“A gentleman is someone who makes everyone around him feel as comfortable as possible” - Brendan Fraser in “Blast from the Past”
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Don't be mean. I promise to do my best to judge that fairly.
This is a pretty stupid take. Just stupid. Not much to add to this.
Much of my energy is spent trying to be an enjoyable presence and it god damn works as people seek my presence. Does this lead to sex? No, why would it?
Being an enjoyable presence in order to get sex makes absolutely no sense.
Wtf? How else are you supposed to get laid? Make friends, be interesting. Meet people. Lmao
I feel like, as an average white ~40 year old guy in a major city, getting dates and sex wasn't that hard. But from what I've heard, the bar is extremely low. Like, all the woman I talk to (and the men who date men) have horror stories.
I think my worst dates were like... they mildly insulted me.
Neither of those come close to, like, various threats, violence, boundary breaking, and unsolicited dick picks that seem too common.