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[–] ALiteralCabbage@feddit.uk 2 points 1 hour ago

Fried. Work is manic, I've been dealt a bad hand in a game I didn't know I was playing, and I don't get paid nearly enough to deal with it.

I stopped going to counselling recently too, and I'm sort of regretting that too.

But the sun isn't setting at 4pm any more, and I've got some time off over the next few weeks so hopefully I can recharge and un-anxiety my brain, if I ever get some time to myself to fix up my bicycle and get some KMs in my legs.

[–] d00phy@lemmy.world 5 points 6 hours ago

Completely frazzled right now. Trying to hold it together. I’m in the US, and to maintain my mental health I’ve sworn off news. Seriously, 10 minutes of the news and my heart rate is up and I’m genuinely worried about my and my wife’s jobs. Shutting it out has allowed me to focus on a Crit Sit at work while I have 3 other customers biding for my time. I know being heavily in demand doesn’t mesh with my previous statement, but my company could be heavily affected by cheeto’s current flavor of “foreign policy.”

[–] Lazycog@sopuli.xyz 6 points 7 hours ago

Good good, updated a vaccination I needed to update, got food, and now on lunch break.

[–] Alice@beehaw.org 3 points 7 hours ago

Tired. Worked ten and a half hours yesterday. Went to bed early but my ankles are still feeling it.

If I can peel myself off the couch in the next ten minutes I'm gonna get an hour of pec exercises in before work. That's a big if though, because my cat is asleep beside me right now and she's soooo cute.

[–] Servais@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

All good on my side, it's sunny where I live today ☀️

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

With snow on the ground or without it?

[–] Servais@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)
[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 2 points 2 hours ago

That's impressive. The roads are sadly still slippery where I live. I don't dislike Winter, but that's definitely a downside.

[–] nesc@lemmy.cafe 4 points 8 hours ago

Procrastinating at work, while trying to come with some lie about previous three days of procrastination before a meeting.