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[–] Yurt_Owl@hexbear.net 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

There are no good apps tinder ruined everything. Back in ye olde times match.com and okcupid were pretty good. Anyway I grew my boyfriend in a test tube.

My only advice is don't spend too long talking to someone who's giving you nothing back. Ditch and move on. Some people just drag conversations on way past the point they should have ended and tbh I never really understood why.

[–] Bnova@hexbear.net 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] ButtBidet@hexbear.net 8 points 2 years ago

Last time I checked, Craigslist banned personals after Trump signed some law about sex trafficking. It's kinda crap that the result of it was to shut down free personal ads.

[–] Othello@hexbear.net 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)

if youre autistic you can try hiki its for friendship too. most of the cis men are awful though.

[–] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I don't fuck with cis men but I haven't heard of that so ill try it! I am autistic and trans, so that sounds cool

[–] Othello@hexbear.net 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I don't fuck with cis men

healthy choices!

[–] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I take good care of myself

[–] Othello@hexbear.net 7 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

the only cis man in my life I like is my brother and thats because i raised him well.

[–] ilyenkov@hexbear.net 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Taimi is the best of for queer people, in my experience.

[–] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 7 points 2 years ago

Never heard of it, will grab!

[–] CthulhusIntern@hexbear.net 6 points 2 years ago

If you're into alternative lifestyles (kink, BDSM, polyamory, ENM, etc), Feeld. If not, Hinge.

[–] GarfieldYaoi@hexbear.net 6 points 2 years ago

There is none. They all suck.

A solid 5% of me going back to college is to hope to find someone outside of the dating app context.

[–] TrashGoblin@hexbear.net 5 points 2 years ago (2 children)

No one mentioned Feeld? Good if you're looking for poly, kinky, or both, and in a metro area. I met someone great I'm still seeing, really quickly, then not much for a while. But then I'm also in a small city, and a bad demographic for dating.

[–] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 5 points 2 years ago

I got that downloaded! I am in one of the biggest cities in america

[–] Florn@hexbear.net 2 points 2 years ago

This is actually the only app I've had success with

[–] Hohsia@hexbear.net 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It’s one of those things where everyone agrees dating apps are shit but there’s no other option

[–] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yeah im comiserating about it with a friend rn and swapping dating app stories

[–] Hohsia@hexbear.net 1 points 2 years ago

As usual, some ghoul’s want for profit is to blame

deeper-sadness

[–] biden@hexbear.net 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Hinge and Bumble are better than the alternatives I guess

[–] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 1 points 2 years ago

I'm on them and have been getting a few matches. Just started last night tho so ima give it time

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