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Mental Health

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[–] Skyline969@lemmy.ca 120 points 2 months ago

Makes a rant about someone being a disappointment

Doesn’t spell disappointment correctly

[–] squinky@sh.itjust.works 113 points 2 months ago

Who gave the business major a marker?

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 108 points 2 months ago (1 children)

It just says mental health room. It doesn't say it's good mental health.

[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 19 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Legit lol

Milk came out of my nose... Which was weird because I was drinking diet pepsi

[–] biofaust@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

That's brain cum.

Source: I have a MSc in Neuroscience

[–] ladicius@lemmy.world 87 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] Isa@feddit.org 42 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I think it literally is, meaning, that that is not written by staff and/or authorised by the Organisation.

[–] umbraroze@piefed.social 76 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Don't wake up to be fucking Average

Spoken like a true Average

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 27 points 2 months ago

Me, waking up to be below average: "Good morning! 😃"

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[–] SailorFuzz@lemmy.world 72 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

A business major wrote that. Their dream career is either a Crypto Life Coach, or a LinkedIn Recruiter.

[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 16 points 2 months ago

Crypto Life Coaches ought to be more chill. Dollar cost averaging beats most active strategies and you get to sleep in.

[–] Jake_Farm@sopuli.xyz 54 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Maybe it is actually the anti-mental health room.

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[–] aeronmelon@lemmy.world 40 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Your University is a joke if any staff member approved of that.

[–] StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works 29 points 2 months ago (4 children)

It's just a room you walk into, I doubt anyone really monitors it too much

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[–] noxypaws@pawb.social 37 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I would walk up and erase that shit

[–] MrMcGasion@lemmy.world 46 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Just erase a couple of words.

Don't wake up. Be fucking average.

If you're sacrificing everything for your studies, you don't deserve success.

ass up ok

[–] gnutrino@programming.dev 26 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Wake up.
Be fucking everything.
You deserve ass, OK?

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] faythofdragons@slrpnk.net 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)
[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm so sad he's writing real books now. I'm happy for his success, but it's the end of a golden age of literature 😭

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[–] Rooty@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago

Just draw a huge cock and balls. It would be a marked improvement.

[–] A_Union_of_Kobolds@lemmy.world 35 points 2 months ago

Fuck all that

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 33 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Oh that's an inspo poster who's gonna spend their entire 20's 30's and 40's on coke

[–] Swaus01@piefed.social 17 points 2 months ago (5 children)

Girl if they make enough to fund a 3-decade-long cocke addiction then maybe I should listen to them 😭

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[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 32 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm okay with being a disappointment to whatever asshole wrote that.

[–] tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 8 points 2 months ago

Well, looks like it scored -421 points at the bottom there anyway

[–] crapwittyname@feddit.uk 30 points 2 months ago (1 children)

My ancestors are proud of me, because I know how to spell "disappointment", and have never written a misspelled word in black marker whilst trying to condescend to people I should be supporting.

[–] Schmuppes@lemmy.today 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] crapwittyname@feddit.uk 9 points 2 months ago

Aw thanks 🥹

[–] Itdidnttrickledown@lemmy.world 26 points 2 months ago

The mental health room was visited by someone with mental problems.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 21 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I sacrificed a lot for my studies. Was it worth it, and did I achieve success? Nope. Life is complicated.

[–] RagingRobot@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Hopefully you got some good stories to tell

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[–] Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Mental Health, manfluencer edition

[–] StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I mean there was another white board that said"id rather have a headache from studying than a man" sooooo

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[–] panda_abyss@lemmy.ca 19 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Life is a marathon.

You can treat it like every day is a sprint, but eventually you’re going to break down.

Take the pace that keeps you going, take breaks, walk if you need to.

When we’re all dead the only question that will have mattered was whether you were happy and not if you met some arbitrary bar in another persons head.

[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 14 points 2 months ago

Nobody’s obituary reads “known and beloved for increasing shareholder profits.”

[–] wulrus@lemmy.world 19 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Not tough enough for a true wakeup call. Wipe it all off, and replace with:

  • Your friends think you're stupid!
  • All the other kids are staring at you!
  • Mommy and Daddy fight because of something you did!
  • You walk funny!

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[–] Newsteinleo@midwest.social 17 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I was academically dismissed from college four time and have a university studies degree and a 2.0 GPA. I now have a 6 figure salary. You degree is only a peace of paper, don't sacrifice your heath for a peace of paper.

[–] usrtrv@sh.itjust.works 11 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

As a counterpoint, your salary is mainly a reflection on how much profit can be made by your skillset/location at a given point in time. I'm not a fan of tying people's worth to their profitability. It's devoid of any type of ethical concern.

If we as a society tie profitability to societal good, then I'll be on board.

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[–] Dozzi92@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] TonyTonyChopper@mander.xyz 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

look at this guy with his 3.0 gpa

[–] Dozzi92@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

It's easy to maintain a good GPA when you drop out of college halfway through your first year!

[–] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 months ago

Someone is going through some shit.

[–] nuko147@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago

Mental health room, more like Emotional Damage room.

[–] JakenVeina@midwest.social 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'll have you know I fuck WELL above average.

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[–] Katrisia@lemmy.today 8 points 2 months ago

Maybe there was a group therapy and the exercise was writing the monologue they wake up to down...? Then they of course reflected together why those were not useful messages and they learnt better ways to address their worries. (Let me dream).

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

University should break you to a certain degree, but it shouldn't shatter you or destroy you. It's like training for a marathon, if you just do sprints to failure every day you won't ever run a marathon you'll just get hurt. No you've got to slowly ramp up and take your rest days.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 months ago

Professor Asian-Tiger-Mom with PhD at University of Wechat

[–] fibojoly@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 months ago

Wow, I can read Chinese?!

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