I get it. I was young once, and my lizard brain did all the driving. I didn't pull my head out of my ass until 27, and the pop could be heard around the globe. That actually coincides with the last cognitive development stage, which happens around 26-27. Life before then seems so unbelievably cringeworthy.

The thing, though is that men in general do not bond or mentor each other, generally, or at the very least, we don't surround ourselves with people who we can learn from, because funni.

Men need to work on helping each other grow. Memes are great. Booze is fun. However, there should be something deeper than context based friendships, and that all starts with being comfortable talking and being somewhat vulnerable with each other, and honest with ourselves about what we are feeling internally.

Hence "guys that are more out of shape than me."

The problem with 4 chan and most online forums is that the hormone levels behind the keyboard are through the roof and they just want sex. They don't care about actually fixing or changing themselves - they want to do the minimum required to get laid.

Sometimes hormone level go so high, that 4channers shart to develop academia-level projects and (presumably) inspire MIT researchers. I talk specifically about PPP from /mlp/, but there is also /chag/.

Yeah the guy could work in not viewing success in a vagina access based way. That would help hus personality for sure.

It's a delicate balance. Swing too far in the other direction and you end up like me, believing you are inferior to everyone.

He should also back them into a corner so they wont be easily distracted and can focus on his words.

You're right, but untalls really got the short end of the stick. The most desperate virgin I've ever spent time with was 5 foot nothing, fat, ugly as fuck with a fucking haircut that looks like his mom cut it for him.

Those are a lot of hurdles to jump, but he insisted that he was the most masculine man. Full testosterone top to bottom. He was an absolute creep with women and annoying as fuck to everyone. He was so unaware that he was spouting his conservative bullshit in a park slope bar and he kept laughing at the guy who said he was going to beat his ass. I dragged him out of there.

He rode a Ducati bike that he had to sit side saddle at red lights because his feet didn't reach the ground. We worked together on a few jobs but we were in Brooklyn for three months. He's the most pathetic person I've ever met and it fucked with me that he was so happy and upbeat while I was a miserable alcoholic at the time.

Two of my exes were significantly shorter than me, and I think at least half of them were my height or shorter. I don’t give a fuck, height is such an unimportant and arbitrary characteristic. I don’t know many women who care about it.

But I guess if you’re looking for shallow contact, you’ll find shallow people.

They all have huge penises and OP is ~~average.~~ gay.

FTFY

Well it is lying, until you change yourself. It is very hard work and takes years of focus and therapy, or a few extremely traumatic events or both.

yeah he's right, he's cursed to be alone forever, and he put that curse upon himself