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[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.world 7 points 10 months ago (2 children)

some traits are so hardcoded that to change them feels like lying

[–] bamfic@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago

Well it is lying, until you change yourself. It is very hard work and takes years of focus and therapy, or a few extremely traumatic events or both.