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[–] general_kitten@sopuli.xyz 6 points 15 hours ago

not even close but at least lately a bit better than last couple months

[–] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 6 points 20 hours ago

No. I'm pretty burnt out.

Everything I read on burnout says that the best (only?) way to treat it is to reduce or remove whatever is causing such chronic, disproportionate stress. Unfortunately, much of my burnout is caused by the most basic aspects of living (partly because I have disabilities that make it hard to reliably fulfill my basic needs, even with support).

Given that cutting out the bad stuff isn't an option, I've been trying to instead add more good stuff to my life, in hopes that it will increase my capacity and thus reduce my relative level of burnout. I'm so tremendously tired though. I'm trying so hard because I do want to live, and there are things I feel I can offer the world. However, sometimes, in my exhaustion, I find myself thinking wistfully about the depression I felt as a young adult — it was simpler when I genuinely and wholeheartedly wanted to die. In some ways, it was easier to be hopeless and merely staying alive for other people.

I'm just tired.

[–] Senseless@feddit.org 45 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Not at all. Thanks for asking.

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm sorry to hear that what's going on?

[–] Senseless@feddit.org 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If it's okay with you I'd like to share that privately.

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 21 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I'm quitting all my jobs and will be unable to afford housing very soon. (again)

But at least I will be able to breathe.

[–] andybytes@programming.dev 4 points 21 hours ago

I don't even believe in god, but I'm still praying for you.

[–] Kyrgizion@lemmy.world 31 points 1 day ago

The horrors persist, But so do I

[–] Pnut@lemm.ee 9 points 1 day ago (3 children)

My long time girlfriend that cheated on me and got pregnant is solely confiding in me because she found out the other guy cheated on her. I'm an innocent and relatively quiet guy. I feel like I'm being pulled into a black hole.

[–] andybytes@programming.dev 5 points 21 hours ago

Turn off your phone and hide. Or just straight up tell her to fuck off. You know, as a third party, you can help people but you're in too deep, it's best for you to cut off all ties. Who has the time to deal with this bullshit fuckery? Plus, I can show you a real black hole. Say No, Baby Mama Drama.

[–] big_slap@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

go with your gut instinct. if you feel like you're being pulled into a black hole, you are.

I recoiled very hard when I read this... im not sure what you will do next, but good luck man. reach out if you need a random person to talk to.

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[–] Atelopus-zeteki@fedia.io 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm not ok, but I'm gonna be alright.

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[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 19 hours ago

At the risk of sounding corny or edgy, I feel like I'm balancing on the edge of light and dark. Sometimes I'm very righteously angry with the world and then later I feel stupid about the anger or even shame. Trying to be more positive but negativity is so easy to slip back into when you're not looking and every slip or meltdown feels like you've reset your progress.

Trying to come out of the shadows and make friends and community and shit but I let myself down in that regard a lot. Life could be better but a lot of it is what you make of it too.

[–] Reygle@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Pretty shite, honestly. Going to be a bit of a piece of shit until Friday at 5, at which point I'll be disappearing from society for a few days

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 4 points 22 hours ago

Ah, the weekend bender. When you wake up Tuesday morning, take a shower, and wonder why you have a "welcome to Michigan" bumper sticker slapped on your ass.

.......when did you go to Michigan?

[–] oxideseven@lemmy.ca 3 points 21 hours ago

Yeah. Fine. You ok?

[–] Pickle_Jr@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I think I'm doing well all things considered, thanks!

The only reason I can't speak for certainty is because of my anxiety from well.. gesters at what's happening to my country. This anxiety is also making my executive distinction worse which is probably my biggest day-to-day challenge at the moment.

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 4 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

gesters at what’s happening to the country

Yeah.....that'll do it. I don't even know which country specifically you're from. I assume one of the ones on Earth. And honestly that whole planet is a flaming dumpster fire.

Except Antartica.

[–] i_love_FFT@jlai.lu 1 points 18 hours ago

Yeah, that one is just a melting dumpster... slushy?

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yep the whole thing is fucked it's bound to effect other things

[–] peaceful_world_view@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago
[–] SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org 3 points 22 hours ago

Ok is a strong word. But then others have it way worse, so I don't want to complain. All things considered I am quite lucky. Gotta try and make the best out of it, right?

[–] sixtoe@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

not great TBH tanks for asking. no one asks me anymore. its nice to read. even tho its not personally directed itll do.

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's ok I really want to know

[–] sixtoe@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 20 hours ago

i post enough of my bullshit. if you get to them before i delete they will give you an idea.

[–] Mirror Giraffe@piefed.social 17 points 1 day ago

I've noticed a correlation with me skipping yoga, meditation, avoiding excessive phone usage and my stress levels rising, sleep worsening and mood dips.

Thanks for the check up, I'll try to take my health more serious!

There are times when I hang out with someone and I'll be unbelievably happy for a couple days afterwards. Then I begin to feel a bit sad and unmotivated for a few days after that because I want more of that happiness they gave me. That kind of happiness high can be a bit intense.

I have only a small handful of friends these days but the ones I have now are able to show me trust, appreciation and love so easily. Something that has not been very common in my life in general.

I just keep reminding myself that there are people who genuinely care about me as I am and it gets a bit easier to motivate myself again. Little by little.

Also helps that my parents stopped watching the 24 hour news channel so much. Not hearing the news has saved a bit more of my shrinking sanity.

[–] Zenith@lemm.ee 7 points 1 day ago

Going to the cystic fibrosis clinic today, I hate going to the doctor but it’s an upgrade because I used to have to go to the transplant clinic instead which would require way more invasive tests but I’m still nervous. But aside from all the shitty stuff going on in the world things have been ok for me, my daughter is home for the summer from college and we have been really relishing our together time

[–] HalfSalesman@lemm.ee 7 points 1 day ago
[–] Aviandelight@mander.xyz 8 points 1 day ago

Functionally yes mentally and emotionally no. I just got word this week that our bosses are taking away our hybrid work schedule and making us come back into the office full time. I like my work and coworkers well enough but it's not enough to keep me in an employer that's abusive. Now all I can think about is the next round of surprise layoffs that are sure to follow. Last year was absolute hell always feeling watched and expendable. This year is looking to much of the same. I'm already looking for another job and kicking myself in the butt for putting it off for so long.

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago

Hangin in, my homie, hangin in :)

I still have my drinking on a leash, I have managed to buy a house for my fiancée and I, I have a job that is good enough and in time I can move if I choose to, I am working on building a life for her and I, and it's coming together

I am getting better at accepting that the choices I have made that led me here cannot be undone, that on the balance of things I have done more good than harm in this world, and that I should spend more time acknowledging my successes rather than chastising myself for things that are in the past

My woman is the best thing that has ever happened to me, and I will strive to be a man worthy of her love

That keeps everything in perspective

It's like the human version of "be the person your dog thinks you are". Sadly, my dog is a dick and he knows I am too

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I haven't been okay in over 40 years, why should today be any different?

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[–] Endymion_Mallorn@kbin.melroy.org 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Thank you. Yeah, when I think about it, I'm basically okay. Could be better, but I'm going to keep going and not let perfect be the event of good.

How're you?

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm ok thanks today hasn't gone wrong yet

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[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 day ago

Nope. But I think I'm taking a mental health day today.

[–] tomenzgg@midwest.social 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It couldn't be going worse, Keith.

[–] ronalicious@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

it's been really hard, for almost a year... but I got some news last week that released a lot of weight for me.

i still have a lot to work thru, but I'm working on accepting what's in front of me and the choices I made that got me here.

sincerely hope all the homies here are ok, or can find a path towards it.

[–] Mrkawfee@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (4 children)

If I don't check social media or think about the horrors and unchecked injustices that are going on in the world then I'm OK.

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[–] leftzero@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 1 day ago

No! 😃


In the beginning the Universe was created.
This had made many people very angry and has been widely regarded as a bad move.

— Douglas Adams, The Restaurant at the End of the Universe (The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, #2)

[–] TBi@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

Depends on the mornings. Some days good, some days filled with dread!

Fun…

[–] Geodad@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Well, I resigned from my job and enrolled in a famous university for another degree.

Also applied, interviewed, and was hired for a ptj - all in the same day.

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