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Warning: Grapefruit can interact with drugs, such as decreasing the effectiveness of estradiol, making Oxycodone last longer, increasing blood levels when on Viagra, and much more.

Grapefruit inhibits multiple enzymes in the small intestine, most notably CYP3A4. CYP3A4 is involved in the breaking down of a lot of drugs, so when it's inhibited Oxycodone becomes inactive slower, and estradiol won't break down all the way into estrogen. Drugs that are affected by grapefruit will often have warnings on their packaging

Personally, I like putting just a little bit of salt on my grapefruit, to counteract the bitter flavor. Dumping sugar on it doesn't help. Grapefruits are about half as sour as lemons, since they have half the citric acid content.

Grapefruits were accidentally created as a cross between the sweet orange and the pomelo, in Barbados. Those fruits originate from Asia, but were brought to the Caribbean in the 17th century. Since it's parent fruits are native to Asia, it grows well in Asia too.

some-controversy and peekaboo (China and Vietnam) are the two largest producers of Grapefruits, producing collectively 6.3 million tons out of the 9.8 million tons of worldwide production.

The painting was made by Robert Papp, who has a website here: https://robertpapp.com/. I don't really know anything about the guy.

The lemon things with all of the recipes was really cool, but to be honest I just like grapefruit raw, cut in half and ate with a spoon.


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[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 11 points 5 months ago

monty oum was cooking when he made samus and john halo lesbians

[โ€“] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 11 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It's been decided that in order to see my other pronouns you have to download the tracha matrix DLC. Sorry, my publisher makes the rules, not me doggirl-growl

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago

You can unlock my pronouns by taking me on a dinner date, sit down only, you have to tip

[โ€“] CDommunist@hexbear.net 11 points 5 months ago (1 children)

If you are a burger, prepare to pay $700+ for the new Switch thanks to tariffs

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[โ€“] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago (4 children)

Thank you to everyone who liked the previous mega, I hope I inspired you to make a lemon treat

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago (3 children)

i-think-that if a game lets me adjust my facial hair I should also be able to adjust my boob size

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[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago

havin' a case of the Gloom today

It's cold and dark and rainy and miserable here and I'm exhausted and sad and don't feel good so I'm just gonna go to bed early and write off the whole day catgirl-flop

[โ€“] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago (1 children)

depresso-posting

I wish "getting better" didn't have to hurt so much. I know rationally that having a decent amount of neutral days, and even very occasionally having a good day, is better than just feeling continuously like the lowest shit day after day after day after day. But at least when I'm constantly broken down I can get kind of numb to it, right now it's like I feel good just enough to not get used to feeling bad, just enough to be constantly hit with this soulcrushing whiplash. Built up just enough that I can break again.

I know it's all part of the process, like building a muscle, it gets torn and heals back stronger bit by bit by bit over time. Just wish that that could get from the part of my brain that knows things to the part of my brain that feels things, just wish that in the meantime I wasn't just some whiny little shit who feels bad about having good days, like what the fuck.

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago

spoilerYea the whole "trending upward" thing still kinda sucks and I think is where I'm at.

[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago (2 children)

I can't understand how a cross between an orange and a pomelo could be so awful.

[โ€“] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago

This is the hottest take of the grapefruit mega

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[โ€“] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago

dating, anxiety, sex (overall things are pretty good)

The person that asked me out on a second date/meetup finally got back to me. I wanted to show some initiative, and she had suggested the first location, so I suggested a couple options for dinner and activities. Was very nervous since she has been a bit slow in communication, and I was anxious that I didn't make a first impression and that she was just going to let me down lightly or ghost me. That was just anxiety talking, and she liked some of the suggestions! She's just busy right now and maybe coming down with something. So, definitely excited. I really like her, and I hate that my anxiety has been needlessly souring my feelings.

The other person that I scheduled a date with, well, I decided to stop playing coy/hard to get and ask some questions about sex to make sure that we were actually compatible in that department. It sounds like we are. It feels really good to be desired. I think that some clear communication here was very valuable in increasing my comfort levels. Definitely nervous, but increasingly excited. They're going to a convention that my BFF is concidentally going to, so I am going to orchestrate a meetup so my BFF can give them a secondhand vibe check for me.

In non dating news, my ears have healed up enough (8+ weeks post piercing) for trying out new pairs. Well out last night with some spiked hoops and some chain earcuffs. The earmuffs didn't match since I didn't interpret the multipack product description correctly, but I was able to use a pair of those pieces and mod them into a better option (one of the cuffs has a dangling stud, the other a dangling sword.) I didn't get any specific compliments on those, but got a ton of compliments on my outfit in general, especially my studded PU leather jacket. I honestly thought it was a bit much or a bit corny, but I guess my inner alt/goth girl knows better than my grown-up woman brain.

[โ€“] SpookyGenderCommunist@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago (1 children)

CW Social DysphoriaFeeling incredibly dysphoric and isolated from the women in my life, today.

I feel like my transition has stagnated for a variety of reasons and I wish I could reach out to some of the cis girls in my life for advice on feminine things, but it's hard because I don't know what I don't know. And if I want to like, engage with them about "girl stuff", and don't even know where to start.

And I can't just be like "hi please talk to me about girl things" cuz then I'm the weirdo who doesn't even know what things to talk about.

And then I try to express this frustration to them, and I don't know if it really registers...

Like...idk! Just talk to me! Help me! Help me feel valued and included, rather then just a weird, annoying, pantomime of femininity!

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[โ€“] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago (2 children)

ADHD medsVyvanse seems good so far. Thats the update. I can do my job now and focus on what I want to. Its easy. Let's hope it lasts

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[โ€“] iArtemis@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago

me communing with the mods to give cool fruit facts about all the citrus i've been craving the last few weeks

[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 9 points 5 months ago

lifehack: if your car's aux cable is loose, for peak cultural enrichment listen to ambient music to gain at least one minute of enjoyment before realising the music has stopped

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