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Pretty easy when they took away my favorite app and tried to force me into their ad-riddled POS - along with their hostile treatment and shuttering of subs that didn’t conform. It was already getting to the point that, after a decade plus of being a β€œredditor”, the place was wearing thin. The constant reposts and karma whoring, the hive mind, the low-hanging fruit of quips getting the most upvotes vs a well-thought out reply, the shills and bots, they were killing Reddit IMO. The action against third party apps was the final straw.

[–] Hexadecimalkink@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 month ago

I miss the finance communities on reddit. But everything else I looked into on reddit I can mostly find here. I also put the effort into posting when I can't find an existing topic. You have to have a pioneer mentality here to establish your community.

[–] sudoer777@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Lemmy doesn't have most of the communities I need, so I still end up using Reddit a lot and sometimes other sites/forums. I use Lemmy for casual browsing though because Reddit's main subs are complete ass and the politics on Lemmy and its focus on Linux discussion is a lot better.

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[–] ArchmageAzor@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Get yourself permabanned on Reddit.

[–] foodandart@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 month ago

Delete all your Reddit bookmarks and favorites and find a lemmy community to launch yourself into. I picked gaming and a few news ones and so far, it's fine.. Even moreso that I found the old.lemmy.zip page and it's comfortable to me as I was dedicated to old.reddit and RES.

[–] burntbacon@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 1 month ago

I stopped using reddit, and started using lemmy. It's not hard.

[–] trk@aussie.zone 5 points 1 month ago

Signed up for Lemmy, participated in things I was interested in.

If you're that addicted to Reddit just stay there. I hate this "please beg me to stay" crap that goes on pretty frequently.

[–] fuckgod@feddit.online 5 points 1 month ago

Everybody kinda already said the obvious answers, but I'll pop in to reiterate that my main reason was killing the API (because fuuuuuuck their shitty trash app filled with ads- or any and every app that has ads at all). I got here (Lemmy and piefed and mastodon)as part of the mass exodus that switched when the ax dropped on that.

I had wanted to before that, but addictions are addictions. But killing the app I actually liked using (combined with the dev making a Lemmy version that was extremely similar), I just kinda rode the wave to the Fediverse.

So like others, I still poke in when a search result points there, but I avoid it in general. Getting rid of the app will definitely help because it gets rid of the 1-tap access to shit.

[–] golli@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

To be honest: I haven't done a complete switch. I still lurk on reddit from time to time.

What I have done however is switched to only actively engage with Lemmy, which imo is the more important part. I sadly don't have much original content to offer, but I try to engage in some comments (like just now)

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[–] Axolotl_cpp@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 month ago

I just made the account, subscribed to all the equvalent groups and nothing else

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 5 points 1 month ago

Back when reddit banned 3rd party apps, I just left. My account is still there, once in a while I check something on reddit instead of lemmy due to number of people.

Despite having some good karma and many years, I never felt like reddit "had" anything I'd miss by leaving. You know the "just go outside and touch grass" thing? Literally just leave the place for a week, uninstall any apps, block the site on /etc/hosts, make it enough of an annoyance to sidestep your own blocks and it'll help you.

[–] pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Was already a Linux user and tech nerd

[–] pineapple@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)
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I switched during the third party app thing. I still Google "problem reddit" if I need good answers but Lots of stuff from reddit I never needed and some stuff was actually throwing me off. The insanely strict rules, mods on Reddit being assholes (there's less of them on Lemmy I wanna think) and the depression inducing pessimism.

I cut out politics from my feed (works 90% of the time) and always browse "new". Good memes, some niche communities and a very diverse and interesting community. Sometimes a little bit too forceful in their perspective but I love all the lemmings on here.

So how did I do it? I think it was a natural fit for me. But only browsing "new", avoiding politics and joining some niche communities helped.

Also no one is forcing you :)

Take your time and maybe when the time is right you will wanna switch over completely. No one will force you on here, but I think that's exactly why this platform is so good.

[–] mfed1122@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 1 month ago

What is it that you go to Reddit for that you don't get from Lemmy? To me, the only reason someone might look at Reddit instead is if Lemmy lacks the content they seek - do you think that's the case for you? Or maybe it's something else?

[–] sourquincelog@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago

I left reddit in 2020, it was just very toxic at that point. scrubbed my account and uninstalled the app. Hexbear was standalone for a long time, so being part of the lemmyverse is a nice horizon broadener. Beyond that, when I'm bored and want to scroll, I check out rednote to see what the rest of the world is up to

[–] whiskers165@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago

The censorship on reddit sickened me. I felt like I was being brainwashed scrolling through the feed. One day I just couldn't tolerate it any longer and like that I was free

[–] DrDickHandler@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Jerboa app configured to look like Baconreader.

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Rage. The changes to 3rd party apps really pissed me off and I thought it was best to use my anger productively.

For me, it's the fact that while I dont always see eye to eye with the people here the fact is every account is almost certainly an actual person and not a bot. I want to hear other's experiences and perspectives and Reddit will not provide that.

I also like the fact that there is an end to the content here. It's not endless scrolling.

[–] gary@piefed.world 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm making the same transition kinda. I moved from Digg to Reddit over ten years ago. I was on Lemmy for a while more recently and then Digg rose from the ashes a couple months ago, but I'm realizing I like Lemmy/Piefed much more. I already had a trial run on breaking my social media habits when I left twitter though. I think a big part of it is realizing you don't need a constantly updated firehose of useless information lol I'm still very online but probably like half of what I was when I was using Reddit and twitter. Now I have a blog, read a lot of RSS for that breaking, early news and I go to Lemmy for news with social commentary from normal people who aren't influencers. I comment more here too because I'm not competing with millions of people to have an edgy top rated comment. I think the biggest thing is embracing smaller communities and going from there.

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[–] markz@suppo.fi 4 points 1 month ago

I nuked my account and stopped going there. Just make the decision to never go back and then be done with it.

[–] hereforawhile@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 month ago

New accounts on reddit are heavily restricted making it impossible to share things so I left. Found Lemmy by accident. Instantly way better community and low barrier to contribute has me hereforawhile.

[–] pleaseletmein@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 month ago

Got kicked off Reddit for reporting transphobic harassment, so the decision was easy.

[–] Lucky_777@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

I use Sync, which is just like Reddit. So it wasnt a hard transition. The issue is mainly volume and communities. Go start your favorite Reddit community on here. Then grow it up!

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

I dont get the question. Same way you stay off any website. There are millions of sites out there. You stay of 99.9% as is. It's just like that.

[–] DegenerationIP@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It was quote easy tbh. It imoroved since the First Wave actually.

Also people are more honest and caring from my pov. That doesnt gonfor everyone, but thats society.

It feels more Home than what reddit became.

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[–] obsoleteacct@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 month ago

I never really posted on reddit. The apps I used to lurk all stopped working to one degree or another, and more and more of the content on reddit is just bots karma farming with AI slop and reposts.

Made it pretty easy to stop going there.

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