A short term suggestion, not exactly automatically avoiding it, but adding a “via” waypoint, or a “stop”? So instead of A - B always going through the intersection, set a journey of A - B - C where B is a point you can go through which avoids the intersection
This is the best way.
Could probably have this setup in a shortcut so she can just click one button and itll automatically set this up
If your daughter gets anxiety or panic attacks while driving, I suggest her to get professional help/therapy instead of avoiding particular (but common) traffic situations. I’m talking from experience. Fostering the anxiety now by not acknowledging it, might end up with an ever longer road to recovery for self confidence later on.
I’m divided on this. I love driving and always volunteer to be the one who drives; I’ve never been in an accident and I can retain some control of the vehicle on snow/ice in tricky areas.
But I too avoid some intersections, either because I’d rather take a slower route where my car keeps moving, its not very safe, or I don’t want to make a left turn at a two way stop crossing six lanes of traffic (I’d rather go around the block to a stop light and turn left there).
I suppose it all depends on context.
I hear your argument, and I agree to it. For new drivers it should also become common sense to plan your route save and thus comfortable.
But OP specifically mentioned his daughter experiences anxiety. That pushes it into a different category if it was not meant metaphorically.
I agree about not avoiding and giving it power.
I have an irrational fear of heights. I don't let myself avoid triggering situations with common locations. Sure, I would allow myself not to step to the edge of a tall building cause how often does that happen. But I won't allow myself to avoid a bridge over a busy road in my own neighborhood on a walk.
Waze has a toggle called ‘avoid difficult intersections’.
Additionally, Waze has crowd sourced real time traffic hazard reporting (every Waze user can contribute).
I'm not an Apple Maps user and can't really say anything about such a feature available, even if I highly doubt it.
Maybe it's a solution to drive another way when she notices that that place is routed to? Then Apple Maps should re-route her and it should be mostly fine?
If that's not helpful for that particular intersection, ignore me :)
Sounds like your daughter needs to actually learn how to drive. I made scary mistakes when I was learning but the key was I learned to not make those mistakes. Take the phone out of the equation and let her learn the roads where she’s driving. Teach her to pay attention to her mirrors, what other drivers are doing (and not doing) and anticipate moronic behavior from other motorists.
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