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[–] tlou3please@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Travel. I grew up in a working class family in a rich area and I was always jealous of the other kids spending time over the holidays skiing, going to Egypt, Italy, all sorts.

I've ticked off a few countries now but almost all around Europe. I want to see more of the world, just not affordable at this stage in my life.

[–] mossy_@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago

I wished I was more creatively inclined. Building stuff, playing music, drawing, the works. I've bounced off it a couple times since then but I'm at a job where I work with my hands now so I'm getting money and practice 😗

I also wished I was a girl but that turned out to be more possible then I knew at the time

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 2 points 10 hours ago

To be a pretty girl

Growing up now, I've learned I was always a girl. I'm working on the pretty part.

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

More from my college years, but an ex made off with more than half of my video game collection right before scalpers/speculators started driving prices through the roof. Most of my GameBoy games. My favorite GameCube games. All of my Genesis, GameGear, Xbox360, and N64 games plus each of those consoles. Including multiple complete in box games. The argument was that she found and bought some of what she kept, but it was always bought using my fucking money. She didn't have a job past our first year together. Really had me swindled. Don't mingle finances until you're married folks.

From childhood? A whole bunch of LEGO sets that are either out of print now or are still stupid expensive. Hard to justify $50+ on LEGO.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 2 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

I still want a spaceship capable of FTL travel. And teleporters. And replicators. And a utopian post-scarcity society.

[–] Coelacanth@feddit.nu 18 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Happiness and peace of mind.

[–] harrys_balzac@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 12 hours ago

Feeling loved and lots of hugs.

[–] nesc@lemmy.cafe 6 points 18 hours ago

Freedom, my own place, stability.

[–] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 0 points 9 hours ago

An AK-47. The biggest reason that I haven't gotten one is that it''s just not very practical. Parts aren't interchangeable without a lot of hand fitting, ammunition has gotten ridiculously expensive due to sanctions against Russia, range isn't great (those 7.62 bullets are heavy and slow; hitting anything past 200y is a real challenge), etc., etc. They've also gotten fairly expensive, while prices for more modern rifles have dropped sharply.

I might still get one eventually. I'd like to have one, just to shoot for fun, but there are so many other higher priorities.

[–] Gnugit@aussie.zone 6 points 19 hours ago

HeMan castle set.

[–] xilliah@beehaw.org 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I've always wanted to visit a factory. I've been in an airbus factory and that was nice, there were Tibetan monks there too. But it wasn't like a factory factory.

[–] CarbonBasedNPU@lemm.ee 1 points 10 hours ago

can you explain the monks or were they just there?

[–] UniversalMonk@lemmy.kya.moe 0 points 10 hours ago

My own robot. But hey, that day may be coming!

[–] inlandempire@jlai.lu 10 points 22 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Servais@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 21 hours ago (1 children)
[–] inlandempire@jlai.lu 1 points 17 hours ago

I mean it's been like 20 years, I'm over it, but kid me is still angsty

[–] retrovalkyrie@lemm.ee 3 points 17 hours ago (2 children)
[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

You can get a good quality repro cart, repro box, and repro players guide all together on AliExpress for ~$80 if you shop around. Or at least you could a year ago.

Still super overpriced, but cheaper than dealing with a scalper.

[–] retrovalkyrie@lemm.ee 3 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I would sooner put it on my Everdrive and call it a day, tbh. I will probably never own it unless the market crashes.

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 10 hours ago

Yeah, at that point you're most of the way to a flash cart's cost anyway. Was a big gift for someone I knew cared about having something to display.

[–] peregrin5@lemm.ee 1 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

You never emulated it either?

[–] retrovalkyrie@lemm.ee 1 points 11 hours ago

Of course I have. But I am a physical game collector.

[–] Collatz_problem@hexbear.net 5 points 20 hours ago
[–] thezeesystem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 18 hours ago

Being able to exist without making my existence political

[–] Alice@beehaw.org 1 points 14 hours ago

Not sure if you were going for answers more like "ice cream for dinner every night" or "not having glass bones and paper skin, not breaking my legs every morning and not breaking my arms every afternoon".

My frivolous answer is a balcony. My depressing answer is a best friend and/or a sister close to my age who is nice to me. OR for my dad to die. OR to wake up and learn that my life was a dream and I'm someone else.

Idk, I was a depressing kid.

[–] Faydaikin@beehaw.org 7 points 22 hours ago

Less mental illnessess and back problems.

[–] guy@piefed.social 3 points 19 hours ago

Wast amounts of money.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 5 points 22 hours ago

I had a couple of idols in my childhood I wanted to meet (technically three, but I kind of accepted the third would be out of the question). I met one, and am proud to say we're great friends who regularly communicate, but the other one remained unmet, and a few years ago, he sadly committed suicide. RIP Jason David Frank.

[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 3 points 20 hours ago