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N.B. This is a serious topic. Please stop spreading propaganda about acetaminophen being addictive or causing autism. Please read the study. The point of the study is not about acetaminophen. It is about social pain can hurt as much as physiological pain. Only people with trait of high level of forgiveness responded to acetaminophen. Acetaminophen will not work for you if you not a kind. forgiving person. No need to worry about acetaminophen if you have a weak trait. Kindness can be learned by not trolling

Social pain (psychache), such as ostracisation/rejection/bullying, can hurt as much as physical pain. Forgiveness and acetaminophen have interactive effects on experiences of social pain. Telling victims to just "let it go" is just like withholding pain medicines from patients recovering from surgery.

We need to tell the victims that psychological wounds are like physical wounds. They will heal but the healing processes can be long and painful. Psychological pain may come back in waves, and the scars may remain just like physical scars. If the psychological pain is unbearable, don't hesitant to seek mental health. "It's okay not to be okay." Don't be persuaded to think "it is all in the head." Psychological wounds are as real as physical wounds. Good luck.

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[–] kerrigan778@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 3 hours ago

This appears to be a tiny undergrad study on something neat. I think y'all are reading too much into this. Also, there appears to be no link between acetaminophen and autism but that has absolutely nothing to do with this study.

[–] underscores@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 hours ago

I have feel like that pretty often when sad, it does genuinely hurt

So it makes sense to me

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 6 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

wait so i can take actual physical pain meds to feel better?

[–] CatDogL0ver@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

It you have read the article, only for peopl with high level of forgiveness.

[–] zeca@lemmy.ml 1 points 20 seconds ago

Im still wondering what the helll does it mean to have "a high level of forgiveness"

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)
[–] CatDogL0ver@lemmy.world 4 points 4 hours ago

You can learn to be a better person. We all can.

[–] aceshigh@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

So it no longer causes autism? /s

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 points 3 hours ago

No it still does but that ship has sailed at this point so might as well use it.

[–] CatDogL0ver@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

No and neither can 5G

[–] FoolishObserver@lemmy.world 17 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

So, not only sticks and stones; now words can hurt you!

[–] CatDogL0ver@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

Yes, it is the essence. Words can hurt. That's what we have been telling people.

[–] FoxyFerengi@startrek.website 57 points 1 day ago (3 children)

This is pretty funny given the recent political assertions that Tylenol causes autism, because rejection sensitive dysphoria is a symptom of autism/adhd

[–] liuther9@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

It might be a symptom but is it the thing that occurs only in autistic people and normal people do not experience this feeling?

[–] FoxyFerengi@startrek.website 1 points 2 hours ago

RSD is not limited to people with autism or ADHD. It's just very common among neurodivergent folks

[–] CatDogL0ver@lemmy.world 0 points 5 hours ago

Did you read the article?

[–] peoplebeproblems@midwest.social 27 points 22 hours ago (9 children)

Wait

I'm abnormally sensitive about rejection because of my AuADHD?

What the flipping fuck. Fuck this shit. What drugs just turn off my brain so I can just be a blob of flesh until I die of old age since they don't like how often I complain about existence being so goddamn difficult.

[–] CatDogL0ver@lemmy.world -2 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

It didn't turn off the brain. Read the study. Only people with trait of high level of forgiveness responded. In another word, nice, forgiving people.

Are you a nice, forgiving person? It works for good people only

[–] FoxyFerengi@startrek.website 2 points 2 hours ago

The commenter that you replied to was expressing despair at how difficult their life is because they have AuDHD. They are not saying that Tylenol can turn off their brain, they are instead asking for recommendations to escape their misery.

You could try understanding the comment chain and comments before saying something that sounds cruel like:

"Are you a nice, forgiving person? It works for good people only".

Many neurodivergent people grow up abused by their parents because of their needs, and struggle with feeling like they are not good, not good enough, and not worthy of love. Saying what you did, unprovoked, to a ND person can send someone into a self-hatred spiral that is wholly unnecessary and has nothing to do with what they actually said.

[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Naw fuck that, I'd rather be a sloppy mess human than whatever the fuck "normal" standard addition humans are doing. Yeah, it's difficult, but have you met folks who don't have mental health issues? There's like a whole three of them and they're dead behind the eyes.

[–] CatDogL0ver@lemmy.world -3 points 4 hours ago

Have you read the study? It only work for people with trait of high level of forgiveness. In another word, nice people.

Are you a nice person?

[–] Rooty@lemmy.world 10 points 19 hours ago

Sheesh, tell me about it, just about every quirk of my personality turns out to be an ADHD symptom in the end.

[–] FoxyFerengi@startrek.website 8 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

I hear you, I'm ND too. Reading about things like RSD being common in people like us has at least helped me be easier on myself.

Existence is goddamn difficult and I wish I had an answer, because turning my brain off sounds wonderful. Alcohol can do that, but it comes with some awful consequences. I've also abused quetiapine, but eventually that fucked me up too. Weed does not play nice with my brain

[–] peoplebeproblems@midwest.social 5 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Man quetiapine just made me panic and feel like I couldn't breathe. Actually there are a shit ton of "sedating" medications that do that to me thinking about it.

Except of course benzos, but thanks to those being cross tolerant with z drugs, they really gotta pump those in me to work at all.

I've had a little success with clonodine.

I remember abilify completely shut off my ability to think. Still had emotions, just no reasoning.

People talk about Dating being this thing that's easy to do. Yeah. Maybe if you had any choice over what was and wasn't difficult.

Im thinking about walking into therapy tomorrow and just asking "do I have to work if I'm just gonna be miserable anyway?"

[–] FoxyFerengi@startrek.website 6 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I'm on clonidine for ADHD. I can actually stop myself from speaking out of turn now, so maybe it has been a little sedating xD

Dating is kind of a nightmare. I know people say anyone can find a partner, but that doesn't take into account things like sensory issues or hard boundaries around other things that keep us sane. I told myself a few years ago that I didn't want to date while I'm university, but honestly it's been so nice not forcing myself to fit into other people's boxes that I might just stay single even after I earn my doctorate

I'm also with you on refusing to participate in a misery machine for a living. I hope you can hash out some kind of misery escape plan with your therapist tomorrow

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago

I'm on a max dosage of clonidine for HBP. I didn't know it had other effects. It does explain a bit. Thanks for the info.

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[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Great now autism is going to spread from parent to children

[–] CatDogL0ver@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

Propaganda can be spread like wild fire

[–] janus2@lemmy.zip 21 points 1 day ago (1 children)

the cause of my autism is also the cure, i see

[–] RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You get deep enough into any emotion and it will start overlapping physical neurotransmitter pathways.

Just ask anyone thats done research into schizoid personality disorder.

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