Assuming you're saying that you're a woman who enjoys sex with men (not the only option of course, but probably the only one "milder" in the eyes of a bigot than homosexuals), answering yes to all of those still makes you an enemy of the patriarchy:

you shouldn't love men - you should be subservient to them, you shouldn't enjoy hobbies - you should be constantly pregnant and carrying at least one more child on your hip while making sure the house is tidy and your husband is fed, you shouldn't enjoy sex - especially not the kind that isn't for making babies, they save that for the "whore" (in their eyes) that they cheat on their wife with.

So not as scary to them as a potential cock up the arse (because they truly believe the gays are after their dirty buttholes), but really just about as threatening to their "traditional" way of life as homosexuals are.. I'd wear it as a badge of honour lol