Watching sandman season 2. Somehow knowing what the author did to other people seems to enrich the story somewhat. The dysfunctional family of the endless and all the abusive characters seem to hint at the darker corners of the authors life.
Art images life, even if it's painful and gruesome.
Remember: we treat and help even those who smoke themselves to death while we do it. Empathy is a human quality. By gloating and being cruel, we sink to their level. Even if this women never learns her lesson, please show empathy and help of you can.