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Mildly Infuriating

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Home to all things "Mildly Infuriating" Not infuriating, not enraging. Mildly Infuriating. All posts should reflect that. Please post actually infuriating posts to !actually_infuriating@lemmy.world

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I ask, because I've been seeing a lot of content on this community make it to all that I would not consider "mildly infuriating."

Back when "r/mildlyinfuriating" first emerged in the early 2010s, it was at least in past a humor sub: a place for OP and commenters to commiserate and/or chuckle at something relatively minor (the "mildly" part of "mildly infuriating"), usually something that involved or happened to OP directly. Post content was often comprised of things that were disproportionately upsetting, such as dropping your toothbrush in the toilet, or that felt ironic, such as spending three hours preparing a fancy cake recipe just to have the power go out right as you put it in the oven. Neither of these are actually that bad in the grand scheme of things (hence, mildly), but in the moment they make you want to tear your hair out (hence, infuriating). Of course as with all things Reddit, the community eventually lost its original purpose and morphed into a catch-all for "stuff that made me mad," but I always appreciated the original spirit of the sub.

Which brings us to lemmy.world's mildly infuriating community. I checked the sidebar, which reads:

Home to all things “Mildly Infuriating” Not infuriating, not enraging. Mildly Infuriating. All posts should reflect that. I want my day mildly ruined, not completely ruined.

To me, it seems like the intention here is to be a mirror of the Reddit sub, presumably the Reddit of old and not the current mess of a platform we abandoned. Yet when I sorted this Lemmy community by "top month," I would consider only about a quarter of the 20 top posts to be mildly infuriating by either the original sub's initial intention or this community's current sidebar definition. The remaining ~75% of posts were the typical assortment of tech enshittification and horrifying political news that you could expect to find in any politics/news/technology community, which I would consider not only enraging instead of mildly infuriating, but also not unique or providing novel content to the lemmyverse. Which poses the question, what is the point of this community?

(Ido not mean to call anyone out specifically, but for the sake of clarity, here are two example posts that I counted towards being mildly infuriating, and two example posts that I did not.)

Are we okay with the "mildly infuriating" community becoming a "news that really upset me" community?

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 33 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

Ordering a 4 piece chicken nugget and only getting 3.

[–] sundray@lemmus.org 13 points 1 month ago

☝️ The very nib of it.

[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

And the third is broken into two pieces

[–] AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

The last time that happened to me, the delivery service refunded that item, so it was actually mildly enjoyable.

[–] fireweed@lemmy.world 25 points 1 month ago

You may have seen my "I’m gonna repost this comment every time I see this type of submission in this community" comments recently. They received positive responses, but after realizing that this type of content is most of the community, I decided a full post would be more productive to the conversation and feel less passive-aggressive.

[–] Zachariah@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I find it mildly infuriating that people don’t know what kinds of posts are mildly infuriating.

[–] Kissaki@feddit.org 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

It makes me sad. Because I would like a community and posts that follow the name, and this one specifically.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

Are we okay with the “mildly infuriating” community becoming a “news that really upset me” community?

Note that Reddit's /r/MildlyInfuriating spawned /r/ActuallyInfuriating for stuff that is more severe.

Searching on lemmyverse.net shows that we do have an /r/ActuallyInfuriating analog at !actually_infuriating@lemmy.world.

Maybe the community mods might consider putting it in the sidebar? @Aer@lemmy.world, @Striker@lemmy.world, @Tenthrow@lemmy.world?

[–] AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It actually is mentioned in the sidebar, though they should make it a hotlink

[–] tal@lemmy.today 6 points 1 month ago

!actuallyinfuriating

Ah, yeah, thanks, though the community name is incorrect (needs an underscore) and is missing the instance name.

[–] Bennyboybumberchums@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

I dont think Ive ever seen a post on mildlyinfurating that wasnt scorched earth, everyone dies, fucking mega mental infuriating. Its right up there with aita and all its "So I reported the guy who raped me to the police. Some friends are saying I did the right thing, but some family are saying I should have just worked it out. Am I the asshole?" posts.

[–] Tenthrow@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I added it to the sidebar. Thanks for the suggestion.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 2 points 1 month ago

Thanks for adding it!

[–] Kissaki@feddit.org 10 points 1 month ago

I attribute it primarily to the issue every voting aggregator platform has.

Most people don't go into the community specifically, and browse that content, and then vote on it in the context of that community. Most people see the posts in their feed of mixed communities and content.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago

I completely agree with your four examples.

[–] Object@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

It's annoying. Like, sure, if they really, really want to stretch the definition of what counts as "mildly infuriating", they can. I don't think we will ever come to a concrete definition of it. But that just invalidates the whole point of having communities. I would expect more or less "this sucks, but I can live with that" kind of contents, but certainly not "someone wrongfully jailed" or something like that.

[–] Thorned_Rose@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I subbed to this community but the barrage of political posts makes me want to unsub. I came here for amusingly infuriating posts not a constant reminder of how fucked up politics are (I'm not even in the US)

[–] dditty@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 month ago

I totally agree on all counts. Would love to see more actually mildly infuriating posts here. Leave the heavy actually infuriating posts for the other com

[–] zeca@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 month ago

Remniscent of old vsauce

[–] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] fireweed@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

I would consider this mildly infuriating, yes.