wizardbeard

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[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

It started as a shitposty counter-movement to the overwhelming amount of posts here that are just news and politics. At this point I think it's being perpetuated by the meme of it all.

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 8 hours ago

Maybe. It would entirely depend on my level of comfort with the other person, and their personality.

I've had wealthier friends, who I did not have a sexual relationship with, pay for my share of a hotel room for a convention. A different one treated me out to a (cheap for a concert, but not cheap for me) concert. I had known those friends for at least a year in both of those cases and had no worries about them or their personalities.

As another commentor said, what happens if you have a falling out while you're over there?

Also, depending on your relationship, and the personality of the person paying, they could use this as a form of control. They could effectively treat this as entirely their vacation, and you're just the human sex toy they brought along who's going to stay in the room the whole time until they want your "services". Or you're just the trophy boytoy to hang off her arm and look pretty. You wouldn't have much room to push back on it.

Or this could just be someone living in a different income bracket to you trying to do something nice for you that isn't a big expense for them. I personally think that's less likely with a trip to the Maldives, but it's not impossible.

Or this could be them trying to turn the FWB situation into something more serious.

As with most things in relationships, even FWB, it would probably be worth talking with them. "Hey, I'm happy that you'd do this for me, but I've never done something like this before. Is there anything you're looking for from me as your plus one?"

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 16 hours ago

This is the exact sort of thing the cornposting was started because of. Fuck off with this.

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 20 hours ago

Beyond that, there's definite value in being able to create queries using natural language, and not needing to always know the specific technical terminology of something while still being able to get pointed in the right direction.

It's the whole non-deterministically regurgitate a poor quality combination of all your stolen training data while not citing sources and using absurd resources that I have a problem with, personally.

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 21 hours ago

Didn't you get the memo? We corn now.

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)
 

Bah humbug.

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Somewhere in the distance, you hear a Mariah Carey. Check the doors again. Locked. Good. Safe.

Louder. Closer. Maybe the neighbors? Blinds closed already. Won't see movement through the windows. Wait! Lights. Turn them off? Risky. It could see the change. Sounds like it's at the end of the street. Risky. Still may be time. Risk it? Don't?

Crashing noise. The "song" rises to a frenzied pitch. Screams. Not yours. Quick! While it's busy. Lights off. Safer. Safe enough?

Closer now. "Song". Disgusting mockery of humanity, cheer. Clawing at the edges of your sanity.

Sudden quiet. Blessed silence. Over? No. Muffled crunch of "footsteps" in snow. Close enough to hear. Safe enough?

A thump. Against a door. Your door? No. Close.

I don't want a lot for Christmas...

Scratching. Nails against glass. Not your window. Safe enough?

This is all I'm asking for...

Sudden cachophony. What did it do? No. Inside. It's here. But no. Outside. Continues."Song". More noise. Here! Inside!

A duet! Not safe enough.

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 2 days ago

SpoilerPaz's VA, describing GZ badly:

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I respect the statement, but no way in hell they win this.

Translation: Creating a recurring meeting to look into changing to the our processes to have better PR while not costing any money.

Roughly translated from management speak: We'll need to come back to this specific aspect of the discussion on its pwn later, so we can more directly focus on this one part.

Could be blowing smoke to get someone stuck on something to let go so the meeting can move on, or a legitimate "this part deserves its own dedicated discussion".

There's a decent bit of good "steering" of groups and discussions that comes out of management speak, but the word choice and phrasing makes it needlessly opaque, and very "fellow kids".

Sometimes the opaqueness can be intentional too, to avoid making someone feel like their idea has been dismissed, or to slow down somebody while they parse what was just said so they can't keep rapid fire talking and dominating the conversation.

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I've been lucky enough to find a job under capitalism where I have more than enough freedom and power in my environment to feel myself.

Checkmate Marx! All that stuff about worker rights is bullshit! /s

But seriously, I wish that wasn't such a ridiculous unicorn of a thing to find, because that aspect in and of itself has become it's own shackle. I'm afraid to seek out more competitive pay and lose the (relatively) happy/fulfilling aspects of my job.

 

PrefaceI'm not trying to call out the mod action of removing my post from the comm so much as I'm calling out the complete lack of mod action leading to the comm becoming shit and having the current top post by scaled, hot, and active being a post that explicitly targets another lemmy user.

That out of the way... !mildlyinfuriating@lemmy.world has clearly been slipping from the purpose of the comm for a while now. Most of the posts are actually infuriating and/or political. I understand that what qualifies as either of those can be different for different people, but I feel most of this shit clearly isn't mundane or simple enough to fall under the label of just mildly infuriating.

Here's some examples from the first page right now, sorted by scaled.

While I could have sworn the sidebar had a no politics rule, it doesn't at the time of me writing this up, so politics are arguably acceptable, although I personally feel these all clearly don't match the theme of the community, violating Rule 7.

Sidebar, and expanded rule 7

A few other posts have been made calling this out.

Mod harder and [META] What actually constitutes "mildly infuriating" content?

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Beyond all that mess, we have what was the final straw for me.

Rule 1 (and less so 5), and the current top post by scaled, hot, and active.

I cannot accept that a post to mildly infuriating that targets a specific user while not even removing their username is respectful, and I personally consider it harassment (while it may not violate rule 5 as there is no call to action). Removing the username is usually the bare minimum even in the fucking reddit brigading subs, for plausible deniability.

And regardless of whatever arguments can be had about interpretations of the community's specific rules, it's a dick move. Just block the guy. It reminds me of the god awful reddit dogpiling and brigading. I don't want any of that to come to lemmy.

So I reported it, then saw the recent posts asking mods for action that got no response. I then looked at the mods.

  • LillianVS@lemmy.world (Aer) has not been active in two years.
  • STRIKINGdebate2@lemmy.world (Striker) has not been active in one year.
  • Tenthrow@lemmy.world had not appeared to be active for six days at the time I reported the post, but upon checking the community mod log was likely active two days before (assuming that the other two wouldn't be just lurking and modding for over a year).

So I did something dumb as hell. Roughly an hour after I reported it, I made my own post (now removed from the comm). I find people who make call out posts about others, and the absentee mods allowing it, mildly infuriating. Yeah, childish as shit. What's done is done.

Modlog:

Removed for "doesn't fit community", but what do you folks think? Does it really not fit when the top post is what it is? Personally I think both should be gone, lest that comm descend further into shit.

Either way, now that I have this yell into the void out of me, I'm blocking the comm. Maybe I should have made my post in actually infuriating? (kidding)

 

That is a threat.

From some back to school flyer.

 

We understand that this is a jarring and sudden change, but we're proud of our audio team's ability to create suitable replacements with such short notice. We hope that in time, these new sounds will grow to hold a place in your heart just like the old ones.

(Original post: https://lemmy.world/post/38428736)

 

I have so many great memories from childhood vacations to Mystery Flesh Pit National Park. I cant believe the disaster happened all the way back in 2007.

At least someone has been collecting and documenting everything they can find from the old place: https://www.mysteryfleshpitnationalpark.com/

I still can't make it all the way through the disaster report.

 

This ancient video has ruined this song for me. My toddler is getting into Sesame Street, so the original song is on rotation in the car for the kid friendly playlist. Hard to keep from giggling.

Post name is from the video.

 

Jerboa's not too bad, as the URL field is the same field the link to your uploaded image ends up overwriting, but I swear I see people making this mistake every fucking day. End up posting just an image when they wanted image + link.

Apologies, as I'm sure there's proper channels for this, and open source projects tend to not have the best UIs. Just shouting into the void.

 

Definitely a repost, but it fits the season

 
 
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