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[–] loopedcandle@lemmynsfw.com 19 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Real talk?

Because I'm tired. So absurdly tired. Tired of the stupid and the sensationalism and the faked anger and the real suffering and pain.

Am I mad? Yeah. But unfortunately I'm way more tired.

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There’s plenty that are mad.

Just that the minority that are happy about it and the billionaires that own all forms of media keep sweeping that fact under the rug. Or they put a question mark at the end of it. Are Americans all that upset about trump? How much damage is trump really doing? And then they softball the response to questions like that with “who really knows what the damage will be? when it’s objective what the results are and the future holds.

[–] Sabata11792@ani.social 7 points 5 days ago

Everyone is mad and everyone can't agree why were mad so now were more mad.

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 7 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

i think they are. they just been propagandized so hard with anticommunism that they are at a loss of what to do. thats not even just the us.

[–] drmoose@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I think we're just on a down wave globally. In early 00s we got social media which helped to organize people and lead to real actionable ideas. The bad actors figured it out and took control of our tools and now people are waiting for a new opportunity.

I think Americans need a strong leader and something to break the camel's back. Everyone's who's angry now doesn't have a good "deal" for risking exposure and their complacency because the failures are just too recent.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

"Wanting a strong leader" is what gave us trump. You be a leader or allow yourself to be led by people in your local community. There is no perfect leader that could ever check everyone's boxes. If there was one thing we could all agree on I'd like to know what it fucking is.

[–] GoofSchmoofer@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

trump isn't a strong leader, he's a very accomplished con artist.

He allows people to project their vision of who he is on him.

You say I'm christian? Sure I'll pretend I am

You say I'm anti abortion? Sure I'll pretend that I am

You say I'm for the little guy? Sure, I'll pretend that I care about them

You say I'm anti-vax? Sure, I'll tell you that I am

You say I'm the second coming of Christ? Okay, I'm good with you thinking that about me

You say I'm a strong patriot? Sure, I'll hug the flag and say the words you need me to say

He is everything to everyone of his supporters because he never tells them that they are wrong about who he is.

A strong leader is someone that has strong convictions and articulates them in a way that resonates with the population. They are not people that waffle in their ideals, you either like their stance or you don't. Smart ones will adjust their ideas over time but they do this from a strong ideological foundation. Some are genuinely good people like MLK, jr. others are more despotic. What America needs is one or two genuinely good strong leaders.

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[–] Auli@lemmy.ca 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

The majority of people votes for this that is why. The no voters just wanted a clean conscious but they still voted for this.

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[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 6 days ago

Culture war.

[–] bitwolf@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 days ago

Everyone I talk to is mad, my family is a bunch of Tumpers and beloeve everything he says.

[–] scoobford@lemmy.zip 14 points 6 days ago (3 children)

Your core supposition is wrong, basically everyone is mad about the state of our country. We just have several different ideas on how to fix it and two parties who are dedicated to making it worse.

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[–] mrslt@lemmy.world 12 points 6 days ago (4 children)
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[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 15 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Visibly queer minority here! I’m probably gonna go to jail sometime in the next year for being trans in public. Until I do though, I’ve been lobbying state congress about some of the bills on the docket.

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[–] aesthelete@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

The feeling that nobody else really gives a shit is what does it for me.

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[–] SuiXi3D@fedia.io 14 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Who says we aren’t? Do you know how big this country is, and how much money it takes to fly to DC to protest? Do you understand that nobody wants to die for taking a shot at Trump or Elon?

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[–] Default_Defect@midwest.social 11 points 6 days ago (9 children)

Most of us want someone else to do what needs to be done because we're too busy simply making ends meet. Sure, let me just call out of work to do some protesting, oh shit, now I can't afford rent, or food, or my meds, or paying off my last Dr visit, etc.

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[–] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

We're all mad at each other.

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[–] SomeAmateur@sh.itjust.works 13 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (5 children)

It gets said over and over but the country is huge and your experience can vary greatly. If you are a govt employee work is likely more chaotic, some more than others. Telework people coming back to the office, looming layoffs, people resigning/staying, big organizational shifts etc.

If you know a person deported of who may be deported you are probably very concerned for them and the world feels turned upside down.

But for most people the gas prices are about the same, groceries are about the same and their life is about the same. If it wasn't for the news/internet most people probably couldn't tell the difference between administrations so far. It takes a big event you can't easily ignore (Covid 19, Hurricane Helene, LA fires) for even ONE REGION of the country to focus on a problem for a while.

And even then if you are outside of that area people probably won't change their routine beyond posting about it.

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[–] reksas@sopuli.xyz 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)
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[–] Gen_Euffe@sh.itjust.works 8 points 6 days ago

Complacency

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 8 points 6 days ago

We're all mad

[–] psmgx@lemmy.world 10 points 6 days ago

Decades of very effective propaganda combined with intrinsic ideological biases.

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