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  • Beginning with a phased global rollout to new and existing users in early March, users may be required to engage in an age-verification process to change certain settings or access sensitive content. This includes age-restricted channels, servers, or commands and select message requests.

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    [–] eager_eagle@lemmy.world 256 points 2 weeks ago (8 children)

    I hope that discourages open source projects and similar communities from using discord as forum / user support.

    [–] PiraHxCx@lemmy.dbzer0.com 131 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

    Yep, hate when I want to follow some project and they link you to X, Reddit and Discord lol

    [–] P1nkman@lemmy.world 70 points 2 weeks ago

    Need support? Contract us on @SupportThatNeverReplies on Shitter (the nazi-everything app)!

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    [–] TheTechnician27@lemmy.world 43 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (4 children)

    I can say as a member of the PCSX2 project that I understand why we and other FOSS emulators use it as official support – but nevertheless wish that we didn't. We've discussed practicalities before, and the project doesn't stay there just from inertia or because of personal preference; there are major practical reasons to prefer it over a forum (which we have), a wiki (which we have), or Matrix.

    I'd be willing to endure the pain points and to scale back support in order to be off of that shithole, but I also get that's a fringe minority sentiment shared by only a couple others. All of us would be tech-literate enough to use a client like Signal or Element for intra-project discussion, but very few people would come to Matrix for support (nor would we probably want them to due to the much greater moderation burden per end user), and the chatroom model – to most of us – is much easier for support than a forum. The only reason I'm still begrudgingly on Discord is for PCSX2.

    I share your hope, but I seriously doubt this will come even close to dislodging us. Smaller projects, perhaps.

    [–] Nioxic@lemmy.dbzer0.com 29 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

    Putting valuable help, trouble solving and FAQ stuff into a discord is … annoying. You cant find it again. So it will only help the original poster

    [–] TheTechnician27@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

    We do also maintain docs. I put a lot of effort into the Setup ones but got burnt-out before really getting into the other ones (which need a lot of work). And for actual bugs, we use GitHub.

    Discord's search functionality is reasonably robust, and as long as you're already there, you can usually find old conversations about the problem you're having. The biggest problem is that it's gated off from the wider Internet, which is shitty.

    I think what we all like about it over forums for providing support is that it's closer to real-time communication, it's more flexible (conversations can flow in and out of each other instead of being permanently stuck in one subject-specific thread), and it's more casual.

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    [–] i_am_tired_boss@lemmy.world 17 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

    Damn it. I did not come here for a reasonable and valid explanation.

    ಠ_ಠ

    Begrudgingly puts away pitchfork

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    [–] Sineljora@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 weeks ago (15 children)

    https://stoat.chat/download

    Stoat looks promising as an open source alternative

    [–] FalschgeldFurkan@lemmy.world 17 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

    Looks promising...

    but why is it always electron?

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    [–] goatinspace@feddit.org 72 points 2 weeks ago
    [–] SalamenceFury@piefed.social 71 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (21 children)

    Discord genuinely thinks they got the users by the balls... Thing is, people move platforms extremely easily. It happened to MSN Messenger, it happened to Skype, and it'll happen to Discord too.

    For those who are looking for something very similar, look at Stoat (formerly known as Revolt). Their URL is https://stoat.chat/.

    [–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 63 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

    One problem will be that there are way too goddamn many software projects that use Discord as a shitty replacement for a blog and documentation, and they’re gonna be a pain to move to proper content platforms.

    [–] empireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com 39 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

    Sometimes the only way thru is shitty. And those devs might have to learn the hard way not to overcentralize- or to not use a damn chat software for what is way more suited to forums.

    [–] Dojan@pawb.social 16 points 2 weeks ago

    I’ve been complaining about this for years. Hope we’re finally starting to see the end of it.

    [–] MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

    "Look, Discord requires me to upload a pic of my face or ID, to which i can't legally agree to. Provide another channel or bye."

    [–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 15 points 2 weeks ago

    That’ll work for individual users, but getting all that chat history out will be a problem for the owners once the users dry up.

    And I’m sure Discord will do their best to make it impossible.

    Serves them right for picking chat software in the first place, let alone one they don’t control.

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    [–] sheridan@lemmy.world 22 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

    Mass migration like that occurs (from my memory at least) when the newer alternative has much better functionality, performance, and ease of use compared to the status quo service and has a low barrier to entry (sign up is quick and straightforward). Do any of the decentralized Discord alternatives fit these criteria (honest question, not rhetorical)?

    [–] SalamenceFury@piefed.social 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

    Well, Stoat has the same features as Discord, including many premium ones for free, the ability to write HTML/CSS for your own server, with the only thing missing being video feed. Otherwise, it functions the same while being much faster.

    Also sign up is very quick, but right now they're getting hugged to death.

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    [–] Jestzer@lemmy.world 20 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

    They absolutely have their users by the balls and I guarantee most people will continue to use the app after this, unfortunately.

    [–] Chulk@lemmy.ml 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

    Yeah, my group of friends will be very resistant to moving away from discord. They're all aware of the issues with it, but It's too convenient of a platform. Personally, I will give up most of the comforts to not be under the thumb of a corporation, but I'm an outlier in my friend group with that perspective.

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    [–] ech@lemmy.ca 54 points 2 weeks ago

    Didn't they just get busted for leaking their verification data that they totally weren't keeping?

    Guess I’m not using discord anymore lol

    [–] jpablo68@infosec.pub 43 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (6 children)

    You know what doesn't require full face scan? irc

    [–] mPony@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago

    irc

    now there's some letters I haven't seen in quite some time.

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    [–] tabular@lemmy.world 38 points 2 weeks ago

    I refuse to verify my age with a face scan or government ID for an online account/profile.. It's too easy to imagine how fucked up that will go.

    The more I delete profiles to platforms with ~~unwanted~~ disturbing features the more recluse I become. It must look to acquaintances that I don't care to speak but what can I say? I cannot imagine convincing computer-literate friends to switch to something as they will have the same problem.

    Do I need to retire my gaming server before I'm locked out of controlling it?

    [–] iamdefinitelyoverthirteen@lemmy.world 34 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

    Well, the day it asks me for ID/face scan is the day I delete my account. Their days are numbered.

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    [–] Pxtl@lemmy.ca 30 points 2 weeks ago

    I love how photo-based age verification scanning is the worst of both worlds - it destroys your anonymity, but not in a way that makes it easier to run a community where you can ban a person by their digital ID since they can just make a new one with the same face since facial recognition is too crude for that.

    [–] veeesix@lemmy.ca 28 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

    Age assurance is the foundation of this new experience and is designed to respect Discord users’ privacy and choice. Discord users can choose to use facial age estimation or submit a form of identification to its vendor partners, with more options coming in the future. Additionally, Discord will implement its age inference model, a new system that runs in the background to help determine whether an account belongs to an adult, without always requiring users to verify their age. Some users may be asked to use multiple methods if more information is needed to assign an age group.

    Key privacy protections of Discord’s age-assurance approach include:

    • On-device processing: Video selfies for facial age estimation never leave a user’s device.
    • Quick deletion: Identity documents submitted to our vendor partners are deleted quickly— in most cases, immediately after age confirmation.
    • Straightforward verification: In most cases, users complete the process once and their Discord experience adapts to their verified age group. Users may be asked to use multiple methods only when more information is needed to assign an age group.
    • Private status: A user’s age verification status cannot be seen by other users. 

    After completing a chosen method, users will receive confirmation via a direct message from Discord’s official account. A user’s assigned age group can also be viewed at any time in “My Account” settings. Users can always go to “My Account” settings to appeal their assigned age group by retrying the process. Discord prompts users to age-assure only within Discord and currently does not send emails or text messages about its age assurance process or results.

    Not happy with the face-scanning either way. Gonna have a chat with some of my personal groups about how we might move forward.

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    [–] Dsklnsadog@lemmy.dbzer0.com 26 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

    Seriously, like, actually seriously, I want to believe that this time everyone will leave Discord, and not just a small group of weirdos like us who “care about privacy” and ended up on Lemmy.

    [–] zewm@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago

    From my experience, the average joe will just do whatever is asked of them to continue using a service.

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    [–] brap@lemmy.world 21 points 2 weeks ago

    Yeah that’s a hard no from me. Want me to prove my ID? I want you to prove that you’re not gonna store it. History suggests otherwise.

    Not that I want to use your platform anyway.

    [–] Embargo@lemmy.zip 21 points 2 weeks ago

    Seeya ✌️

    [–] Zoldyck@lemmy.world 20 points 2 weeks ago

    RIP Discord. Good riddance

    [–] ImgurRefugee114@reddthat.com 19 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (4 children)

    My group has been tinkering with matrix but the ecosystem is such a mess that I think we'll be going to xmpp-based solutions, and once the kinks are ironed out, migrating it to i2p

    Not to go all conspiracy-nut, but it feels like the net (at least the social spaces) is decaying, and it feels intentional / coordinated.

    [–] Chulk@lemmy.ml 18 points 2 weeks ago

    Not to go all conspiracy-nut, but it feels like the net (at least the social spaces) is decaying, and it feels intentional / coordinated.

    At this point, I don't think it's conspiracy-nut to say this. We have a group of tech oligarchs in the US who are openly collaborating with a fascist administration. It is a conspiracy and this kinda shit is the result.

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    [–] deathbird@mander.xyz 19 points 2 weeks ago

    It seems like the restriction should be lifted for accounts without verification after 5 years. After all, you're not even allowed to sign up if you're under 13, so by 5 years you have to be at least 18.

    [–] Lyra_Lycan@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

    "Content filtering" is just corporate jargon for subjective censorship, dynamically and discriminately restricting access to knowledge. I abhor all censorship.

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    [–] betanumerus@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 weeks ago

    Unless they lso give me a face scan of each Discord employee and member, I'm out. Enough is enough, nothing is free.

    [–] tomiant@piefed.social 13 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

    EXTREMELY INVASIVE SURVEILLANCE OPERATIONS ARE NOW PUT IN PLACE FOR you to have a better sense of community and meaningful communication <3

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    [–] EaterOfLentils@programming.dev 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (6 children)

    What alternative should we all switch to?

    Also thinking AI fake IDs will end up being an easy way around this.

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    [–] rogsson@piefed.social 11 points 2 weeks ago

    Well FU Discord. Over my dead body

    [–] disconnectikacio@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

    Discord was always an overhyped crap.

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