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You are a good girl, and smart and beautiful and will be even more beautiful once you transition <3

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[–] compostgoblin@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Thank you <3 affirmations help a lot, especially since I haven’t started my medical transition yet

[–] Una@europe.pub 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Neither am I support to my girls <3

[–] 30p87@feddit.org 18 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

blushes and cuddles Blåhajar tighter

[–] Una@europe.pub 14 points 5 days ago

<3 I'm here to make my girls happy <3

[–] happy_wheels@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I wanna add something!!!

You're strong and amazing. I'm so proud of you. We're here for you as best as we can. Much love and positive vibes!!!

[–] Una@europe.pub 12 points 5 days ago

Thanks, you too <3 🩷🩷

[–] lwhjp@lemmy.sdf.org 13 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Thank you <3 You too~

once you transition

I gotta do it again? 🥺

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 17 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Yep sorry but this time its a phase transition you either gotta become a liquid or sublimate into a gas

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

keep light

gate boss

girl gas

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

xoxo,

Gas Girl

[–] onlyhall@aussie.zone 9 points 5 days ago

it's just a phase. it'll pass /s

[–] lwhjp@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I shall become a cloud of Pure Girl!

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 3 points 4 days ago

breathes deeply

[–] Una@europe.pub 2 points 4 days ago

No girl you are beautiful <3 <3

[–] death_to_carrots@feddit.org 5 points 4 days ago

I want to add that you are already beautiful for who you are, regardless, how far you are. Shine bright, my princess.

[–] megopie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] Una@europe.pub 11 points 5 days ago
[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 5 days ago (2 children)

geawwwweefgawgebrferwrfdabrabbbbaffbfgeawwaaaaaaaa

~thanksi~ ~for~ ~havin~ ~dis~ ~kindsa~ ~confidence..,.~

[–] Hexarei@programming.dev 5 points 5 days ago

Not the best new password but it'll do

[–] Una@europe.pub 4 points 5 days ago
[–] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 10 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I'm too numb :c

Thanks tho.

[–] Una@europe.pub 12 points 5 days ago (1 children)

No! You are smart and beautiful and good girl <3

[–] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 9 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

I meant that I'm too numb to feel anything. As much as I need them, affirmations don't do anything for me anymore except make me feel even more numb and fake. I appreciate what you're trying to do though.

[–] Una@europe.pub 6 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Okie, I tried I'm here for my girls <3

[–] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 9 points 5 days ago

It's honestly still appreciated.

[–] maya@piefed.blahaj.zone 10 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] Una@europe.pub 10 points 5 days ago

I'm here to make my girls happy 🩷🩷

[–] WeLoveCastingSpellz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)
[–] justme@beehaw.org 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Thanks for being here to make your girls happy <3

[–] Una@europe.pub 2 points 4 days ago

🩷🩷 always <3