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What's your take? Would you take seriously dating a single parent or would you do it just for temporal fun? Should people with kids date just people with kids?

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[–] thisisdee@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

Yes. Because if I’m somehow in a situation where I’m dating again, I’m a single parent too.

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

Wouldn't be my first choice, but possibly.

[–] DudeImMacGyver@kbin.earth 1 points 4 months ago

I am in a monogamous relationship, so, I wouldn't date anybody else.

However, if I were single, it wouldn't necessarily be a deal breaker.

[–] unknown1234_5@kbin.earth 1 points 4 months ago

no, but that is because I am very young (recent adult) and dont want to commit to raising a child. if I were at an age where it would be reasonable to have a kid I dont think I would mind as long as I like the person.

[–] HurlingDurling@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

Been married to one for 20 years

[–] shane@feddit.nl 1 points 4 months ago

I dated my now-wife when she was a single parent. So, yes.

[–] Ryanmiller70@lemmy.zip 1 points 4 months ago

Absolutely not. I can't stand kids and would immediately leave if I found out they had kids, whether they were young, teens, or adults.

[–] bstix@feddit.dk 1 points 4 months ago

I would actually see it as a positive factor. Depends on the people involved of course.

Singles with kids are much better aware of each part needing separate time and having individual obligations, compared to someone who doesn't have kids, who might still be looking to merge into a twosomeness where their relationship is the center of the universe.

I do have kids and am not single, so I guess it's easier to see in hindsight. I guess it could be difficult for a single parent to find a single non-parent who is on the same page in maturity and responsibility.

[–] Olhonestjim@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago

Nope, child free. I didn't get snipped for nothing.

[–] Tuuktuuk@piefed.ee 1 points 3 months ago

I have children and have nothing against someone dating me.

As I consider it okay to date a single parent such as I am, I also consider it okay if at some point a I end up wanting to date someone else who is a single parent as well.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago

Maybe, but I usually prefer to date married ones.

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