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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:

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[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 40 points 4 days ago

In a modern society, generation by generation, we choose what tradition is acceptable to keep and what is not. We've abandoned many more traditions than we have kept, so they aren't inherently sacred and unquestionable.

Anyone who wants to keep a tradition that causes harm is just malicious.

[–] irelephant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 4 days ago (4 children)

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There's no original thoughts left

[–] chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)

This Showerthought has become a tradition!

[–] scottrepreneur@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago

Rip Alakazing

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 6 points 4 days ago

I also think the older one (peer pressure) is more apt than "bullying."

[–] IronBird@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago
[–] Asfalttikyntaja@sopuli.xyz 1 points 3 days ago

You mean, this is traditional?

[–] NostraDavid@programming.dev 22 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Tradition is innovation that survived long enough to stop being questioned.

or

Tradition is a solution that forgot the problem it solved.

Yours feel unnecessarily disrespectful.

[–] Xechon@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

I get the sentiment, though doesn't it seem unfair to assume all tradition has such grounding? Plus, disrespect is the mechanism for weeding out harmful or redundant traditions. It's fine.

[–] Shanmugha@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Depends on the tradition and insight of those who are alive

Tradition as in "we do this, because our ancestors did" is insanity, no questions there

[–] Strive7307@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

„we do this, because our ancestors did and because it‘s fun/ brings us joy“ is a completely valid reason however :)

[–] Shanmugha@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

Yeah, "because fun" beats everything else :)

Just today I got yet another insight about my own life along the lines of "it doesn't matter that much what I do, but rather how and why, and with what level of awareness"

[–] Allero@lemmy.today 7 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

I feel this way about religion.

It is literally being bullied by a supernatural creature that doesn't even exist. Do X, do not do Y, else the entire wrath of the Almighty will be upon you.

And at the same time the Almighty can do absolutely anything they want - mass murder people, sleep with anyone, get everyone drunk, tell father to kill the son - because what, are you gonna defy or question someone who else destroys you and tarnishes your soul for the rest of eternity?

The good is replaced with compliance, because an authoritative voice says what's good and you better obey. 1984 type shit, invented millenia before.

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

List of things the fictional Abrahamitic God did that broke their own commandments, or hypocritical moments:

  • God claiming to be the sole God (in the Bible itself, references to other deities with apparent powers exist such as Ba'al)
  • God claiming that people shall worship no other gods: see above. Insecure, much?
  • No making of images (while they make humans in their image)
  • No taking their name in vain (scorns others regularly)
  • Remembering and observing the sabbath (doesn't even do it themselves)
  • Honouring parents (doesn't even have any parents themselves)
  • Thou shalt not kill (literally the whole flood, firstborn kills, Sodom and Gomorrah, etc.)
  • No committing adultery (God doesn't even do sex themselves I think)
  • No stealing (they steal immortality from humanity)
  • No lying (lies to Isaac to make him offer his own son)
  • Don't be envious of other peoples' partners and stuff (didn't like that humans became self-conscious, handicapped the garden's snake for givinf that, killed people in Sodom and Gomorrah because they were probably queer)
  • Set up stones bc I said so (if God is almighty then why do they not simply put this thought into everyone?)

In a nutshell, that Abrahamitic God is a raging insecure hypocrite.

[–] YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world 12 points 4 days ago

Saw this on Reddit years ago. Looks like posting it has become something of a tradition!

[–] bitcrafter@programming.dev 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I will eat lasagna every year for Christmas dinner until I am in the grave, and I am perfectly fine with the fact that I was bullied into this by all the Italian ancestors who came before me because lasagna is delicious.

[–] IronBird@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago (2 children)

what sauce did italians use before tomatoes were brought over from the New World?

Given how they eat now, probably olive oil mixed with herbs. Hell they still eat that, and it's delicious tbh

[–] bitcrafter@programming.dev 3 points 4 days ago

The blood of our enemies.

[–] cibbecker@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Tradition is brainwashing younger people that they should keep doing what you did even after you're gone.

Not that every tradition is bad, or that everything should be done differently. Humans learn from the previous generations, that's a fundamental of our existence. But the way some traditions are imposed onto the young despite all issues with them sucks. It's about balance and not being dogmatic, I guess.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Speaking of brainwashing, its just do easy for a parent to abuse their position of power and like manipulate their children however they want.

Like if you got born into a crime family, you would have no choice but to live your childhood/teen years doing their bidding...

You could be born into a family of racists, a family of terrorists (think: Bin Laden), or a morally corrupt rich family (like: every politician ever)

Brainwashing is even more effective when you show affection 50% of the time.

But I think I just have a better "sus meter" than my mom anticipated, I detect her her bullshit all the time. Mom thinks I'm a gullible little servant that will obey her for the rest of her life. I guess being birthed by a manipulator naturally give you that BS Detector DNA?

But my brain is so weird... I get weirdly attached to my... emotionally abusive mother... I think I might have a bit of stockholm syndrome... I think I just really fanticise about the idea of family that I always desired...

[–] IronBird@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

yes, most people have mommy/daddy issues. they say the first step towards true personal growth is identifying/dealing with those issues

also, yes, most people want that happy family dynamic

[–] gustofwind@lemmy.world 11 points 4 days ago

It’s the living people who carry on traditions

[–] bookmeat@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 4 days ago

Not even original

[–] FishFace@piefed.social 4 points 4 days ago

Were you browsing 9gag in the shower or what?

[–] Vengefu1Tuna@lemmy.zip 3 points 4 days ago

I like this one. It's an amusing way to think about it.

Anything done more than once is tradition.

[–] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Beau of the Fifth Column introduced me to this quote, not sure if he started it.

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

what went with him? Is he in rehab or something?

[–] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Something with mental health & workload I believe. His wife is running the channel now which is okay but it's different. I really hope he's doing well but understandable that any youtuber could get burned out, especially with the subject matter he was covering.

[–] bestboyfriendintheworld@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Tradition is loving your ancestors’ wisdom.

[–] Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

OP needs to see Fiddler on the Roof, multiple times.

[–] Zahille7@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

Even Tevye didn't know why they kept up their traditions.

[–] Engywuck@lemmy.zip 0 points 4 days ago

Tradition is something silly. Endlessly redoing the same things at a fixed time just because...