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Nowadays I find a lot of games feel like too much work and/or anxiety when I just want to relax for like, 30 minutes to an hour after a long day. On the other hand, the games specifically designed to help you unwind just feel boring imo.

In the past I've felt like Outer Wilds scratched this itch, cause the whole experience was engaging but generally relaxed. There was a mystery that kept me hooked and the exploration and movement was fun in and of itself. I also felt like Subnautica filled this role since it was very much at my own pace, with anxiety producing portions which could for the most part be avoided or minimized, and also there was a clear objective to fulfill, get off the planet.

So what games do you play when you just wanna relax?

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[–] misophist@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Nethack or DROD

Just starting to get into genshin impact, though, and it seems pretty cool.

[–] Bishma@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Oxygen Not Included. - !oxygennotincluded@lemmy.world

Just started a new colony yesterday because an update was released with new tools and content. The colony I was playing up until that point was almost 3000 cycles old.

[–] DashboTreeFrog@discuss.online 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's on sale on Steam in my region, I've heard a lot of good things before so gonna check it out!

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[–] TheLonelyWonderer@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Harvest Moon /Story of Season games.

Stardew Valley.

Diner Dash series of games.

[–] Outsider9042@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

DOTA2 turbo mode, done in 20-30 minutes, and the try bards that take the mode serious are hilarious

[–] PraiseTheSoup@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Why are there so many suggestions of Zelda BotW over TotK imo this thread? I've only played the latter but my understanding is it's pretty much the same game with more to do. And since Nintendo games rarely go on sale you are probably looking at a very similar price tag.

[–] cjsolx@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Maybe everyone's a completionist and would rather play the games in order rather than jump into the story halfway through ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[–] PraiseTheSoup@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

TotK is literally the only Zelda game I've ever completed and I understood the story perfectly fine.

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[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 3 points 2 years ago

Dwarf Fortress.

Theme Hospital.

The Sims.

Games that I can mostly play hands off.

[–] Apeman42@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Weirdly, Yakuza. Not even to thrash thugs, just to have a virtual night out with some karaoke, pool, darts... sexy bug-lady wrestling... I love most of the mini games in the series.

[–] AlexWIWA@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

C&C Generals World Builder. I just make maps while I'm in discord.

It's stimulating enough that it keeps my mind from wandering from a conversation, but brainless enough to be engaged in the conversation.

I'm also partial to Minecraft. Just decorate a little section then log off until tomorrow

[–] reverendsteveii@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

burnout paradise. I'll just put on a podcast and drive around. Sometimes I'm seeking out races, or new best times on roads. Sometimes I'm just driving around more or less obeying traffic laws like a reasonable citizen.

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 3 points 2 years ago

Skyrim or Fallout 4 when I want to chill as an adventurous muderer

Earth Defense Force when I want to blow shit up

Dinkum is a really good Stardew Valley/Animal Crossing mix. If you like either, you'll likely end up like me, playing "just a bit" and realizing over 4 hours flew by.

[–] sag@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I don't play Tetris usually but when I get bored or just wanna relax then I play Tetris[Highest Score: 500k in 8 Hours]

[–] ImpossibilityBox@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

I play Hades, but I cheat.

It's super fun to see what kind of ridiculous combinations of powers and weapons you can create when you aren't worried about money or resources in any way shape or form.

I had a Hermes Build for Max speed that did bonus damage based on speed bonuses, Ares for Blade rift when dodging, and some Athena for some invulnerability.

Sprinting around the levels like the flash and absolutely nuking everybody with blade rifts is just too much fun.

[–] SchizoDenji@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

Honestly, some visual novels like Ace attorney, Katawa shoujo, Steins Gate, Clannad are very chill.

[–] kugel7c@feddit.de 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Apart from trackmania which was already named it's certainly slay the spire. I often do both TTD and the daily in sts. If I didn't always end up trying to go for sub 35min points it'd actually be relaxing probably.

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[–] Jack3G@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago

Spend hours downloading / messing with proton / configuring, and then play for 15 minutes...

At this point I'm almost convinced I just like the setup process.

Otherwise probably quake.

[–] stevedidWHAT@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Stacklands, inscription, forza.

Stacklands was surprisingly addicting

Inscription was fun and challenging but not too crazy if you get creative ;)

Forza - I mean really any game where I can drive around. Fun to try to hit some corners sharp or do some tricks in gta.

Not a long or super replayable game like some of these answers but Jusant is super chill.

[–] TheInsane42@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

I have several games for a lazy evening on the sofa, so it depends on the mood.

I hoard virtual cars, tanks and ships, so I pick CSR2 when I want to do an event there (daily boring grinding tasks are automated). When I want to shoot I either junp in World of Tanks Blitz or World of Warships Blitz.

When in a mood where I want to just tap around, I dust off Hay Day.

Gershwin Impact has been on the tablet, but after a few attempts to play it, it's removed again. Looks nice, but not my style, yet.

[–] dan1101@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

I usually listen to music and play driving games like Forza Horizon, BeamNG, or Dirt.

Also roguelike games like Deadly Days.

[–] kemsat@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Diablo 4. I usually turn on Futurama when I play.

[–] Daxtron2@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I liked the earlier diablo games but have heard lots of negatives about 4. I know 3 had a lot of issues on launch but I really enjoy it now. Would you recommend it for someone who doesn't really have an interest in constantly running endgame content?

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[–] diemartin@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago

Basically Loopy in Simon Tatham's Puzzles, available on Linux, Windows, and Android (F-Droid), when I don't want to be stressed.

Otherwise I just play some retro/old school games like Final Fantasy (started IV a few days ago), (Free)Doom, AssaultCube or Cave Story when on my laptop.

[–] TotallyNotAMurderer@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

BeamNG

Car/truck driving simulator with the best crash physics you'll ever see. Great to just drive, off-rod, modify cars, race or just smash cars up. The game is only limited by your imagination.

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