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I'm fine immediately after showering, but it's a mini-snowstorm if I go through my hair in the morning having showered the night before. Been that way for years, but far better than it was back when I used "anti-dandruff" shampoos that just made it worse. Hair is short, doesn't feel oily or only slightly. Happens across a variety of shampoos I've tried, though I'll admit I haven't looked beyond the 3-in-1 body wash shampoo combos. Sorry if this is a bit unappealing. Anyone else have a sort of "baseline" amount of dandruff? Or found a solution to this?

UPDATE: Thanks everyone for the helpful replies! It was eye-opening to learn that it's not always just "dandruff". Turns out it was the 3-in-1 soap all along. I finally got myself a proper bottle of shampoo (sulfate free wasn't much more expensive so I went for that) and realized that tight feeling when my hair dried was dry scalp. Super satisfying now that I can run my hand through my hair and eyebrows without getting an avalanche in my face.

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[–] PriorityMotif@lemmy.world 22 points 6 days ago (2 children)

You might try Nizoral shampoo if you can find it. Leave it in for five minutes.

First thing I apply in the shower, and the last thing I wash out.

Doesn't work well on my beard tho for some reason. You can still see the dandruff on some of my shirts.

[–] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago

This is what made the difference for me.

[–] SwearingRobin@lemmy.world 19 points 6 days ago

Often what people call "dandruff" is not actually dandruff. You might have dry scalp, which causes flakyness and the dandruff shampoos do nothing to help (I'd argue they even make the dryness worse!)

In my case it was dandruff and what made a huge difference is to wash twice in a row (lather, rinse, repeat). I leave the shampoo in my head for a bit on the second wash while I do my other shower business.

[–] Corporal_Punishment@feddit.uk 17 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

In the UK. I've found the best treatment has been coal based shampoo. I use T-Gel.

Lather hair with normal shampoo to remove hair gel/dirt/sweat and then rinse and repeat with a small amount of coal based.

Leave it to soak into my scalp for a few minutes before washing off.

3 in 1 shampoo is terrible for yoir scalp.

Tbh it doesnt sound like you have dandruff, more like psoriasis or plain dry scalp.

[–] sbv@sh.itjust.works 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

T-Gel is no longer available in Canada possibly elsewhere. Apparently there's a lawsuit.

[–] Corporal_Punishment@feddit.uk 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Well fuck.

Although I've been using it on and off for 30 years so I'm probably fucked already

[–] sbv@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I feel a little relieved to stop using it, tbh. Every time I read the label, I couldn't help but think it must be bad. I've found that Head and Shoulders is enough to keep flakes in check (it wasn't before the T-Gel), so I'm just worrying about that now. πŸ˜‚

[–] Corporal_Punishment@feddit.uk 2 points 5 days ago (2 children)

I think im addicted to the smell tbh.

[–] sbv@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 days ago

Your nose yearns for the mines.

[–] PNW_Doug@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

If you like the weird scent of coal tarβ€”I'm not judging, I do tooβ€”you might also like pine tar soap. Pine tar serves much the same function in soaps as coal tar, so that's a bonus as well.

It's clearly a scent derived from pines, not coal, but it appeals to my nose in much the same way. They're both in the same family of weirdness.

[–] fakeman_pretendname@feddit.uk 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

All solid advice. May also have an ingredient sensitivity to something like "sodium laureth sulphate", which can cause dry skin and flaking, or massively inflame existing psoriasis or dry skin.

[–] Alsjemenou@lemy.nl 4 points 4 days ago

Go to the doctor and get a diagnosis.

Then look for a solution.

There are only a few options for some problems.

[–] random_character_a@lemmy.world 10 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Do you also have a dry skin?

Got rid of my dandruff problem when I realised that I was sensitive to SLS compounds. Try to use non-sulfate products for a while.

... and I no longer need to use skin lotions on a daily basis.

[–] PNW_Doug@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

Aleppo soap finally resolved it for me after years of fighting the yo-yo effects of medicated shampoos. It's just an old hard Castile soap made using olive and laurel tree oils. Laurel tee oil is apparently pretty good for skin, and works fine to clean your hair.

I don't go in for woo, but it is kinda fun to be using a soap recipe that goes back a couple thousand years. Mileage may vary of course, but I've found it to work extremely well, and as a bonus has a pleasantly neutral smellβ€”herbal as you might expect. 20% or so blends of laurel tree oil seem to do the trick.

[–] TylerDurdenJunior@lemmy.ml 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] PNW_Doug@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

Yeah it's a bar soap, commonly used for both skin and hair.

Aleppo Soap

[–] dingus@lemmy.world 11 points 6 days ago

That doesn't sound normal if you are looking for comparisons tbh

[–] blackbrook@mander.xyz 8 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I used dandruff shampoos for most of my life. My dandruff is the best it's ever been since switching to a shampoo and conditioner that are slightly acid of neutral instead of basic like nearly every other shampoo.

Your skin is meant to be slightly acidic. Constantly assaulting its pH is not ideal. Yes it reasserts its normal pH pretty quickly afterwards but being gentler with your skin can help with some issues.

I'll keep it short: no, there is no "healthy" amount of dandruff. Definitely look beyond the 3-in-1 combos, those can really make things worse. And if that doesn't work, ask a doctor, since dandruff can have a number of different causes.

[–] scott@lem.free.as 7 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Look up the "no poo" movement. It's been over 5 years since I washed my hair and it's the best it's ever been.

[–] ShankShill@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 days ago

I did this for a bit. My barber lady commented how nice and healthy my hair was for the first time ever. Then I got a job that was too dirty to keep it up. Had metal dust on my scalp no matter how I tried cleaning with just water.

Added conditioner to the routine and that worked for that issue. Still no poo.

[–] locuester@lemmy.zip 2 points 5 days ago

I’m so glad to see this in the comments. You can go no soap too.

[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 3 points 5 days ago

I had this issue for years and finally tried just plain head and shoulders. Once the bottle ran out I went back to regular shampoo and conditioner and I only wash my hair 3 times a week now. The dandruff never came back.

[–] Noodles4dinner@hexbear.net 4 points 6 days ago

I used sulphur soap to treat chronic dandruff and it worked on me. Its only about $2 for a bar.

One or two times a week at most otherwise it is very drying on hair.

It smells like sulphur but that washes out easily with regular shampoo after.