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[โ€“] jpreston2005@lemmy.world 11 points 4 hours ago

My little brother, I'm fairly certain, pioneered this technique in dealing with our racist parents.

My parents would say something casually awful, about LGBTQ, Black, Latino, or Muslim people and my lil bro would sarcastically, and enthusiastically agree, stringing their point along to the logical conclusion of their hate-centered universe, and watch them get more and more uncomfortable.

example:

parents: "Black people are just genetically more violent"

lil Bro: "Oh yeah, they're genetically inferior all right, and genes can be altered before birth, so we should treat melanin as a genetic anomaly and edit it entirely out. we should put the rest in cages and make them perform like in a zoo. Everyone who isn't perfectly milky alabaster white should be shot out of a cannon and into the sun. My freckles are a sin to god and we should cut them out of our bodies ritualistically. My friend Gary is black, let's go fucking shoot him for it."

Parents: ๐Ÿ˜ถ

I had been away for a minute and watched it happen for the first time, and I laughed, applauded, and clapped my bro on the back... So proud of him.

[โ€“] Laser@feddit.org 8 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I still love Biden's answer to the question how many genders there are

He probably didn't come up with it but it's still so funny to me

[โ€“] HK65@sopuli.xyz 5 points 8 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] Jomega@lemmy.world 8 points 8 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] shani66@ani.social 5 points 7 hours ago

Okay that's a great answer

[โ€“] FE80@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago
[โ€“] agent_nycto@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

Robots and Aliens

[โ€“] homoludens@feddit.org 67 points 1 day ago (6 children)

I thought the two genders were non-binary and binary?

[โ€“] fnrir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 11 hours ago

Option<OldGender>? Or maybe Either<&'a str, OldGender>?

[โ€“] erictile@lemmy.world 35 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[โ€“] Suburbanl3g3nd@lemmings.world 5 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Analog and digital or nothing at all

[โ€“] unknown@piefed.social 1 points 4 hours ago

Analog and cybergoth

[โ€“] veroxii@aussie.zone 7 points 23 hours ago

Well analog is pretty much a spectrum, so not wrong!

[โ€“] Bgugi@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago

There are 10 genders:

0: binary 1: non-binary

And also 2-F additional hexadecigenders you didn't expect me to mention.

[โ€“] gray@lemmy.ml 21 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[โ€“] aeronmelon@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)
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The 2 genders are True and False. True for "I have a gender" and False for "I have no gender".

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[โ€“] libre_warrior@lemmy.ml 1 points 13 hours ago

There are two genders, bootlickers and those who have ripened.

[โ€“] TheBat@lemmy.world 31 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Only two genders: normies and weirdos

[โ€“] radio@sh.itjust.works 19 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Even if they want to believe that there are only two genders that doesn't mean that someone can't transition from one to the other. Even under the rules they are so desperate to establish trans people still exist.

[โ€“] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 8 hours ago

Not to mention the existence of intersex people...

[โ€“] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 13 points 23 hours ago

The point is to carve away at our community piece by piece. They mostly lost the fight against binary trans people in public perception, so they've retreated to attacking nonbinary people. If they successfully turn public perception against us, they'll come for the binaries next.

[โ€“] atopi@piefed.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 day ago (4 children)

gender is binary. Your gender is either 0 or 1

since people have yet to associate numbers with gender expression , you can define the 2 genders however you want

[โ€“] Hupf@feddit.org 6 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Gender is binary. I'm 10110110

[โ€“] Burninator05@lemmy.world 5 points 7 hours ago

That's amazing! I'm 01001001. We should meet up.

[โ€“] craftrabbit@lemmy.zip 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] Hupf@feddit.org 3 points 7 hours ago

There should probably also be a bitmask to determine mutual compatibility

[โ€“] faythofdragons@slrpnk.net 7 points 20 hours ago

you can define the 2 genders however you want

Excuse me, in binary there are 10 genders.

[โ€“] gnuplusmatt@reddthat.com 9 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Perhaps gender is a quantum state and no one knows what or where it is until you measure it and its quantum state collapses

[โ€“] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 10 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

That's unironically a good way of thinking about it.

One of my proudest achievements in life is having used particle-wave duality to explain non-binary gender to a bunch of cis-het physics-bros, and also using non-binary gender to explain quantum physics to queer folk. I'm disproportionately pleased with having been able to use this explanation successfully both ways.

(I also think it says a lot about me that I have found myself in situations where it isn't uncommon that I get an opportunity to attempt this. Explaining gender to passively bigoted cis-hets feels like it's part of my ethical duty to the world, but menacing my friends with quantum physics monologues is just for fun)

[โ€“] gray@lemmy.ml 5 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Don't be shy, show your work (I am queer)

[โ€“] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

So until around 1902, it was near unanimously agreed that light was a wave, because it does all the stuff that waves do, like diffracting โ€” we wouldn't have rainbows, or the cool Pink Floyd album cover with a prism splitting light into a rainbow otherwise.

What changed in 1902 is that an experiment (called the photoelectric effect, if you're curious) produced results that would have only been possible if light was a particle. The photoelectric effect had been observed a bunch of times through the 1800s, but in 1902, a variant of the experiment produced results that would be impossible to explain if light were a wave. So then people start asking "okay, maybe we were wrong, maybe light is actually a particle". Except that didn't square with the centuries of evidence showing that light was a wave.

It turns out that light is both a particle and as wave. Or maybe neither. Because the key concept here is that particles and waves don't exist. They're just conceptual categories that we made to put boxes around phenomena to make them more understandable, much the same way that binary gender is a simplifying framework that works until it doesn't.

Now, this doesn't mean that the underlying phenomena, like light being diffracted, or the photoelectric effect, aren't real. The problem was in our framework of how we labelled them. Once physicists got their head around the possibility that light could be both a particle and a wave, they realised that there were a bunch of other situations where we could model light as a particle and discover interesting stuff. Most people don't need to understand this, because the simplified model of everything being either a particle or a wave works well enough that even if it's not correct, it's still useful โ€” these categories developed for a reason, after all. By analogy, it's like if I said "women have breasts". It's true in most instances, so it can still be a useful observation, even if it's not strictly accurate.

However, it gets even more interesting. At first, scientists thought that light must just be a special kind of phenomenon, able to exhibit both particle and wave characteristics. But then, in the double slit experiment, they found that under certain circumstances, electrons (which were near unanimously considered to be particles) could diffract โ€” i.e. act like waves. This was the result that really drove home the notion that when we're studying stuff that are super small and specific, our existing rules and categories sort of fall apart. It's even been suggested that other things that we squarely consider to be particles could show wave nature too, but the larger you get in scale, the harder it is to observe quantum phenomena (which basically just means that our rules work well when they're applied to the circumstances we developed those rules under. "Quantum phenomena" mostly just means "shit that happens when we're so zoomed in that our existing frameworks stop working")

In a sense, we could say that light behaving as a particle is analogous to a non binary man, and electrons behaving as a wave is analogous to a non binary woman. Maybe it would be more sensible to dispense with these categories entirely, but there are many phenomena and many people who find the terms useful.

[โ€“] gray@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Glad you liked it. I always appreciate an opportunity to practice my science communication skills (I JUST WANT EVERYONE TO FIND THIS STUFF AS DEEPLY FASCINATING AS I DO. I AM EXTREMELY NORMAL.)

[โ€“] kaulquappus@feddit.org 3 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

If you're currently at a 0, is it possible to engender yourself up to 1?

[โ€“] humorlessrepost@lemmy.world 10 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

It happened once from a cosmic ray during a Mario64 speed run.

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I've never seen such an intolerant post. You're either old enough to rent ultra-porn, or you need a fake ID

[โ€“] sirico@feddit.uk 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I have an agender but I keep forgetting to check it

Do you have dyslgbtqia?

[โ€“] TheDemonBuer@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Seems to me the number of genders depends on the culture. If your culture says there are only two genders, then there are two, in that culture. If your culture says there are more than two, then there are more than two, in that culture.

[โ€“] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 8 hours ago

The problem with this argument is that the anti-trans people will just say "our culture only has two" and that will be the end of their argument.

[โ€“] Deceptichum@quokk.au 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

What? Are you implying gender is some sort of communal assemblage.

[โ€“] caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That it was constructed by society??

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[โ€“] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Why you want their to be only two genders, mate? You want to be around more men, issit?

[โ€“] bored_gamer@lemmy.zip 9 points 1 day ago

Yes. More men, please ๐Ÿฅบ

[โ€“] xxce2AAb@feddit.dk 5 points 1 day ago

"Okay. Not going to lie. That's kinda hot."

"I know, right?"

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