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[–] RiverRock@lemmy.ml 3 points 3 hours ago

It used to be That 70s Show, but too many of the cast is too weird/creepy now

[–] HurlingDurling@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)
[–] sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyz 1 points 3 hours ago

Thats the alaska one right?

[–] ClockworkN@lemmy.world 4 points 11 hours ago
[–] victorz@lemmy.world 4 points 13 hours ago

BoJack Horseman is very oddly cozy for me. It shouldn't be. There's a lot of angst in there, but it's comfort.

[–] kurcatovium@piefed.social 4 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

If I had to pick just one it would be Red Dwarf. I watched it so many times I can't even count it.

There are also some series that aired at the time I was returning from school I'd happily watch if they were on right now. Even though I'm not that interested to search for them though. Shows like Renegade, Walker Texas Ranger, Baywatch or whatever that Star Trek with captain Picard was. This is hugely influenced by time and place as our eastern block country just opened to western shows and movies and everything looked so flashy and bombastic. And everything was flashy and bombastic compared to bland and gray local production at the time.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[–] kurcatovium@piefed.social 2 points 11 hours ago

Yeah, that one is great too. I really dig that British humor, also Monty Python's, Black Books or Yes, (Prime) Minister.

[–] felsiq@piefed.zip 15 points 1 day ago (2 children)

For me, it’s delicious in dungeon. I’m vegetarian and generally very weirded out by the cultish behaviours people have around meat, so a show about people killing and eating monsters should definitely not be as enjoyable to me as it is, but here we are. Very fun and cute show tho so I’m not complaining

[–] helix@feddit.org 5 points 1 day ago

Yeah that show is oddly comforting. I love cooking and I found it a bit cringe as it's set up like a videogame, but OTOH I got a girlfriend through regularly watching it with her and cuddling sleepily on the sofa, so I can't complain πŸ˜…

[–] cujo@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I am very curious what "cultish behaviors" you've observed surrounding meat. Not discrediting your experience at all, just a curiosity! I'm sure you've had to explain it many times before, so please feel free to ignore my request. πŸ™‚ Just someone looking to broaden their horizons and understand.

[–] FatVegan@leminal.space 4 points 1 day ago

Tell someone you don't eat or like meat and they will tell you why you're wrong and what meat is best cooked how.

[–] felsiq@piefed.zip 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Probably the most relatable one around here is the way people on reddit used to talk about bacon - in like 2010s reddit it was almost mythologized, which was weird to me even back then when I still ate and enjoyed bacon. There’s a bunch of other small examples like that I’ve run into pretty regularly that are each innocent on their own but taken all together are just… odd. β€œCultish” was probably too strong of a word but I couldn’t think of a better alternative (then or now) for the way some people treat meat so differently than any other type of food, including ones you might expect to be more exciting like deserts or something.

I’m not one to try to tell people their opinions on subjective stuff are wrong and that’s not what I’m trying to say here, but I just do really think there’s more to the way some people treat meat than just it being a type of food they enjoy. Hopefully that makes some kind of sense lol

[–] burntbacon@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I honestly think the bacon thing was an advertising push; one that gained its own momentum. If I remember something interesting, it's that the original bacon advertising campaign over a hundred years ago was one of the most successful advertising campaigns in its long term effects on the 'culture' of american breakfast. Then there was another push with it to become a 'premium' addon in culinary circles in the 90s-00s.

There is definitely something odd about meat in people's minds, though, you're right. I've never heard of anyone, even italian chefs, caring about whether a pasta must be cooked al dente to be done right, but every idiot and their cousin will tell you they know exactly how a steak must be cooked, and everyone else is wrong, and not only wrong but a terrible savage for thinking differently.

[–] kieron115@startrek.website 3 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (1 children)

I was born in the late 80s, grew up in the 90s and 2000s, and it's both fascinating and terrifying to me how much of what I thought was just "standard" stuff was influenced by marketing 50-100 years before I was even born. Santa Clause as a jolly old man with rosy cheeks and a snow white beard wasn't a big thing until Coca-Cola made it part of their advertising in the 30s. The bacon with breakfast thing was the result of a food packaging company in the 1920s hiring a man named Edward Bernays to help them sell more bacon. Bernays was allegedly so good at marketing/manipulation that people like Hitler and Goebbels kept copies of his books. Orange juice became a thing because orange producers in Florida in the early 1900s made too many oranges for the market (in an attempt to beat out California as the country's orange production state), and juicing them was considered a better alternative to reducing production.

[–] burntbacon@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 8 hours ago

I try not to think about it too much if it's something that isn't something that I need to interact with, like orange juice or bacon, both of which I avoid, because, yeah, it is terrifying. Advertisements are real life attempts to shape the behavior of the world.

[–] felsiq@piefed.zip 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You commenting with interesting bacon trivia is nominative determinism at its finest lmao

Steak is a really good example of what I’m talking about, thanks for adding this

[–] burntbacon@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Lol, I picked the name because of its effect on my life. I had a family member who would only eat their bacon if it was nearly burned, and so I have very strong memories of the horrible nature of bacon as a kid.

[–] kieron115@startrek.website 3 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

My sister used to only eat a steak if it was charred black and covered in ground black pepper. Not sure if that's "better" or worse than burnt bacon.

[–] cujo@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

Ohh, I see. That weird thing where people make one really specific, otherwise small thing an absurdly huge part of their personality.

I've seen it with tea, coffee, chocolate, meat (specifically bacon and steak), and a million other things food-related and otherwise. I follow what you're talking about now, and yeah it's weird. I enjoy meat quite a lot, and I do have some kinds of meat I do like cooked a (general) particular way. I'm not going to go around preaching to God and everyone about it, though, and I wouldn't consider "meat' a part of my personality, lol. When people take one small, specific thing and make it their entire personalities it does get... Strange.

[–] helix@feddit.org 6 points 1 day ago

Just tell a bunch of dudebros or old people you're vegan and have them explain it to you agonisingly.

[–] kieron115@startrek.website 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (2 children)

Burn Notice. I dont know what it is but it's like watching a version of "How It's Made" from a fictional universe. All of the voiceovers about spycraft are bullshit but my brain just buys it for whatever reason.

Also, can't belive I forgot this, but "It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia".

[–] benagain@lemmy.ml 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

The intro to Burn Notice will play in my head whenever I see someone wearing sunglasses. Super cosy for sure, such a great cast.

[–] kieron115@startrek.website 1 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Have you seen Archer? It's an animated comedy but it hits some of the same vibes, at least for the first 3-4 seasons. Things get... weird after that.

[–] sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sunnys got me thru incredibly dark times

[–] kieron115@startrek.website 2 points 16 hours ago

Same here. There's just something about the gang that helps me see the good. They're objectively terrible people but at the end of the day they always stick together.

[–] flubba86@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Scrubs and Stargate SG1 are my cozy shows.

[–] bl4kers@lemmy.ml 2 points 23 hours ago (1 children)
[–] benagain@lemmy.ml 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Loved that show. From memory it started getting weird in later seasons but then wrapped up in a semi-satisfying way? Might have to.... starts looking for the box set

[–] bl4kers@lemmy.ml 2 points 12 hours ago

Yes, it was soft rebooted for S6-7 because of a major event at the end of S5. About half the cast turned over, though they return for appearances. Ending was pretty satisfying, didn't feel too forced. The DVD box set is pretty nice, though I don't have a lot of those to compare against

[–] theedqueen@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

So many I guess.

  • classic 80s/90s sitcoms (Cheers, Friends, Family Matters, the Nanny, etc)
  • classic Simpsons
  • 90s/00s PBS kids shows (Wishbone, Reading Rainbow, Clifford, etc)
  • Bluey
  • British shows (Keeping Up Appearances)
[–] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 17 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (5 children)
  • Keeping Up Appearances
  • Agatha Christie's Poirot (with David Suchet)
  • A&E's Nero Wolfe
  • Star Trek: The Next Generation
  • Stargate SG-1
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[–] spongebue@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago

Monk. Most episodes follow the same formula, but it's always a lot of fun and when they do deviate a bit, it's so good!

[–] TootSweet@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Star Trek: Voyager. I was raised on that shit. Not objectively the "best" Star Trek. (Far from the worst, though.) But it's the one that's most nostalgic and, indeed, "cozy" for me.

[–] dRLY@lemmy.ml 2 points 10 hours ago

The first time I watched Voyager, I went into it only knowing that more folks liked TNG and DS9 (at the time I had only ever seen random eps of TNG, TOS, and a few of the TOS movies). So while I went on a random deep watch of all of Trek at the time (Discovery was either about to come out, or had started). I was very happy to find out that Voyager was much better than I expected. Also didn't take as long to get good (TNG was very weird the first few seasons which I found out quickly).

After watching all the stuff before Discovery, it felt so different and kind of makes it and the other new shows seem strange. Not always bad, just so much modern effects that take attention away from the actors. So far I am in season 3 of Discovery, season 2 of Picard, and only one episode of SNW. Still looking forward to them, just need to be in a "time for Trek" headspace to power through them like I did for everything before.

I personally find Enterprise to be the most weirdly cozy of the pre-Discovery shows (not near being the best taken as a whole like TNG/DS9/Voy). Has a nice mix of the "feel" of the 90s shows, but with some of the "modern" effects for me. Sure they went ham on stuff like "we need some kind of 'directive' for handling first contact", and they killed the show as it was really getting its flow. Really curious what even just one more season could have done as that last ep really felt like a quick end and was so jarring on the characters.

Still pissed that Paramount said they will not do a touch-up remaster for DS9 and Voy like they did for TOS/TNG (and the 1080p remaster for ENT). They say it is because the amount of time and money that TNG alone required, and the sales of the TOS/TNG Blu-rays weren't high enough. Which sucks since DS9 and Voy are so badly needing something (even a more simple upscale of the non-sfx stuff since the effects would need full re-doing), and the fans of those are really dedicated.

Voyager has that "found family" vibe that most of the shows don't really.

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[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 3 points 1 day ago

Sat doen and watched a bunch of the new Quantum Leap the other day while feeling lonely, and that felt pretty good.

[–] MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Bluey. I'm an adult and don't have children. It's my guilty pleasure.

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[–] iguessimlemming@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 day ago

Probably not weird but an episode or two of MAS*H will always make me feel better

[–] bamboo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 day ago

Whenever I'm sick I will always just put on The Venture Bros. while I recover. The show spanned so many years, makes me feel better watching the show evolve and remembering what point in my life I was in when various episodes aired.

[–] bobzer@lemmy.zip 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sorry, I need leatherbound pounds to go with my wallet. Next!

[–] artifex@piefed.social 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I will watch a Joy of Painting episode anytime I come across one on PBS (they stream on YouTube but it’s more fun to find it β€œin the wild”)

They had it on the tv when I went to lunch a few weeks ago. Watching it was way better than any of the sports on the other walls.

[–] Diddlydee@feddit.uk 14 points 1 day ago

Detectorists. A delightfully quaint and funny series.

[–] ambitiousslab@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yes Minister / Yes Prime Minister for me. Despite all the scheming the humour is so good-natured throughout.

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[–] TheMinions@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 day ago (10 children)

Psych is always my go to cozy show.

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