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transcription: i have 2 moods, anxious, horny

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[–] froufox@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago
[–] FilthyShrooms@lemmy.world 35 points 3 days ago

It's a venn diagram with a lot of overlap

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 days ago

Genuinely though a lot of emotions are fundamentally chemically the same and your perception of them is ultimately what makes the difference.

[–] Chiqa@midwest.social 1 points 1 day ago

YES PLEASE UWU

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 29 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] nullcat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 3 days ago (1 children)

mariamariamariamariamariamariamariamariamaria

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 3 days ago

lenalenalenalena ...... sorry... im not much on matrix or lemmy anymore........

i probably should be, i felt better making things for the peeps here.

[–] pirc_lover@feddit.uk 17 points 3 days ago

Wrong! There is a secret third state: hornxiety.

[–] kerrigan778@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago

This is one mood for me.

[–] Hexarei@beehaw.org 4 points 2 days ago

I have a third, titled "I am a programming goddess, fall before my feet and worship my genius" but it's uncommon

[–] elomekra@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Good news everyone, I have a surefire way to relieve both!

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago

..... death?

[–] socsa@piefed.social 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 days ago

no eep for teh hornxy

[–] oxysis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 3 days ago

same but i always have both at the same time