip in the asphalt behind them?

100 horsepower is a lot.

[–] sefra1@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago
[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Cat.

Yes, hello, I am here having my third ER visit.

This was my hand on Saturday, one day after cat bites (I counted 8 punctures), and after two doses of antibiotics.

In case you are like me, and have no sense of medical emergency, that is a serious infection.

I have had two butt shots, an X-ray, five days out of ten of courses of two different antibiotics, and I just had a CT scan.

[–] fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Did you never attempt to wash it out after getting bitten? Any time you puncture skin you should wash it.

[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I washed it thoroughly, cleaned it with hydrogen peroxide, applied Neosporin, bandaged it, then went to urgent care, where they washed it again and prescribed me Augmentin. And even after all that, that’s how my hand looked the next day!

[–] fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

What the fuck. Thats one infected ass cat.

[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 0 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Cat mouths are super dirty. Very nasty bites. :(

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 1 points 1 hour ago

Claws are bad news too

[–] Artafernes@lemmus.org 2 points 1 day ago

Ileven after all that you hand is like this than l am so cooked

[–] HootinNHollerin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

If you do nitrous oxide excessively & often it depletes your B-12 and deteriorates the lining of your spinal column and you can lose feeling and motion and become paralyzed in some cases

[–] kboos1@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Little addictions.

Addiction is a real problem and incredibly hard to diagnose. I'm not talking about drugs, I'm talking about those little additions that subtly sublimely control nearly every decision in your life. Addiction to caffeine, sugar, social media, TV, driving too fast, being an asshole, being a complainer, etc.

There's a lot of reasons why we do what we do or why we think we do them but for the most part it's about chasing those bits of dopamine.

[–] fizzle@quokk.au 3 points 1 day ago

I think im "addicted" to all of these things.

Although im not a complainer.

Also try not to be an asshole but im sure someone thinks i am.

Capitalism

Weed (the addiction part, not necessarilly the drug itself)

Sugar

Plastics

Smartphones

Cars

Proprietary software

[–] Nomad@infosec.pub 3 points 1 day ago

Climate change, ~~dumb~~simple people in a complex world, anti vaxxers.

[–] ace_garp@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Cows

Bougainvillea

Household ladders

Vending machines

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