My dad died back in 2016 when I was 25 so I got an early inheritance to invest at a good time.
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Having travelled a lot, I feel I was born into what I consider a great country just as it was starting to pull itself out of poverty. Pure chance.
I got a good education and college was essentially free.
I have a lot of kids and work really hard at being a good dad so I am surrounded by love. I am very lucky that I am married twenty years (some better than others) to someone who still loves me and who I still love. Some days that love is all that keeps me going because fuck me I am exhausted haha.
I feel uncomfortable typing all that out but it's a good exercise in thankfulness so thank you.
Gotta practice thankfullness everyday.
A lot of people saying white + male, I'm not white but I'm light skinned in a country where colourism is a social plague, random people literally call me "whitey" and "blondy" despite me literally having a black mother, when I tell them I'm not white they reply "yes, you are", and I'm like "OK, mfer, apparently you know better than me to what ethnic group I belong". Can't say I haven't benefited from it, the police has almost never given me shit (they did once to be exact). I'm also a heterosexual cis man, and even tho I was born and raised in the poorest district of a big city my father always told me to cultivate my intellect, so I learned multiple languages (English being one of those), went to community college, taught myself software development, etc. I didn't have the biggest head start in life, but compared to my friends in the hood, and women and immigrants across the whole country I simply cannot complain.
I have an IQ of 123 in spacial recognition.
If you're logic enough the next step is 1234
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I dunno. I feel I get worse and worse at things the older I get.
So, you did not die young?
yeah that ship has sailed.
i have a decent understanding of unix-like systems.
i live on one of the richest, most developed countries in the world with a good social system and universal healthcare and retirement.
Born in Europe, Not an immigrant, financially stable, free education, not part of any significant minority
White + was lucky to get a good job early on + parents had enough capital in their home to guarantor for my home loan at 28.
I am helping many needy peoples.
English teacher who made me write a 500 word essay every day for a semester.
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I've experienced both extremes of fiscal class: inherited wealth and opportunity as well as prison and homelessness. It's a double edged sword, a great curse and advantage concurrently.
I guess being white male, and 198cm/6foot6 Though this is a curse also.
I am very comfortable with my own company also, and never get bored so many things to do and learn!
Hey 198cm club!
Everyone thinking you're super strong is both a curse and a blessing too.
same lol
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Being born in our times.
Everyone I know owns a business, or is a landlord
Pro: I never get seasick, no matter how rough it gets. Con: Terrified of heights and flying.
My mom is absolutely terrified of heights, to the point where she can't stand on a chair without someone holding it. On tables isn't happening. Ever.
But she's perfectly fine with flying, and does so at least a couple of times per year. I even offered to take her flying in a very small aircraft a while back, and she had no problem with the idea.
Everything higher than the second floor of a building is a big nope to me. My family made me go on holidays via airplane back when I was a wee child and I kept screaming for the entire duration of both flights. They never tried that shite ever again. I mean, what did they expect, really, knowing damn well about my severe anxiety issues? Even today I'd never set foot on any kind of aircraft, even with knockout medication and a million Dollars in return. Just no. I do not belong in the sky. I need solid ground or water under my feet. Interestingly enough it's cool for me to go hiking in the mountains. The mountains are solid and therefore they are my friends. If I fall down, that's on me then.