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I've seen alot of calls for violence in America. Whether it be directed at the president or Federal officers, many people are advocating for an escalation in response to the current situation.

And believe me, I do understand. what I see happening in America is horrifying. But all I am imploring is to really think about what your asking for. Because you can't put the genie in the bottle once you've left it out.

If you're really gung-ho about it, go and ask a Veteran of Iraq or Afghanistan about it and see what they think. If anyone will know about it they will.

I am going to link a YouTube Playlist. Its the Associated Press Archives of the Bosnian-Serbian war. Because THAT is what will happen if wide scale violence breaks out. Except what will happen in America will be a hundred times worse.

The Bosnian war was pretty much broken up along ethnic lines. "Well it's going to be Conservative VS. Liberal" you say. Except it won't be. It will be anyone having a grudge against someone going after them.

ALOT of personal animosity will be taken out in the first few weeks I feel.

And I think the Seige of Sarajavo will be writ large in American cities across the country. Imagine having to dodge sniper fire on your way to get to your job at Wendy's.

Because that's the other thing no one is thinking about. You are still going to have to make a living while this is all going to be happening. And the cost of everything will skyrocket. Shipping will probably have to be escorted from place to place because people will be stealing or even blockading locations because they're "damn dirty libs" or "Fascist Conservatives" Fresh produce will become a thing of the past.

Canada and Mexico will close their borders due to all the refugee's trying to cross. so if you thinking of doing it, do it the moment everything pops off because otherwise you won't get in.

Basically Civil war is going to the worst thing to happen in America in a long time. and the only good that comes out of it will be Americans will finally have first hand experience of real war torn violence. And maybe that will hopefully last for another two hundred years or so.

If America even survives the outcome that is.

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[–] oyzmo@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

History repeats itself—if we let it.

When building power, some leaders pick a group to blame: Hitler targeted Jews, Trump vilified immigrants. Once momentum builds, the list of "enemies" grows—anyone who disagrees becomes a target.

Recognizing these patterns is the first step to stopping them. Let’s learn from the past and stand against division.

#HistoryMatters #NeverAgain #UnityOverHate

[–] Jumpingspiderman@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Well, Trump and MAGA have ensured that the US is cooked anyway no matter what happens

[–] ArmchairAce1944@discuss.online 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

In real life when you get hit, hiding behind cover does not regenerate your health and picking up health packs or eating food does nothing.

Also most war will be 99% boredom and 1% sheer terror.

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

of course not, you gotta eat a first aid kit

[–] XeroxCool@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

Then apply crushed ramen and super glue into the open wound

Answering a question that who asked? Who would think war is a video game? Everyone's a badass until they're on the wrong end of a shooting range. If war causes infrastructure collapse to shipping of critical supplies like foods and fuels tens of millions could die, or more. Exposure, lack of meds (like insulin, anti-rejection, etc.), and lack of clean water will wipe out a huge number of people, too.

The question is what the alternative would be. Look at history for the answer. The easy comparison would be Germany leading up to, during, and after World War 2, but that would be low-hanging fruit considering how very directly the US regime is trying to force other countries to join them. (Anschluss, anyone?) Look also at the countries where extremist regimes took over and didn't get forced out until years later and the damages they did to their country and the people living in it. Unfortunately too many examples there to name. The US regime and their stormtroopers will continue to harass, arrest, and outright kill people who have a legal right to live in the US simply over the color of their skin or otherwise until they are stopped. And they will most assuredly not stop by the power of fingerwagging and strongly stated words.

[–] Wilco@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The next "civil war" will just be a series of Luigi-like instances. My prediction is that the justice system will simply start failing to get grand jury indictments like they did with the ham sandwhich throwing incident.

[–] Jumpingspiderman@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

“Start failing”??? That ship has done sailed.

[–] Wilco@lemmy.zip 1 points 13 hours ago

Well, yes, in DC several grand Juries have failed to indict due to purposeful Nullification and a hatred of ICE. We would need this kind of agreement on a national level. A not guilty verdict for Luigi would be a great start.

[–] BussyGyatt@feddit.org 3 points 1 day ago

I heard there's no respawns in IRL.

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Yeah no shit. Who thinks that?

[–] Dozzi92@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The half of Lemmy who are like "Why you guys no shooting?" I mean, to say something so stupid, one must think war and battle are just a walk in the park.

[–] BCsven@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 day ago

It's because USA touts that guns are needed to fight an over reaching government, except its clear that the fascist rising is going unchecked. So they are taking a jab at the fallacy of guns are needed against a government.

[–] Tikiporch@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

From what I can tell, those seem to be non-USians saying things like that.

[–] chemicalprophet@slrpnk.net 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Good morning fellow nose breather!

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[–] Doomsider@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

"Americans will finally have first hand experience of real war torn violence"

Someone missed the War on Drugs which is just another genocide. Also millions of Americans live under the threat of gun death everyday. Have you ever ducked when you hear a gun shot? This is the reality for many urban citizens.

We lose the equivalent of a ongoing war 40-60k gun deaths every year and have so for the last several decades to gun death.

"Over 1.5 million gun deaths occurred in the U.S. between 1968 and 2017, exceeding combined American military deaths in all wars (Revolutionary, Civil, World Wars, Korea, Vietnam, etc.)."

Our government is the most evil collaboration of wealthy people the world has ever scene. They have their hands in everything and control the majority of the world.

We have always been at war with ourselves. I have lost multiple people in my life to gun violence. I know many people's lives ruined by the war on drugs. We have destroyed tens of millions of families and show no interest in slowing down.

We lock up a disproportional amount of people in the US accounting for 20% of the world's prison population but only 4% of the world's population.

We were cooked frogs a long time ago.

[–] theacharnian@lemmy.ca 51 points 2 days ago (11 children)

Not American, so feel free to stop reading.

It's ridiculous to me how you yanks go from zero to a hundred like this. Either normality or civil war. Like there is no in between? You have an authoritarianism problem. So resist authoritarianism. What makes you think that the only way to resist is shooting people? Resistance is a spectrum, and you have barely started using democratic means to fight back (you just started electing democratic socialists), much less active procedural and institutional warfare (is Bernie demanding a vote for every procedural point requiring a vote? Are the Dems actually using any rat fucking tactic to make the state ungovernable? Are your local and state governments really resisting beyond making angry noises?). You have barely tried non violent resistance (not the same as peaceful!) but you're such a violent culture that you jump straight to military solutions. Wtf. Those come at the very end, if everything else has failed. Has it? Nowhere near. So this talk about civil war, is that really useful?

[–] Dozzi92@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

You're totally right. A war is the last avenue to take. But you also are here on Lemmy, so you must see the constant calls for US Americans to take up arms against one another, despite the fact that avenues remain.

Shit sucks here. Shit will suck a lot more if there's a war. And it will suck here and everywhere else. A lot more.

[–] Mantzy81@aussie.zone 11 points 2 days ago

Whilst I agree, the problem lies with the individualism of the general population rather than the collective mindset. The backwards-ass government system (i.e. no opposition government, the bastardisation of the 3 branches etc. and the power hungry head-of-state vs a Parliamentary system for example), the extreme "state-first" mentality that then struggles when the Federal system comes down on it and the "divide and conquer" tactics of corporations with the support of successive right-leaning governments. A judicial system that corrupted by politics and trying to guess what a bunch of ~~guys~~ slave-owning white landowners 250 years ago would have thought is also very very very very very very very dumb. The law is meant to be blind - it's why the statue used to represent it wears a blindfold, holds a scale and a sword.

The country is in need of a Civil Revolution rather than a civil war. Both sides are more similar than they realise, and generally want the same thing, and none seem to see the real enemy (CEOs, Billionaires etc.) due to all the propaganda.

[–] Knightfox@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago (6 children)

The problem is that the steps between zero and a hundred are incremental rights which take decades to establish. If you are a non-American then you might have those steps already established, but currently the US does not. So once the status quo passes beyond the acceptable parameters the only possible solution is violence.

Another user I spoke with asked about collective rebellion, union strikes, and general resistance, but these don't work if the infrastructure isn't already in place. You can't start a strike if you don't have a union and your co-workers don't agree, you can't take up arms without at least a state level rebellion, most protests are effectively meaningless, and unless you are willing to give up everything (job, family, and well being) then you'll never amount a significant resistance.

For the most part people want to live their lives with the least amount of fucking up they can. So long as the republican's don't fuck up their shit too much they will keep their heads down and vote in the elections.

Democrats and states both follow the same rules. They will try to counter the Republicans, but if that means a government shutdown with old people and the poor going without assistance then they are willing to cave. So far we aren't at the point where any US group is willing to make real sacrifice to make a change, such as a fighting, going without, or causing their family to suffer.

You can’t start a strike if you don’t have a union and your co-workers don’t agree

This is a major point that those outside of the US seem to miss, I think. The sheer depth of contempt for unions and unionization I've experienced is a massive barrier to organizing any significant resistance. I'm very certain a majority of US citizens are unaware of what a general strike even looks like. Corporate propaganda has very successfully vilified and diminished unions for a long time.

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[–] ImmersiveMatthew@sh.itjust.works 32 points 2 days ago (6 children)

Americans are sadly locked into the path of violence as the other path will force them to face their systemic racism, and corporate idolization which is clearly not going to happen.

It took Nicole Good to be face shot before people really started to react despite 4 other similar events with non white females and I am constantly shocked how many Americans defend corporations that are literally exploiting them. America is cooked unfortunately as like most humans, myself included, we tend to become blind with power.

[–] Doomsider@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Corporations became the dominate force in our culture and in every culture around the world. 90% + of all policy in the whole world is written by corporations. There isn't a country that exist without widening income inequality.

It would be great if this was just an American problem. It isn't. The wealthy will use their favorite proxy the corporation to run humanity into the ground. They have already poisoned the entire planet time and time again. They are the biggest threat humanity has ever seen.

They make the Nazi look wholesome. Remember it was IBM that developed the numbering system for Jews and also helped figure out how many Jews needed to be cleared out of the Ghetto daily for the final solution. Likewise MS, Google, Meta, etc. have been giving material support to genocide.

[–] Lawyerator@lemmy.world 20 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Renee Good was her name. Not Nicole. Sucks that attention was only given after a white LGBT woman was killed. Still sucks even more that she was killed. I am haunted by the pictures of her glove box. It was filled with stuffed animals for her child.

It was Nicole. Renee Nicole Good

[–] ebc@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago

Honest question: were the other events filmed like Rene's killing was? My hypothesis is that's it's more about the available footage of the incident than the victim's demographics... But the USA is racist as fuck so I could be wrong.

[–] Doorbook@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

For me it was the blunt justification of horrific indiscriminate killing of children with sniper rifle, tens of gun shots, and dropping bomb dirctlt on school and hospital. Seeing how the media did everything to cover it up, politician working overtime to censor protest, and Democrat , and Republican presidents shipping an absurd amount of tax money directly to fund the genociders what made it clear that the US corporations, and government will kill anything in their way to ensure US and other nations are slave.

The only way around this is to wait until US invade another Nato or EU country and for these country to withdraw rich people ability to leave the US. Then a revolution might be successful.

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[–] WraithGear@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

you are saying this like the terms of the required action are dictated by the oppressed, and they bear the responsibility of the result. but that is wholly decided by the regime. if your asking people to weigh the cost of freedom verses the ease of tyranny, just remember that time does not make the cost any more palatable, it makes it worse.

[–] BigTuffAl@lemmy.zip 68 points 2 days ago (13 children)

... Americans don't realize they're already in a civil war? Bro a city is occupied. Secret police roam freely. Tens of thousands disappeared.

[–] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.world 27 points 2 days ago (10 children)

That isn't a civil war. That is an autocracy. If the people across the state were coming in a militia to take over that would be a civil war.

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[–] solidheron@sh.itjust.works 16 points 2 days ago

the problem with a civil war is collapse of the supply chain for most people, and you'll have to become useful to get protection

[–] RabbitBBQ@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

One side in this supposed civil war has a monopoly on weapons, training, tactics, supplies, and political power. The other side has legal weed dispensaries. It wouldn't be a civil war, more like a Gaza style genocide.

[–] doingthestuff@lemy.lol 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Also, many progressive cities are literally surrounded by conservative suburbs and rural areas. It wouldn't be difficult to cut the cities off from food supplies.

[–] Formfiller@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I have a hard time believing the higher IQ people would fall easily. Think about how insecure , scared and absolutely stupid most MAGATs are about literally everything. Plus there’s a real possibility we would get into alliances that want to preserve democracy

[–] RabbitBBQ@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

I bet if every legal gun owner in Minneapolis, marched armed and peaceful down the street, that the message would be delivered.

[–] NannerBanner@literature.cafe 4 points 1 day ago

I'm dead in a month as soon as any major part of our infrastructure/supply chain crumbles. yaaaay.

I do wonder if I'm on somebody's list.

[–] DicJacobus@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

you dont get battle lines until there's been a few years of mass killings on both sides, before Regime Loyalist and Opposition "states" or lines solidify.

[–] reddig33@lemmy.world 23 points 2 days ago

YSK: The average citizen doesn’t have much control over the cork in the bottle.

This administration is repeatedly and consistently provoking people. Randomly shooting people in the face, and talking about sending the military to Minnesota is going to cause things to boil over if the other people we elected don’t step in and force them to cool down.

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 149 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (6 children)

It's worthwhile you mention Sarajevo, and in reference to that I will post this tidbit posted by a MetaFilter user in 2009 regarding their experience in the siege of Sarajevo. I have it bookmarked and post it from time to time where it seems appropriate. The reality is though, you're correct, Americans by and large don't know what they're asking for.

Well, unlike the majority of you (I assume), I actually lived several years in a period of savagery and killing, during which nothing - food, water, electricity, phone, clothing, sense of safety, school, the ability to go out in public, etc - was available, except during totally unpredictable, brief and sporadic occasions.

Of those who couldn't leave my city, Sarajevo:

Some people (very few) were prepared for what they thought would be the "long haul" - this tended to be a couple of months. These people were widely seen as lunatics and dangerously pessimistic ones at that.

Most people were not at all prepared. This included my family. Many of those - like my family - considered the idea of "preparation" to be an affront to the decency we felt most people possessed. Were we wrong? Well, I don't know. We suffered greatly; my parents were killed. But speaking only for myself, I never felt I cheapened my soul by betting on calamity. Today, that still feels like it's worth something.

But here's the main point: "Preparing" for the disaster really didn't do anyone much good. Those who "prepared" ate a little better for a while. They stayed warmer for a few extra days. They enjoyed the radio for a while longer (via batteries.) But in the end, they ended up hungry, cold and bored too, just like the rest of us. Guns and weapons helped no one directly and were even of little to no use in the defense of Sarajevo, since they were toys compared to the shells, bombs and high-powered armaments of the attacking forces. The worst parts of war were psychological - the fear, anxiety, boredom, loneliness, paranoia, bad dreams. Respite from those things came with sharing food with a neighbor, finding a piece of clothing that would fit someone you knew, commiserating with others in your position, figuring out how to make make-up from brick or french fries from wheat paste and spreading this newly-acquired war knowledge around the mahala.

We knew who had extra food and supplies. For the most part, they weren't attacked or hassled or bothered. Contrary to what these survivalists say, those in dire times generally hold on to their personal sense of pride even more than they do in normal times. I'd take a bite of a friend's salad without bothering to ask in normal times. I'd never have done that in wartime, no matter how hungry I was.

Within the domain of those trapped in the city, civility greatly increased.

You often hear how Holocaust survivors felt guilt at surviving. Well, during war, that was a feeling everyone was aware of - people started dying right away (my parents were killed near the start of the siege, for instance) - and there was a palpable enough common sense of karma to make everyone into good Samaritans. None of us understood why we survived while others didn't. I shared food when I had it, even though I often knew I wouldn't have a crumb the next day. Which was no big achievement, because nearly everyone did the same.

Those who'd prepared, well, the majority of them shared their food and whatever else they had as soon as someone else was clearly in need. I can't swear it, but I think they felt a little foolish to have been so self-obsessed, and giving away that stuff might have lessened that feeling. There were a few people who hoarded things until they ran out of stuff - eventually everybody ran out of anything worth hoarding - and they soon became wishful beggars like the rest of us. Again, I can't swear it, but I hear stories, and it seems that these people suffer from post-war trauma, guilt and nightmares more than the rest of us.

Those survivalists, I feel sorry for them. It's no way to live.

posted by Dee Xtrovert at 9:33 PM on January 28, 2009

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